One, three, two, how can I not spoil you?
Every night when I come home from work, I look at the fine beads of sweat on your small nose, take over and put down the huge and heavy school bag, see your soaked school uniform, and listen to the chatter you will talk about as soon as you enter the door, and my mother's heart will bloom. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info
My child, my mother's love has always been like a clear spring water, without stopping for a second.
I often hear people say: don't spoil your children.
But how can I not spoil you?
From your sudden appearance in your mother's belly to the appearance of your fat nono in swaddling clothes, how can your mother not spoil you?
It's just that sometimes my mother doesn't dare to be too arrogant with you, seeing that you are still doing your homework diligently late at night every day, and seeing that you are confused and have not completed the never-ending homework, my mother is so distressed.
happened to accompany you until late at night, and you told your mother over and over again: Mom, you don't have to wait for me, you go to bed first. You know that mom has always had a regular schedule, and if it is disrupted, it will make you feel uncomfortable.
How can I not feel sorry for you, my child?
Your huge schoolbag, your mother has a hard time picking it up, you carry it every day but you have to go to and from school, and you have to carry it to the seventh floor at noon. I sent you a quilt to the seventh floor, and my mother's legs began to tremble and hurt, but you still had to carry such a heavy schoolbag to climb up and down every day.
I originally wanted to bring yourself a quilt to school, but thinking about the last time you spent a lot of effort to borrow your classmates' belts to tie your luggage, my mother couldn't help but do it for you again. How can I bear you stumbling with a big bag of luggage, and then crookedly pushing a bicycle and walking a long way home, thinking about your inner anxiety, my mother is distressed.
Look at you doing some messy things in high spirits, always full of happiness in your heart, child, you are so much like your mother when you were a child, restless and unwilling to admit defeat, always have your own opinions and ideas, always do things that don't seem to be the most important.
Mom sometimes looks at the home that has been "ruined" by you, and she will be impatient and unhappy, but seeing your focused expression, Mom often throws her emotions that are about to explode into the Mu Us Desert, and then tosses blindly with you, and then goes to eat and go shopping and buy clothes hand in hand.
Mom often thinks that a person's childhood is so limited, a person's youth is so little, and a person's carefree happy time is so few, so she often can't bear to disturb your seemingly nonsense toss.
From the moment your mother decides to be your mother, your mother's heart has begun a journey without limits, a long journey of doting on you and pampering you.
You are growing up healthily and happily day by day under your mother's doting, although your father is suddenly gone, but you are facing this catastrophe with your mother with reason and strength beyond your age! Mom's heart is full of gratitude! You are the treasure given by God to your mother's life, and the pride and meaning of your mother's life, how can your mother not spoil you?
Even though you didn't do your best in your studies, and you often stumbled, so what? Mom still dotes on you and still thinks it's not a big deal. Oh, but my mother doesn't dare to tell you that my mother doesn't care, I still have to tell you: the responsibility and obligation of students is to study, and it is a matter of course to do a good job in learning, but it will also turn a blind eye to your sometimes coping errands, and my mother does not agree with today's education from the bottom of my heart, but my mother has no ability to change the status quo, so she has to face the teacher's expectations that you will get one or two places in the exam, and give a not very enthusiastic response. So much so that the teacher is dissatisfied with your mother's attitude and criticizes you, and your mother has to tell you about their kindness and expectations, as well as their helplessness, and also tell you to be grateful for their intentions and remember their goodness.
You are a child who can understand his mother's intentions from an early age, you and your mother's hearts are always the same, and you can also understand and understand others.
You came back and told your mother: You scored 60 (70 points in the paper) in the Chinese exam, which is the second place, and you seem to care about the ranking. A classmate urged you to say, "Do you have the ability to take the first place in the exam?" You scored 64 points and got the first place!
You said to your classmates, "Then you should take the second place in the exam."
The classmate was choked speechless and fled.
I said that you can just ignore her, there is no need to offend her. You say: If you ignore her, she will keep babbling, and I have to hit her back.
I ask you: Are you proud?
You laugh and say, "No, I'm proud there?" It's they talking nonsense.
Hehehe, you say, how can I not spoil you?
You have actually always been a kind child, but you have your bottom line for dealing with people, or when you were in kindergarten, your mother picked you up. Seeing a child mischievously move your little chair away again and again, causing you to sit on the floor twice, you look back and see that you don't make a sound, you don't get angry, you just take back the chair and continue to sit, you don't want the naughty child to move the chair again, causing you to sit on the ground for the third time, and then see you stand up, turn around and push the child to the ground in a hurry. You take back your chair and sit down as if nothing happened, leaving only the child on the floor crying loudly.
Mom is not involved in your affairs, and Mom is sure that you are capable of handling your own affairs. When you are ignorant, your mother thinks that my child must be able to take care of himself.
I still remember when you were in elementary school, a boy always teased you, and you came back and said to your mother: It's annoying, that classmate always pulls my pigtails. Mom asks you, "What do you want to do with this?" You say you want to tell the teacher and let the teacher handle it. At that time, you worshiped the teacher as a god, and your mother didn't stop you, and then it is conceivable that the teacher just criticized the classmate lightly, but the classmate intensified.
You said that you didn't want to make a bad impression on the teacher and didn't want to have conflicts with your classmates, but you were very aggrieved and shed tears. Mom knows that you are starting to have your own thoughts, but Mom suggests that you see if you can take some measures to put an end to such a thing? You are too tall to deal with a little boy? Mom said: If he still pulls your pigtails tomorrow, you pick up the chair and put it on his head, but remember not to hurt him with force, as for the consequences, Mom will be responsible.
Hehe, although you are a little worried, but with your mother as a backing, you sleep happily.
When you came back the next day, you entered the door as usual and began to report to your mother: Mom, you are so good! The problem is solved! He no longer dares to pull my pigtails.
It turned out that you just picked up the chair, and before you could put the chair on his head, the boy was so frightened that he started crying. The teacher didn't criticize you, he criticized the naughty boy.
The smug look of your little face, as well as the adoration of your mother, add another layer of meaning.
Hehe, if your mother tells you anything that you think you can't handle well, tell your mother, and your mother will help you with advice, and you have always relied on your mother in a measured and measured way. Including if you secretly like a boy, your mother tells you that it is a normal emotion, and it is normal for a grown child to like the opposite sex, but it is not normal to have no feelings, but your mother tells you that if you live all year round, you must come according to the seasons: spring ploughing, summer length, autumn harvest, and winter storage, you can't mess up the proportions. You like and grow up very calmly and happily. My daughter, you have grown up and started your youth, and your mother's heart is even sweeter.
The day before yesterday, you said that your classmates saw that your current mobile phone was outdated and asked you in surprise: Why didn't you find a way to break it and ask your mother to buy you a new one?
Samsung's cool mobile phone before it was bought by my father as soon as it went on the market.,Later, the unit sent a mobile phone.,I'll use it for you.,Not long ago, it suddenly broke.,I had to take out a machine that was used by an activity before.。 Although you look at other people's iPhones and your eyes are hot, but you are just talking, your mother has not answered your words, and your mother hopes that you can think of something by yourself.
And your answer to your classmate's words once again made my mother very pleased.
You say, "If I break this phone on purpose, my mom will definitely say, 'Then you don't need the phone, you can buy it when you get into college,' or my mom might just ignore it."
You said you also had the urge to spoil it, but you didn't do it because you thought it might outweigh the losses.
I laughed, you kid! It seems that you still clearly understand your mother's usual doting and mother's principles! This is what your mother has always taught you: everything has its own principles and bottom line, you have asked your heart before doing things, and you have to analyze the benefits and disadvantages of everything, you understand and silently abide by it.
You say, how can a mother not spoil you?
When your mother heard you say that Teacher Hou asked you: Mom went on a blind date, did you get in the way and thought that your mother would treat you badly if she found a partner, your flickering and a little frightened eyes, Mom was distressed and hurt!
How could it be? This is what you said to Teacher Hou, and it is also what your mother answered you! How could it be? How could your mother treat you badly? In this life, your mother will always pamper you and dot on you!!!