In the past few days, Doudou has come back and asked me: "Mom, why do you say that Mr. Yang used to talk and laugh with other people, but when he saw me, he had no expression?"

I feel very sad in my heart, maybe the teacher didn't do things to the extent she expected because Doudou was originally a smart child, but she always had a careless attitude, so I had to enlighten the child: "Maotou, you remember to work hard, it doesn't matter if other people's attitudes are good, as long as you do your best and have a clear conscience, you don't have to care too much about others." Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info"

"Also, why can't I see Teacher Yang if I do well in the exam, and come to criticize me if I don't do well?" Doudou was a little aggrieved.

"Hehehe, it should be normal to do well in the test at your level, and it shouldn't be abnormal if you don't do well in the test, of course, you will be criticized. It's the same mood as your mother asks you. You have to understand that the teacher cares about you and whips you for your progress! You can't be antagonistic to the teacher, you know that people are good to you!"

"Then praise me too!"

"Hehe, you kid, do you still want to praise? If you don't praise your tail is up, your grades will fall down, and if you praise you again, you can't go up to the sky?" I teased her and dismissed the child's loss.

Although "strict teachers produce high apprentices", the teacher's strict teaching may give the child motivation, but it also hurts the child. But a teacher who has just left school is still a child, she has gone through such a set of educational processes, and there are ways to copy her teacher's practice, and she can no longer be forced to be perfect, so I have to always take care of the child's heart, and always enlighten and dispel the child's depression.

Interpret the teacher's mood of "hating iron does not become steel" and her intentions to the children.

After listening to my explanations, Doudou was able to understand and cooperate with the teacher's request.

said that the teacher criticized her for going to school late in the morning, and she woke up at 6:30 every day to go to school at 6:30.

Alas, what a hard time!

Doudou is a very simple child, he can't look at people's eyes, he can't please people, and sometimes he drags his feet, so he will inevitably be criticized by the teacher. But I don't want my child to learn the skills of speculation, drilling, and sycophancy, I would rather she be simple and honest all the time.

So I said to my children, "Do what you should do well, and don't do things you don't want to do in order to please the teacher." ”

Last night, Doudou's homework was written until 11:00, and I stayed with me to see that the child's hands were calloused, and I was very distressed!

"What would you think if I told you that I didn't want to write a word?" asked Doudou rhetorically.

"I can understand that education in China is like this: children are forced to study from an early age, until they hate to study! When they are admitted to university, they are so relaxed that they do not learn how to learn! In foreign countries, children play to their heart's content when they are young, and they only study hard when they are in college. So, education in China is a failure! But we can only adapt! I don't force you to add extra burdens, just complete the homework assigned by the teacher. I replied.

"Let's stay up for another 10 years, and in 10 years I won't have to work so hard again!" Doudou looked yearning.

"How can there be ten years? It's only five years! If you get into a good university, everything will be fine. I corrected.

"Didn't you say you had to do homework in college?" Doudou said in surprise as he looked at me.

"Oh, of course, I have a lot of homework in medicine, and I don't have any homework in other majors. So only the middle school years are the hardest. I explained.

"Oh, that's five years!" Doudou clenched his fists in a gesture of struggle.

Before going to bed at night, because of the high floors, as long as there is wind outside, the doors and windows will "blow the whistle"!

I asked Doudou to help me close the door, and Doudou stood at the door to explain to me the principle of "blowing the whistle": "Because when the bathroom door is closed, there is a crack under the door, when the wind from the window blows into the bathroom, it is partially blocked by the door, and this part of the air has to fight to drill out from the crack in the door below, forming a whirlpool of wind." As he spoke, he gestured in circles with his hands, "Woo, woo, woo-" with a playful and mischievous expression on his face......

"Hahaha! Close the door and go to bed with the lights off!" I was amused by Doudou's funny expressions and performances in bed!

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