Gender inequality is innate, and in addition to social causes, the key biological causes cannot be ignored. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info

Men are born with strong bodies, society, historical progress, evolution to today, although out of the pattern of men ploughing and weaving, men outside and women inside, but the tradition has always been and the physiological characteristics and social nature of people determine that people can never completely get out of such a model, and men are given more social responsibilities than women. Therefore, every masculine and responsible man should become a man who stands up to the sky.

The balance of yin and yang, rigidity and softness are also the only laws of nature to maintain balance.

As a woman, today's society is also endowed with unlimited social responsibility, and it is said that in order to pursue equality of social status, women are "liberated". And the devil knows whether this "liberation" is good or bad for women. Perhaps every woman or man has different understandings and feelings.

As far as I am concerned as a woman, I secretly believe that as a woman, raising a husband and children, and having a happy family are the most important social responsibilities that ordinary women should fulfill.

If every woman can divide the family, have a kind nature, her own knowledge, cultivation, tolerance and open-mindedness, have affectionate love for her husband, have generous and decent teaching for her children, and be filial and respectful to the elderly, is such a woman not a lover worthy of cherishing?

Every man wants an empathetic and tender wife who is loved and tolerated when they are tired and emaciated.

Every woman (ordinary woman) also wants to have a husband who can be alone outside the home, who can stand up to the sky and the earth, and can hold up a clear sky for her and her children.

And "home" is the love nest built by men for women, the warm harbor woven by women for men, and the stage for women to display their talents and warmth, she will use her watery tenderness to make home a paradise that no one can replace.

Women still don't think that everyone has to become a man, become a woman who stands up to the sky, and the beauty, delicacy and toughness of a woman's femininity should be more reflected in love. Instead of fighting the world and fighting the world with men.

Women have their own careers and professions, which they should be, and they can also achieve a higher social status through their own efforts, and I think that no matter what kind of achievement is not worth a happy family.

When people want to marry you, they are doing so as a wife and mother, and your excellence and wisdom should be brought into play in the family.

Although it is not excluded that career and family can be outstanding, but people's energy is limited, as a woman, as a doctor, I deeply understand: as an ordinary woman, how difficult it is to achieve the best of both worlds.

But this does not mean that women only revolve around the stove, around their husbands and children, you can have your own hobbies, your own knowledge, your own profession, make concessions and sacrifices for the family, and it is worth it to harvest a warm and happy home. Because you love your lover, your children, your family.

In short: a kind nature, a good look, an independent and sound personality, a generous heart, a certain ability to live, reasonable and gentle, this is what I think is the quality of an excellent woman and an excellent wife.

Looking at the colleagues and friends around you, any happy family must have an excellent woman.