Chapter 214: Nervous
Visiting your lover's parents is like attending an important interview or exam, the longer it drags on, the more prepared you may be, but the psychological pressure will also increase exponentially with the gradual increase in preparation.
And the so-called sufficient preparation does not give me the confidence that I will succeed in doing so, but the preparation time is too long, which will make people fall into the anxiety of whether I have missed something that I have not thought of, or whether I can do better.
Ruan Qingning, who has been constantly undergoing various screenings since the day she became a trainee, and is always working hard to prepare for becoming a better girl group and a better singer, has the most profound experience.
It was precisely because she knew this best that Ruan Qingning didn't want Lu Ling to be in such a predicament like she was back then. Looking back now, Ruan Qingning feels that in many things, if she had been a little more resolute and less hesitant back then, the result might have been very different.
Sometimes, what we lack is not time to prepare, but the right time. Doing the right thing at the right time, even if you're not as prepared, won't necessarily end up as bad as you think.
This is a valuable realization that Ruan Qingning has only gained today, and the time that has passed will not be repeated because of her understanding, but at least, it can help her do less things that will make her regret in her future life.
In a person's life, he will always gain a lot of understanding because of the people or things he meets, and many experiences in the past have made Ruan Qingning understand that he should not hesitate too much to do things, and Zhong Xuan's departure has made Ruan Qingning understand what it means to wait for me.
Life is fragile, and it only takes a split second for someone you are familiar with and who is one with your life to disappear. Things that you think are okay to wait and wait may never be done again for a reason that you don't expect at all.
We can't predict what tomorrow will look like, so all we can do is make the most of every moment and cherish the people we have.
No matter how fierce the relationship between the two is, before it is confirmed that the two can have a good future and have the ability to maintain this future, Ruan Qingning will not make a decision that makes her parents, who have been silently worried about her may be happy.
But now Ruan Qingning doesn't want to do this, and no one can have a definite answer to what the future will be. Instead of spending a lot of time on how to outline a beautiful future, it is better to enjoy the present to the fullest.
Taking Lu Ling home will make her parents no longer worry about her love life, and it will also allow Lu Ling not to fall into the dilemma of how to prepare to make a good impression on her parents. So what is there to hesitate about? Even if it is unfortunate in the future, she and Lu Ling are separated for various reasons, but at least now, she is happy, Lu Ling is happy, and her parents are also happy, and that is enough, isn't it!
Ruan Qingning, who understood the great principles of life and acted actively, was finally blocked by the serpentine procession in front of the toilet, and she had to fight against the surging physiological needs, and she had to carefully deal with the curiosity of the people around her about her outfit. When Ruan Qingning finally rushed into the small room and solved it heartily, she quickly rushed back to the parking lot to find Lu Ling's car parked in the innermost part and pulled the door to sit on it, her eyes were already in the shape of mosquito coils.
Glancing at the time, he found that Ruan Qingning came back fifteen minutes earlier than expected, Lu Ling cheered for Ruan Qingning, "That's good, it's very fast!"
"Not as fast as you!" Without even the intention to roll his eyes at Lu Ling, Ruan Qingning waved his hand weakly, signaling Lu Ling to leave quickly.
Ruan Qingning in this state is like an explosive bag whose fuse is about to be ignited, and she will die if she provokes it. Whether Lu Ling can perform well for a while depends on Ruan Qingning's assistance, and it is definitely not a wise move to annoy her at such a critical moment.
After weighing the pros and cons, Lu Ling wisely obeyed the command, drove the car out of the service area, and galloped happily on the highway to Q City again.
In the past, Ruan Qingning either hurried back on the day of the Spring Festival, or finished work half a month early and went home leisurely. Neither of these two points in time is the time when you will encounter traffic jams.
And this year, in order to persuade Lu Ling, and to have more time to get tired of Lu Ling, it was clear that all the work that should be done had been finished a month before the Spring Festival, but Ruan Qingning still forcibly delayed the time of returning home to three days before the Spring Festival.
At this point in time, the land area of the country is not as large as Lu Ling's hometown, and it doesn't take long to drive around the country in such a place, so no matter where home is or how far away from home the place of work is, when the people of K country go home for the New Year, there is generally only one means of transportation that they are willing to choose together, which is to block Lu Ling's eyes and make Lu Ling begin to doubt the smallcars in life.
The journey that could have been reached in an hour, in the case of a large traffic jam, took three times more than an hour before Ruan Qingning saw the city that she was both familiar and unfamiliar with.
said that it is familiar because Ruan Qingning grew up in this city since she was a child, and a certain plant and tree in this city may have been planted by Ruan Qingning during school activities.
As for why she feels strange, a person who has been away from home for many years and can go home twice a year is happy, and it is too late to tell her parents how much she misses, how can she have extra time to pay attention to the changes that have taken place in the city when she leaves.
But fortunately, even if he is unfamiliar with the city that has undergone many changes during his absence, Ruan Qingning will not forget the location of his home. According to the instructions of Ruan Qingning's manual navigator, the car was driven to the exclusive parking lot of the high-end apartment where Ruan Qingning's house was located, and the fact that the straight-line distance between Ruan Qingning's parents was no more than 50 meters, made Lu Ling's heartbeat in a stable state all the year round finally have a trace of obvious fluctuations.
Breathe deeply, inhale, exhale, inhale again, exhale again. The deeper he breathed, the more nervous he felt, and Lu Ling actually had the urge to escape, which was really rare for him who always liked to face difficulties.
Ruan Qingning looked at Lu Ling's nervous appearance very interestingly, she had always been in control of everything, and Lu Ling, who was calm and calm when she was chasing her, was now so nervous about meeting for a while. Silently erecting the phone, Ruan Qingning turned on the camera, and what jumped out of the screen was exactly what Lu Ling was trying to calm down with repeated deep breaths...