Comrade Jia Yuhao:

I dreamed of you again last night, but I don't remember what kind of dream it was. Pen Fun Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 ｉｎfo

Recently, Doudou has done a lot of homework, and I have to write until more than 11:00 every day, and I have been with a stage for a while, and I feel obviously tired, and after 11:00, it has passed my time to fall asleep, so I can't sleep well all night. The right eye has been jumping for a week, probably due to poor sleep.

In the last three days, I have rested early, and I have not accompanied Doudou to do my homework, and after I supervised for half a month, Doudou's homework has basically been completed with quality and quantity.

In the first half semester of school, I didn't ask about her studies like in elementary school, and she actually did her homework in order to finish it quickly, regardless of whether it was right or wrong. Duan took the ninth place in the class, and when I was done, I looked at her homework book, only to find that sometimes 5 math problems can be 4 wrong!

The calculation is still so-so, the top is still 252, and the bottom is only 52!

I made a policy: I only had to check for one wrong question in my math homework, and I would write a test paper on the weekend. The little thing didn't do it wrong again.

It's just that the self-control ability is still not good enough, the head teacher often complains to me, I don't care too much, the child's learning burden is already very heavy, and then turn the child into a person who has no ego at all, no vitality, only knows study and homework, then what is the fun of childhood? After not getting a positive response from me, the teacher will not complain.

But I have already made a good agreement with Doudou: her academic performance will not decline, and she can maintain her personality and hobbies under the precursor of other disciplines.

I was very nervous at the beginning of the school year!

First, she has to ride a bicycle to school by herself, worrying about the safety of her children, and secondly, she is worried that her children will not be able to adapt well to junior high school life, and that her liveliness and autonomy will not adapt to today's education of cramming and taking exams. Teachers like obedient children who don't have their own thoughts. Doudou is a child who has her own ideas and opinions and does not follow the rules, and I am worried that she will be suppressed or blamed and get tired of studying.

It seems that I am worried about nothing, and Doudou adapts very well!

The teachers like her, especially Ms. Cao, so her interest and enthusiasm for learning English are much higher than those in primary school, and her grades have always been top.

Teacher Ma, who is newly changed in Chinese, also likes her very much. Teachers of other sub-subjects, such as biology, three defenses, and computer classes, all like this child who has his own ideas and dares to express his thoughts out loud.

In the last Chinese language test with 70 points, Doudou only scored 37 points, and I didn't dare to come back to speak, I actually knew, but I didn't say anything, because I had seen that the child was very uneasy and ashamed of this, and I hope she can adjust it herself.

I just asked why the score was so low?

It turned out that before the exam, the head teacher changed her seat.

I think it must have been that she didn't control herself in class, was scolded by the teacher, and changed seats.

Doudou has not yet understood the sophistication of human feelings, and is still a simple child, and is often criticized for not being able to look at the teacher's eyes in time. But he didn't take the teacher's criticism as malicious either. I told her that because the teacher wants her to be a good student and become a top student, she is more demanding, maybe sometimes the method is not very good, but she must be strict with herself, find the reason from herself first, if she doesn't do a good job, it will be good next time. If it's the teacher's fault, then forgive her, after all, she's for your good.

Don't worry, I will enlighten her to adjust in time, and she doesn't care, because there are still many teachers who like him. The grades are very good, so the teachers like her very much.

It's just that the head teacher has just graduated from college and has no experience yet, and wants to suppress the vitality of the children and establish their own authority, so I told Doudou not to provoke her, just stay away.

Recently, my grades have been better, and I have been more conscious and proactive in completing my homework.

I told her about my school days, and she was inspired.

I had good grades in high school and was often in the top three of my grade.

In a self-study class, I didn't want to study, so I took the lead in tossing around, and there was a dark miasma in the class, and the head teacher came to ask who took the lead in making trouble? The classmates all said that it was me, but the head teacher looked disbelieving, "How is it possible? You said that she took the lead in studying, and I still believe it!" Another time, my brother and I clapped our hands in two self-study classes and played "You shoot one, I shoot ......one", the teacher came in from outside and asked me, "Tired of studying, relax?"

Therefore, I told Doudou: "As long as your grades are top, the teacher will focus on you and take you as the standard, no one will blame you, even if you make a mistake, the teacher will protect you or even protect you." If you can't get your grades and make trouble, then the teacher is not welcome. ”

Doudou smiled and leaned back: "Hahaha, I'm tired of studying, relax! and said that I won't take the lead in making trouble, take the lead in learning!"

Doudou's learning motivation has obviously improved a lot, yes, with my personal experience, it is much better to listen to her than to reason.

In the last few math, Chinese, and English exams, they have been in the top three. I didn't increase her study, she just finished her homework. I started to try to let go of the unsupervised and let her learn consciously like in elementary school, and see how it worked.

So how many times is it better for a person to actively learn than to have an education that is cramming?

Yesterday I ate shabu mutton, Doudou ate more than a pound is not enough, I am afraid that she will eat too much and it will not be digestible, she lied and said that she must eat, so I had to give her another third of the amount.

I happily ate and went to do my homework.

I went to bed early yesterday, and Doudou wrote his homework until 11:30, only to see that everything that needed to be signed was placed on the desk, hehe, this kid!

I'm busy, we'll talk next time.

XW

2012.12.21