Dad Su still shook his head disdainfully: "Innocent! If you go out once, you will be married? Funny, right?"

"Well, when we're three-year-olds? It's called marriage? At best, it's nonsense. "Su's mother and Su's father are almost identical.

Su Xiaoman and Ou Shangwen also exchanged glances, feeling that it was time to take out this marriage certificate, Ou Shangwen nodded, Su Xiaoman took out the marriage certificate from his backpack: "Dad, Mom, you see, we are a legal husband and wife, I didn't lie to you, it's not a joke, it's a very solemn and serious marriage!"

Father Su took the marriage certificate, looked up and down, left and right, and then handed it to Mother Su: "Look at it, what's going on?" Mother Su looked at it for a while, and looked at Feng Xiangzhen and Su Xiaotian suspiciously: "You guys?"

"We" Su Xiaotian was about to explain, but Su Xiaoman interrupted him: "Mom, didn't you suddenly get a call and leave that day, did you?" At that time, Ou Shangwen was waiting for me outside, and I was going to have dinner together, but I didn't expect you to leave halfway, so I quickly called him over and registered my marriage with my brother and sister-in-law. ”

"No, when I'm leaving, Auchanwen is here?"

"Yes Mom, we didn't expect it, just had a chance for us! Thank you so much Sister Qinqing, fortunately she has something over there, otherwise, we would have to wait for a while. ”

"No, no, I'm going to have to reorganize, it seems like a bit of a mess. Sue's mother struggled to remember.

Father Su frowned and looked at Mother Su: "By the way, when you came back that day, you really didn't bring back the household registration book, and I asked you!"

Mother Su slapped her thigh: "It's really, how did you make such a big mistake?" Mother Su had a bitter face, and after a while, she seemed to have reacted, glaring at Feng Xiangzhen and Su Xiaotian: "You two, you, you disappointed me so much, such a big thing happened, and you didn't tell me?"

"I" Feng Xiangzhen wanted to speak and stopped.

Su Xiaotian hurriedly replied: "Mom, don't blame Xiang Zhen, she wanted to explain to you, but didn't she urgently go to find Sister Qinqing at that time? I said that I would explain to you together when I came back." As a result, she came and went for several days, and she came back to accompany her aunt and uncle for a while, and when they left, I felt a little hindered, and I didn't know if it was appropriate or inappropriate to report to you, so it was delayed, and it was delayed until now!"

After saying this, Su Xiaotian and Feng Xiangzhen glanced at the truth, and the two of them smiled smartly, knowing that Su Xiaoman was protecting them, and the two of them had to support and protect Su Xiaoman and Ou Shangwen well, otherwise they would be sorry for their trust.

Father Su glared at Su Xiaotian: "Xiaotian, you are not small, and you have been hiding it for so long? These two days, okay, I didn't investigate it before, what about the past two days, we have been studying the boy's affairs, don't you know? Why don't you inform in advance?"

Su Xiaotian was a little embarrassed, and he didn't know how to answer Su's father's question. Feng Xiangzhen smiled and explained: "Uncle, I am to blame for this matter, because we are very angry when we see you and Auntie, and we don't want to add fuel to the fire, for fear of making things even more out of control." I told Xiaotian, don't worry, wait for my uncle and aunt's anger to subside, and then it's not too late!"

"Yes, I also told them not to explain this to you indiscriminately before I come back, I will take care of it myself, and I don't need their help. Su Xiaoman tried her best to clear up the relationship between the two people in front of her.

"Well, I also insist that I have to face my own affairs, don't involve too many good people! Dad, Mom, this matter is our mistake, first cut and then play, it is true that we are in a hurry, but things are in a hurry, opportunities are in a hurry, we can't react a little, and when we were excited, we registered!"

Su Xiaoman continued to excuse his brother and Feng Xiangzhen after Ou Shangwen's words: "The two of them have persuaded me, don't be impulsive, I'm afraid of making you even more angry, I'm sorry Mom, I was a little impulsive at the time, I was too excited to take the initiative, I never expected that there would be something happening at that time, she was like a distant god assisting, helping me solve unprecedented problems." It's true. Su Xiaoman said very sincerely, this is also true, that incident did happen a little urgently, and everyone did not expect it.

Su's father was silent, Su's mother was silent, it was indeed for a reason, and they couldn't be blamed for it, and they didn't design it to cause this consequence, just like God designed it, and there was an urgent matter of Lou Jingqing running away from home at a critical time. Su's father and Su's mother glanced at each other, and their four eyes were full of helplessness and speechlessness.

……

Assistant Zhong, who didn't come with him, was chatting with Chen Yu at the moment, and the two met by chance, so they went to a coffee shop to drink coffee together.

"Brother Chen, I have a lot of things I want to ask, so coincidentally, I was thinking about you, and I met it!" Assistant Zhong explained to Chen Yu very happily.

Chen Yu smiled: "This, is it true? I can still help you?"

"Of course, there are a lot of things, a lot of doubts!"

Chen Yu looked at Assistant Zhong with puzzled eyes: "You are, what kind of contradiction is there?"

Assistant Zhong waved his hand again and again: "No, no, don't think too much, I just want to say, that, I recently saw some colleagues encounter some troubles, and they have all kinds of ideas, but they are not very mature, and they want to talk to someone, but they are too young." Assistant Zhong was a little embarrassed: "That, you know, people who are too young, what they say, what they see, may be similar to me, so"

Chen Yu smiled: "Thank you for looking down on me, age is sometimes a double-edged sword! ”

"Then, thank you, Brother Chen. That's right, several of my colleagues have been arguing about public and selfish matters, and they have blushed and blushed, which makes me a little dizzy, and I don't know if it's right, so I want to ask for advice. ”

"How do you distinguish between public and selfish?

Assistant Zhong nodded again and again: "Yes, yes, sometimes, I can't tell the difference, but Mr. Ou is very strict with the staff, I'm afraid he will not be satisfied with me." A few days ago, he also reminded me that if you keep a sober heart to work, you won't be too tired!"

Chen Yu couldn't help but smile: "Then you're more confused? He took a sip of coffee: "Well, this tastes authentic, it's good, thank you for the coffee!"

"Thank you for what? I still have a request for you! I will certainly benefit greatly from your thoughts and opinions. ”

Chen Yu put down the cup and smiled thoughtfully, and then raised his eyes to look: "Public heart and selfishness? If I talk about it, I can see one thing, whether this person is afraid of offending people? If he is afraid of offending people in everything, this is not cautious, it is a typical excessive selfishness." ”

"Isn't it good to be cautious?"

"A moderate amount of caution is a good thing, but if you go too far, it's hard to say. If you think about it, a position for you to do, naturally has its prescribed responsibilities, you just have to do it well, and you must be conscientious. But he only thinks about doing things that are good for himself, only thinks about his promotion, and only thinks about getting some benefits from his leader. The caution caused by this is not advisable at all. ”

Assistant Zhong pondered a little ignorantly: "Caution is not necessarily an advantage?"

"Yes, everything has to have a degree, and this is quite difficult to grasp. Chen Yu talked eloquently.

Assistant Zhong also took a thoughtful sip of coffee, and looked at Chen Yu expectantly. "The leader is looking for a good subordinate, because he shares his worries for himself, is to help himself, not to make trouble for himself, if everything has to be asked, let the leader take the idea, decide, this is not cautious, this is no opinion, no courage, no working methods, there are many disadvantages!"

"But most of the young people still do this, support it, move it, and don't dare to cross the line. It feels like I'd rather not do it than do it wrong. ”

Chen Yu shook his head: "No, no, no, the leader will not like such a person! If you dare to do things, you dare to try and take responsibility." Incompetent subordinates are, to put it bluntly, they have no brains, no guts, and they dare not make decisions about anything. In fact, as long as it is for the good of the leader and the good of the collective, you rashly make some decisions, even if it is a little overstepping, as long as the result is good, the leader will look up to you. This is called the spirit of adventure. ”

"Adventurous?"

Chen Yu looked at Assistant Zhong: "Yes, work also needs some adventurous spirit, otherwise? I expect the leader to give me guidance and instructions? Let me tell you, the leader is not omnipotent, he can't point out and order all aspects of your work." The leader points out a direction, you just go that way, he is not your mother, he tells you which way to go, when you encounter a dog or a bad person, what you have to do and how to deal with it, the leader does not have that kind of patience! Of course, some people also have this habit, no matter how big or small, do it yourself. ”

Assistant Zhong nodded: "That's right, I have a leader, it's really like this, it seems that all the ways have been told to you, but I feel that all the ways have been blocked by him, because when he pointed too much, he found that in fact, he didn't have much choice!"

"You see, this is two-sided, there is a good side to things, and there is often a bad side, so the process of dealing with it is very knowledgeable. Some people can deal with the satisfaction of the majority, by the way, the majority of the people are satisfied, this is already the highest level, if you want to satisfy everyone, this matter is really very difficult, even if you are the CEO, there are still unsatisfactory places, because people's hearts are too mixed, who can, how to say?"

Assistant Zhong replied: "Is it difficult for one person to call a hundred hearts?"

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