Chapter 120: Talking to Tara about the criteria for choosing a mate?
Baolan's family is a divorced family, so she has a measure of love in her heart. Pen | fun | pavilion www. biquge。 infoNo one but herself knows where the standard scale is. In the past, she saw Li Yuhao's 'flower heart' used on Li Juli's body, and she always liked to find fault with him as if she was uncomfortable. But when she calmed down and observed over time, it seemed that the previous love standard in her heart was a bit sharp.
The former Sapphire was undoubtedly a 'perfectionist of love'. But as time passed, she witnessed Li Juli's life, as well as the lives of her friends around her. She suddenly felt that what she called 'perfect' was in fact imperfect in the sense of itself.
Yes, how can a person's life be perfect? Looking for 'perfection' in love is similar to reading fairy tales. Princes, princesses or something like sweet love? That's just recorded in books, where to find so much perfection in reality?
Baolan looked at the current Li Juli, and she knew that her so-called perfect love would return to a dull life in the end, and love was just the heartbeat at the beginning of the period. In the end, it is still about living, and what is it to live a life? In the final analysis, it is still the 'conditions', the conditions of life.
Yes, isn't marriage just about finding someone to go on with? It's the same in any era, isn't life just firewood, salt, oil, and rice? And Li Yuhao has given him incomparably superior living conditions, just as Li Juli said to herself before, even if you find a person who is wholeheartedly devoted to you on the surface, can you really guarantee that he will be with you for the rest of your life?
Baolan faced Li Juli's questioning, she smiled lightly, hehe, she really wanted to ask if her original view of love was particularly stupid in Li Juli's eyes? She smiled and said: "What kind of hurdle can't be overcome? The thing with him in the past was just a conflict of his own ideas, and the concept has changed, and there is no so-called hurdle." Now look at your family... Very good!"
Maybe Baolan really figured it out, in short, she and Li Yuhao are no longer as inexplicable as they were at the beginning, and she doesn't have to worry about the rest. Li Juli nodded and said, "Well, everyone is 30 years old." We are not like Ji-yeon at this age, she can still experience love a few times, and we, when we meet the right standard for ourselves, we don't talk about any more reserved. ”
At this time, Li Yuhao also changed his clothes and walked out, and he happened to hear behind him in loose sportswear: "What are you reserved? Who met a good person?
Li Yuhao sat on the sofa casually and looked at the 'high school student' Baolan, today she was wearing a cotton shirt with a shirt checker, a pair of shorts underneath, maybe she was wearing some other coat, but in Li Yuhao's constant temperature room, she had already taken off her coat. So this kind of dress makes her more campus-style, a bit of a student who is studying in college.
There's no way, Sapphire Blue's figure and appearance are so 'demon'.
Li Yuhao looked at Baolan when he heard 'don't be reserved', because she was the only one present who gave Li Yuhao the feeling that she had very high requirements for emotional matters. And in terms of age, she is not too young. Ju Li and Su Yan can be regarded as living with themselves, and the remaining 'three highs' have not yet entered the 30s, and they can still look forward to love for at least two years.
Li Yuhao continued: "Well, try to contact it when you meet the right one, only when you contact it will you understand whether it is really suitable." ”
After Li Yuhao's words, Xiaomin asked Li Yuhao with a smile: "Hehe.. The problem is that now even we Ji-yeon know that the 'heartbeat index' is nothing more than a description of the ignorant period of 'love' in the young years. We are now past the age of only looking at 'love', and now even if we are 'in love', we have to consider all aspects comprehensively. ”
Li Yuhao also laughed, why did it suddenly become a criterion for choosing a mate? Li Yuhao smiled and said: "What do you mean by the comprehensive conditions in your mouth? Is it financial resources and academic qualifications?"
Needless to say, everyone understands that academic qualifications represent the ability to create wealth in the future. When a woman chooses a man, these two points are definitely the most basic first point, and after meeting these two basic conditions, she will look at her appearance, and if she feels good about her appearance, she will have a little contact with her personality.
Regarding that basic condition, Enjing nodded and said: "In today's society, financial resources, education, aren't these the most basic? First of all, it depends on the comparison of the financial resources of the two, right?"
"Instead of looking at the financial resources of the two people, it is better to look at the family conditions of the other party. ”
"Look at the family conditions?"
"What do you look at if you don't look at family conditions? Now the perfect profession in the eyes of the public is nothing more than a prosecutor, a doctor, a professor and so on, right? I won't talk about it too far, Yin Suwan knows, right? The first anchor signed by our company. Do you know her family? She has an older brother who is addicted to gambling, and her brother learned that she had taken 10 billion won for the signing of the contract, and the casino immediately gave her brother a mortgage. In the end, as a younger sister, can she not care? Even if she can be ruthless, but what about her mother? These are bloody examples! You don't think this kind of thing can happen to you, right? But how can you know what kind of family the other party is until the end?..
Lee Woo-ho continued to give an example: "Okay, let's talk about Lee Seung-gi again. You all know that I had a big fight with Lee Seung Gi some time ago, right? None of you know what's going on, right?....."
Lee Woo-ho then recounted the incident between himself and Lee Seung-gi: "... This is the Lee Seung Gi that Yoona met. In fact, this kind of thing was originally very simple, he only needed to mortgage his property to the bank, and it would not be so stiff. I also know that the settlement of entertainers is either fast in the first quarter or slow in half a year, but no matter what, at least we should deal with the immediate matter, right? So in the end, no one can tell that he is like that, right?"