Chapter 63: Time dilutes dreams
The daughter-in-law is the sun, the friend is the moon, don't be poor when it's hot, don't dream when you're poor, don't laugh when you're cold, don't say bitter when you're cold, don't say that the sun gives too little warmth when you're bitter, the moon doesn't appear for a long time, but others will see the moon that can accompany you, and others will know that your friends will know that your friends cheat on yourself. Pen "Fun" Pavilion www.biquge.info
Don't live so tired, no one will help you bear it, don't live so bitterly, no one will experience your sweetness and sorrow, don't live so true, your seriousness may be worthless, don't live so fake, others don't need you, why should you be amorous, don't live so badly, in fact, what you do, others can not say, but it does not mean that others can't see through, the world is very chaotic and lonely, you have tasted all the sweets and sours, you may not let others know that you have cultivation, you have tasted all the bitterness, you may not let others know that you are talented.
A lot of things, not so simple, a lot of words, not so complicated, sometimes we just can't express, or the expression is wrong, others will go away, others will look down on themselves, in fact, we ourselves lack the ability, lack too much, when the time comes, there is no preparation, when the time goes, you can't do anything, when you think of your own stupidity, your own helplessness, you can only tell yourself, simpler, but living people, no one can be simple.
Many times we are a copy, many times words are substitutes, but we can't lack the time to make friends, we can't lack the place to express our hearts, if we say the wrong thing in one place, no one educates, maybe the next mistake will come faster, in the unconscious time, our powerlessness, in fact, is a sentence that makes others look down on, in fact, many times our sadness can't be exchanged for a smile, in exchange for a thank you.
Good people, this word may need to do a lot of pay, but bad people, only need a moment, a word, can make many people hate themselves for a lifetime, we live without having to let more people like, there is no need to perfunctory too many people, there is no time to tie more people, be yourself, do not copy, but need to delete a lot of thinking barcode, personal control, it takes time to enter the life circle of others, but to change your life circle, is to control your own expression, understanding ability.
When you are short of money, you will be anxious, and you will be troubled when you fail, but others are also struggling, and there are many people who fail worse than you, don't retreat because of other people's words, don't leave because of your own ability, if you dodge, maybe you don't have time to turn over in your life, maybe you dodge, you don't have time to pay attention to it in your life, the world is very big, life is very chaotic, don't always use powerlessness to solve the tears of silence, crying is not a person's telling, you are still you, the scars of dawn will still be there.
There is no opportunity to add a word, then there is no need to continue to make such friends, there is no chance to remind a word, such friends don't want to, no friends who don't pay, such understanding is equal to waste, don't think that friends are very good, in fact, many times he can help you is only himself, not the person you call to come, not your heart, the so-called heart, the so-called person, the best help is your own.
Approaching a person, you need money, time, place, leaving a person, as long as one of your own turns, maybe you will never see each other again for a lifetime, if it is not love, please think more about your own ability, if it is your own love, leaving is leaving, there is no need to think, there is no need to wronged yourself to cry, many times our seriousness, not all to hurt ourselves, many times our tears, just waiting for the person who left.
Don't like others because of their goodness, others will leave themselves because of their own inadequacy, don't like others because of other people's money, others will spend the same money to get a second person as stupid as you, don't like others because of other people's sweet words, others will also give perfunctory and stammering to the second person who belongs to others, don't like others because of their company, others can also get likes because of the company of others.
You have your good, others have other people's advantages, don't give up your dignity because of greed, don't give up your personality because you want, don't give up yourself because you want to, don't give up yourself because you understand, don't give up the future because you understand, don't do it because of it, so every word you say may not become a failure, but as long as someone else's turn, it will make you bruised all over the place, don't pay too much to a person who can't walk into the future, otherwise you can only make your own scars bigger when you cry.
Sometimes you grab someone else's hand, you can't grasp a person's heart, it turns out that the person who accompanies you to marry may still be waiting for you, but the time has not come, sometimes it is easy for you to approach a person's smile, but you may not recognize a person's heart, don't always think that you walk into a person is very good, in fact, the harmony of the relationship is just what you say, and does not represent the future of two people, so, when the wind goes, there may not be rain, but it may not rain when it rains in the future.
The time is wrong, all of them will become scars, the time is wrong, love may not break the hearts of two people, the time is wrong, the miss may not be the cold of two people, the time is wrong, what you see may be the former thoughts speaking for their tears, the time is wrong, you find the right person may not be the former lover, the time is wrong, the wrong person you find may be the person who comes to hurt yourself, the time is wrong, the moment you knock on the door, you can open the tears of others, and may not close your heart.
Don't live up to yourself, don't live up to your family, don't always copy other people's thinking, learn to innovate your own ability, learn to speak for others, learn to help others in the moment you pay for yourself, because this society needs help, you don't help others, others may not know what you do, you don't help others speak, others may not know what you think, learn to change values, you must learn to change expression, you can express money in words, but don't laugh at others when they are short of money, don't be sarcastic when others are wearing shabby。
Every time you choose, others look at it, you have to learn to measure, when your value exceeds your ability, then your views will surpass your cultivation, don't always use others to praise your own attitude to perform yourself, because every time others praise yourself, your shortcomings are magnified a hundred times, because one advantage can cover 10,000 shortcomings, don't always experiment with your own skills, don't always take the postgraduate examination of your own friends, not every friend tosses the joke of language and money.
Cherish a person, not when you are not together to perfunctory, stammering, but in giving once, once again, can not know the scars that appear after giving up on other people's expressions, maybe you will recognize a lot, but there is only one reason not to cherish others, sometimes we learn to refuse, sometimes we learn to avoid, in fact, we are all going to get nothing at the age of not cherishing ourselves, in fact, we are all going to flock to wait just not to understand the reality of ourselves.
Don't always complain that others don't understand, maybe it's your own way of expressing it wrong, don't always blame others for ignoring yourself, maybe others don't want it, please remember, you have what others don't have, others will think about you, you get what others want, others will remember you, when you are poor, you will know friends, when you are rich, you will know that stammering and perfunctory are really annoying, but the original self is because you don't know how to stutter and perfunctory, so you will be educated by others.
Some people like gold, you give, but others may not help you do what you want to do, some people like money, you give, but others may not be able to help you avoid disasters, some people like to sit in office, you give, but others may not let you earn what you want, sober up, don't ask for it because you pay, don't pay because you want, many times the measurement will make you lose, including feelings, many times the persistence to the end hurt yourself.
Don't ignore other people's contributions, even if you refuse, you have to say a reason, even if you leave, you have to give others a reason to speak, don't always think that you are very high, in fact, not everyone will give you face, don't always put yourself very inconspicuous, the attention of others will let you learn a lot of knowledge, in fact, every time you prepare, is a lesson for your own soul, in fact, the people who appear around you are noble people, praise others a little better, show your own eloquence, but also show your own opinions.
Leave some leeway when you speak, maybe other people's hiding is to see you clearly in advance, leave some space when you refuse, not everyone is willing to bear your world, leave some measurement when you give up, don't cry again when you lose, leave some dignity when you like, don't wait until you wander to know that you are worthless, leave some opportunities when you love someone, not necessarily others will not fall in love with others, leave some language when looking at people, don't always measure a prepared person with personal ignorance.
People who are worthy of conscience will live happily, people who are worthy of conscience will live carefree, people who are worthy of friends will have no worries, people who are worthy of daughters-in-law will be kind to one side, people who are worthy of the poor will have bright eyes, people who are worthy of knowledge will be bright, people who are worthy of identification will know well, people who are worthy of themselves will encourage others, people who are worthy of people's hearts will give, people who are worthy of sincerity will express, and people who are worthy of love will naturally tell you.
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