Chapter 697: Ten Years of Trials and Hardships (4)
During Zhao Hong's trip, he also went to see a lot of old friends and classmates who he had become less familiar with because of his busy work.
However, it is a bit ridiculous and sad that most of his high school classmates have left T City to develop in other places, and most of the domestic ones are concentrated in the capital, at least more than the average person, and half of the remaining ones are developing abroad, and only a small part is still staying in T City to develop.
"Hometown is the place that everyone is most familiar with and most concerned about, where there is the environment you are most comfortable with, as well as your favorite relatives and friends, and countless delicious foods that you can reminisce about in your dreams!
However, there is no unique human environment where dreams can be realized.
No matter what you do, you must pay attention to human feelings, you can't do what you can do without human feelings, and most of the things that you can't do with human feelings can also be done!
The coal, which once made countless provinces proud, after enriching a handful of billionaires, left the general public with endless difficulties!
Coal mining is polluted with coal ash, and most people will have mild or severe respiratory diseases, as evidenced by the fact that people in S Province are much higher than the patients in other places.
Coal mining and reprocessing is nothing more than a more polluting coal chemical industry, or power plants and steel plants!
Low production costs and cheap labor have created huge profits, and huge profits have given birth to a simple and crude development model!
As long as it can be controlled and monopolized, there will be a steady stream of huge profits, so who cares about the development of science and technology?
It can be said that having resources has harmed our local ordinary people to a certain extent......"
Classmate Lao Wu once described himself like this, the reason why he wants to go outside to develop.
Zhao Hong and Guo Yi, who are more familiar with S Province, are very understanding, and even Xiao Wanting is very understanding.
This is the case in China, the more economically backward the region, the worse the cultural environment will generally be, don't blame the departure of talents, after all, who would want if you can?
To put it nicely, it can be called seeking greater development in a larger field!
Let's be honest, isn't that uprooting?
Left his parents and family, left the familiar living environment, and left ......
lost the warm home, lost the care and nagging of your parents who always accompanied you, and lost the simple but very nurturing millet porridge, and lost the ......
From childhood to adulthood, everyone educates everyone.
"There must be gains and losses, and there are also losses to gains!"
"Good boys are ambitious!"
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But how many people tell everyone that if they go out, they may never go back for the rest of their lives.
Losing some does not mean that you will definitely be able to get the hope you are pursuing, and what you get is likely to be full of scars, as well as countless hearts like ashes, and the loss of seeing your parents and family again without a face!
Everyone likes to watch the happiness of a very small number of successful people and encourage themselves to do so!
But most of the lost ordinary people are forgotten by all selectivity, and some of the more tragic people are like a wisp of smoke, turning into a little dirt and falling to the ground in the rain, trampled by thousands of people, trampled by thousands of people!
And Xiaojin, who is gradually starting to move towards success, has a somewhat different understanding.
Everyone needs a different stage to play a greater role!
And only after creating greater social benefits, it is possible to obtain a matching social status!
As for what role to play, it depends on your choice.
Some people believe in their own abilities, some people believe in the so-called means, and of course there are many more people who habitually rely on a certain force to live......"
Looking at him with ease, Zhao Hong naturally understood that this was a "successful person" in society, and a successful career was an inevitable standard version.
Guo Yi looked at Zhao Hong a little strangely, although Xiao Jin is doing very well, but that is relative to ordinary people, if you compare it with Zhao Hong, there is actually nothing special?
But why did Zhao Hong have to come over to visit this old friend, and he had to talk so deeply.
Even if there was a good relationship when I was in school, now that many years have passed, how many friendships are left?
In fact, this is because she still doesn't understand how Zhao Hong looked up to this "big guy" among his classmates! Even though they are very different from each other now, he still hopes to understand why he and this old classmate have a farther and farther relationship back then?
Is it really that important that the economic gap is large, and is the social status gap really enough to abandon the friendship between people?
But in fact, it is!
Zhao Hong felt a little uncomfortable silently in his heart! Maybe it was too hypocritical, or maybe it was other reasons, Zhao Hong had not had many friends all along.
And over the years, this has been even more so, with more and more interest-oriented relationships, and fewer and fewer friends who have nothing to do with interests.
Is this what life is all about? As you get higher and higher, you have fewer and fewer friends?
Even if he was still a little unwilling, but now he understood.
Of course, there is the misery of "being poor in the downtown and no one asks", and there is also the excitement of "being rich in the mountains and having distant relatives".
But how much true feelings are revealed in the excitement?
Too greedy!
Maybe only in fairy tales can there be that kind of stories about friends who are both affectionate and righteous, and can have a successful career!
And all stories are always deceitful! Whoever believes it is not far from failure, or does success mean that they are destined to be lonely and lonely?
The class reunion in the capital was very pleasant, and there were even many classmates that Zhao Hong had not seen since graduating from high school, including him in his previous life.
When you are old, most of them are dragging their families, they are usually busy with work, and occasionally they need to take care of their parents when they have time, who can have the most time to contact around?
One of the most important themes of the reunion was to donate money to a classmate who had just passed away.
He had just gotten married and had children, and he died of overwork. Now his wife lives alone with her children, and the monthly mortgage is very stressful, and life is a little unsustainable.
"Guo Yi, can I donate a little more this time?"
Zhao Hong, who has always been relatively low-key, asked in a low voice with some excitement.
"Donate, if you can, you can arrange a job for his wife that doesn't pay too much. After all, there are also projects of our Zhao Song Group Company here in the capital!"
Guo Yi agreed very reasonably, without the slightest hesitation.
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After the party, Zhao Hong was a little silent and depressed for several days, life is so fragile, when is he about to leave accidentally, is it really necessary to work hard?
"Cherish yourself, cherish the present!" Fupin Chinese