120: Self-esteem

"I ...... I ......" Mao Dawei was speechless by what I said, and stammered speechless.

In fact, I don't want to blame him for anything, I just want to build up some self-confidence for him, Mao Dawei's family conditions are average, which makes him always feel inferior, as if he is a head shorter than others.

Self-esteem has a great impact on a person.

It can make you sensitive, suspicious, and sometimes even cowardly.

In today's society, the competition is so fierce, especially when they do sales, they just rely on their mouths to eat, but Mao Dawei is very weak in this regard, which makes him many steps slower than others.

Whether it is in life, work, or love, he has no advantage at all.

I wanted to help him build his self-confidence, but he seems to have developed the habit of getting nervous when he sits in a good car and getting nervous when he eats with us.

I patted Mao Dawei on the shoulder and told him, "Lao Mao, in fact, you are much better than ordinary people, you work hard and hard, which many people don't have." You're no worse than anyone else, so you don't have to be so nervous all the time. ”

When the words fell, Ji Muqing took my words, "Zhao Suo is right, I have seen your performance, it is very good, if you can keep it all the time, you are likely to enter the commendation wall of the sales department." ”

After getting Ji Muqing's praise, Mao Dawei seemed to have a lot of confidence all of a sudden, "Really, Mr. Ji?"

"I don't have to lie to you. ”

Mao Dawei's eyes lit up, and his expression was radiant, I just said so much, it couldn't compare to Ji Muqing's words.

Ay!

I leaned back in my chair, "Lao Mao, I can see it, you need to be inspired by reality." Eh, if you can win the sales championship in the second half of the year, then you will be popular in Xinrui. ”

Mao Dawei scratched his head embarrassedly, "I don't dare to think that the sales champion can enter the top 20." ”

The top 20 will have a car reward, Mao Dawei needs a car very much, his mother's illness, need to run to the hospital often, with a car, it is much more convenient.

I believe that with Lao Mao's ability, it will definitely be no problem to enter the top 20.

The atmosphere in the second half of the race became much more relaxed, and I asked Mao Dawei how his mother was doing, and he could easily answer.

The condition is still the same, and it is maintained by medicine every day, and it takes a lot of money to spend money on medicine for a month.

But fortunately, his mother's appetite was quite good, and when he went out this morning, his mother suddenly said that she wanted to drink some fish soup, so he took advantage of the lunch time to go out and buy one.

Mother rarely makes such a request, Mao Dawei thought, since his mother wants to eat, let her eat better.

He can boil it himself, but the taste of boiling it is definitely not as good as that of a big hotel.

In his mother, he never skimps on anything.

Lao Mao's father died in a car accident when he was three years old, and his mother single-handedly raised him, so he was very dependent on his mother's feelings.

When he graduated from college and found a job, he wanted to make it easier for his mother, but who knows, his mother suddenly fell ill. Thanks to the fact that he was at home at the time, he sent his mother to the hospital in time, and although his life was saved, his mother was paralyzed in bed from then on.

Mother and son were very depressed for a while.

Mao Dawei grew up from an ignorant teenager all of a sudden. His mother is sick, and he is the pillar of the family, and he has to take on everything.

In any case, he must not fall, otherwise, his mother will have nothing to rely on.

In life, no one is smooth sailing, and there are many people like Lao Mao's family in this world.

Lao Mao has never complained about anything, he has been working steadily, thinking that with his own hands, he can give his mother a good life.

I've always admired him for that.

It's not that he doesn't have negative emotions, but because he's a smart person and knows that it's okay to complain, it's better to work harder.

I don't want to say too many words of encouragement, that would be too pretentious.

The car turned around and finally arrived at Lao Mao's house.

His home is in an old community, the floors are not very high, the decoration is old, there is no elevator, and he has to rely on his legs to go up.

Moreover, the corridor is often put in a mess by those unparticular neighbors, which affects the passage.

When I lived here before, I was very close to Lao Mao, and I also proposed to sit at his house, but he never let me come, so this is the first time I came to Lao Mao's house.

Seeing him live in such an environment makes me feel very uncomfortable.

When I was going up the stairs, I said to Lao Mao, "Lao Mao, my original house is vacant, you and your aunt should move to my side." The environment over there can be better, which is conducive to my uncle's rest, but it's too noisy here. ”

Mao Dawei shook his head again and again, "How can I do it...... then?"

I interrupted him, "Are you polite to me again?" I paid a year's rent for that house, and if you are idle anyway, it will be a waste if you don't live." The rent over there is actually not much more expensive than here, and with your current salary, you can afford it. ”

"That'...... All right. Lao Mao didn't insist this time.

I smiled and patted him on the shoulder, "That's right." ”

Lao Mao's family lived on the fourth floor, and soon, we came to their doorstep.

Lao Mao took out the key to open the door, and before going in, he smiled and reminded us that his house was a bit messy, so let's not laugh.

Ji Muqing and I both said that it would definitely not, but as soon as I came in, I was stunned, this is so neat and tidy, if this is also called chaos, then what is the name of the place where I used to live, the kennel?

Lao Mao is really amazing, a big man, he actually cleaned up the house spotlessly, and he didn't know that he thought he had a girlfriend.

"Dawei, are you back?" a hoarse voice came from the bedroom.

Mao Dawei responded, "Mom, I brought you fish soup, it's a little cold, I'll go and heat it up for you first." ”

Mao Dawei put the fish soup on the table and took me and Ji Muqing into the fucking room first.

The room was a lot of space, much more than his.

There were several cabinets at the head of the bed, and the one closest to the bed had a lot of food on it, and then there were water, paper and other supplies outside.

Mao Dawei had to go to work during the day, and his old mother had no one to take care of him, so he could only prepare the meals in advance and put them all within his mother's reach.

But after a long time, the food will be cold, so he prepared a fast heater, wrapped around it with a cloth, the plug is far away from his mother, but he uses a wire to connect a remote control switch, which is convenient and safe.

When my mother was hungry, she put things in the heater to heat them, put the dishes and chopsticks aside after eating, and waited for Mao Dawei to come back from work to wash them.

After we came in, Mao Dawei was busy cleaning up the dishes and chopsticks, and by the way, he pulled out two small benches from under the bed for us to sit down.

I, a big man, are not good at saying those comforting words, so I handed over this arduous task to Ji Muqing.

I expressed my heart and left the room.

Mao Dawei was busy in the kitchen, looking at his back, I felt very uncomfortable.

The fish soup was hot, and Mao Dawei fed it to his mother himself. Every time he fed it, he had to blow it with his mouth and make it brighter before feeding his mother.

Ji Muqing and I watched from the sidelines, and there was an indescribable feeling in our hearts.

Mao Dawei may not have those men who can speak well to make girls happy, but he is really a very good man, suitable for living at home. In addition, his family is like this, so he is very unconfident.

Nowadays, how many girls are looking for a partner who doesn't look at family conditions?

Lao Mao is twenty-seven or eighteen years old this year, much older than me, and he should have reached the age of talking about marriage, but he hasn't even talked about a girlfriend now.

It's not that he's not in a hurry, it's that he doesn't have that ability.

Ji Muqing and I sat on the sofa in the living room, and Ji Muqing said to me, "Lao Mao is really hard. ”

I nodded, "yes, but I'm sure everything will be fine." ”

It didn't take much effort for Lao Mao to come out, and he drank a little bit of his mother's meal. Lao Mao poured the remaining fish soup into a bowl, covered it with plastic wrap, and put it in the refrigerator.

Looking at him borrowing like this, and then looking at me and Ji Muqing, we prepare so many meals every day, and it is really a waste to eat them completely.

After sitting at Lao Mao's house for a while, Ji Muqing and I left.

On the way, Ji Muqing said to me with emotion, "Actually, when I was a child, my family was not very wealthy, and at that time, I often had to pester my parents to cry and argue for them to buy some things I liked. Cheap, they gritted their teeth and bought it, but there are some expensive things, they won't buy them, I have to ask for it, in exchange for a punishment. ”

"I still remember one year during the Chinese New Year, I saw other children eating chicken legs, and I wanted to eat them so much, so I asked my mother to buy them for me. A chicken leg for a piece of five, my mom said, can't afford it. At that time, I still thought that I might not be her own child, and I couldn't afford a piece of five, how could it be, but it turned out to be another punishment. ”

I said, "You didn't work so hard because your family was not good when you were a child, did you?"

"You're right, that's it. Maybe it's because I have a strong personality, I always feel that it's better to rely on myself than on others, and I always feel that I have to make something in my life, otherwise I'm too sorry for myself. When Ji Muqing said this, her eyes flashed with incomparable confidence.

Poverty can indeed motivate a person to move forward, but it can also make a person feel inferior.

Ji Muqing is the former, and Lao Mao is the latter.

It has to do with the fact that everyone has a different personality.

I said, "Xiaoqing, I want to help Lao Mao, but I don't know how to help." ”

Money, material, these old Mao can be obtained through their own efforts, and I believe that Lao Mao does not need my help.

But for the rest, I don't seem to be able to help much.

Suddenly, a flash of inspiration flashed through my mind.

Pill!

The pills that Abin gave me can even suppress the virus in Rem, so can it also help Lao Mao's mother?