I've seen a story before, and it probably goes something like this:

Once upon a time, the grandfather and grandson led the donkey to the market. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. ｂｉｑｕｇｅ。 As soon as I left the village, I was laughed at by passers-by: "Ho, look at these two stupid people, they don't ride donkeys, they all walk." When the grandfather heard this, he felt that it was reasonable, so he asked his grandson to ride a donkey.

After walking for a while, another passer-by said: "Hey, this grandson is really ignorant, he rides a donkey by himself and lets his grandfather walk." When the grandson heard this, he didn't feel good in his heart, so he hurried down and replaced his grandfather to ride.

After a while, another passer-by pointed and pointed: "Hey, this grandfather really doesn't know how to love his grandson, he rides a donkey and lets his grandson walk." When the grandfather heard this, he was upset, so he asked his grandson to come up and ride together.

Before the grandfather and grandson's buttocks were hot, passers-by shouted: "Ho ho, a donkey is riding two people, this person is too cruel." Poor donkey!" The old man and the young man on the donkey's back heard this, and became even more uneasy, and hurriedly came down.

The grandson was worried: "Grandpa, what can I do here? I can't ride, I can't ride." ”

Grandpa said, "This donkey can't be ridden anymore anyway." Come on, let's just let the donkey ride us. So he went around finding a rope, tied the donkey, carried it on his shoulder, and went on on his way.

The grandfather and grandson carried the donkey, "Hi Yo", "Hi Yo" on a wooden bridge. When passers-by saw it, they laughed loudly: "Hehe, people don't ride donkeys, donkeys ride people, what do you say this is not a lack of heart?" The donkey was also frightened, tossed violently, "plopped", and planted himself in the river.

The world is like this, no matter what you do, there are always people who feel that it is not appropriate, and they will always criticize, if what you do is completely out of the business of others, then you don't have to care about other people's opinions and accusations, you can't control others, you are walking your own way, how to go is all up to you.

There are always a lot of good people in this world, always like to find other people's faults everywhere, never look down at themselves, if everyone can care about others after they have done a good job, probably there will be a lot less troubles in the world.

People who have their own beliefs and goals will not be stopped by the interference of others, and perhaps they can learn from rational analysis to speed up their own progress. However, it is difficult to blame anyone, because God originally made people crooked, and it is difficult to have a fair and impartial heart. Hehehe-

Everything is done in a mood and a joy, and it is very admired and envious to see a colleague enjoying his unique life.

We have no right at all to make irresponsible comments about other people's lifestyles and habits, we can have our own opinions, but it is also a kind of kindness to smile and silence when we know it.

A colleague has her own personality and beliefs, and many people don't like her, and I don't like or dislike her, but my heart is full of admiration and is true. She also often chatted with me, saying a lot of her ideas and understandings, and I listened carefully, because what she said was what she thought and practiced, and for a person who loves life and is positive and sunny, even if she has some personality and stubbornness, she should be respected.

She doesn't often communicate with people, and she feels a little arrogant, but she comes to my office by chance to sit down, and in the communication with her, I will get some inspiration for life growth, and I sincerely listen to the exchange and ask for advice, as a teacher.

Everyone has strengths and advantages, if you can learn from the strengths to grow yourself, and tolerate his shortcomings, it is the best way to get along with others.

has always been a competitive person.,It's always a good child in the circle of growth.,So there's always a sense of superiority.,Straight.,Full of edges and corners.,I can't help but take care of some things that don't look angry, even if they have nothing to do with me.。 The grinding of the years is to smooth out the edge of people, let people slowly calm down, slowly understand that the world will not change, what we see is the surface, all the world is ever-changing, understand that it is no longer cynical and no longer worrying, time not only takes away the passing years, but also brings the accumulation of life.

Nowadays, regardless of whether there is a conflict of interest or not, I can resist the sharp language that comes out of my mouth, and I am often able to empathize, so I am more tolerant and considerate of people. This is the growth of the world like chess.

These days are in the process of positive thinking, adjustment and comprehension, I have been hazy for so long in life, no matter what, I can no longer let myself fall into trouble and cannot save myself, otherwise it is not only my life that should be excellent, but also this is originally a lonely life, and the life that is fortunate enough to live a perfect life should be content! I want to be my own sun, illuminating my heart, illuminating the place where I can reach it.

I remember that not long after I arrived at this unit, I was only in my twenties, and I was originally a simple and somewhat local person, but when a retired and respected old leader of the unit gave the girls a flower metaphor, he rewarded me with lilies. I thought I would be a simple and clean lotus, I didn't want to be a lily, in the eyes of others, in addition to being good-looking, maybe there is also a combination of knowledge, virtue and heart.

At that time, there were as many as five or six unmarried girls younger than me, and all of them were selected from hundreds of people. I didn't know it at first, until a unit outing I didn't know about this award, hehehe, my heart is happy! I am the fragrant lily, I work hard!

Be a warm, modest, and self-sustaining person, do not like things, do not feel sad about yourself, do not be confused in your heart, do not be trapped in love, do not fear the future, do not think of the past, have to be better than your own time, with the passage of time, keep worthy of the sediment of the past, so that the richer self is no longer worried about loneliness and loneliness.

"Standing in the vortex of the city, seeing all kinds of colors, hearing a hundred voices, making a living, and maintaining a pure state of mind and simple nature is not an easy thing for anyone to do."

If a person can go from not working in calculation to working in not calculating, he will be wise and foolish, and then he will be wise.