Chapter 123: When people reach middle age, they will see through everything
Be simple, live easily, and let go, so that there will be no troubles, and it is rare to be confused, and you will gain more. Pen × fun × Pavilion www. biquge。 The starting point of info life is a kind of forgiveness, tolerating others is to let go of oneself, life is an attitude, and a smile is the second sun of life. What others have can be obtained through hard work, and what they lack can be understood with a different mentality. WeChat can have a circle of friends, but may not find really good people, life only with their own gratitude, with a kind heart, facing the world, in order to live in the sunshine.
A person who does not fight is a person respected by the world, a person who is not angry is an example to others, and a person who is not guarded is his own teacher. To live is to see openly, without worries, since you have grown up, don't be afraid of loneliness, learn to be calm. Be quiet, learn more, think more, life has to see, the dawn here is quiet, not in the group, in order to see through the group, you are not good enough, but you have to know how to be excellent, learn to be excellent, be an excellent person.
No matter how good others are, it is a virtue that they are not greedy, and no matter how poor they are, they must know dignity. When people are cold, they have to know when the warmth will come, and when they are warm, they have to remember what winter looks like and never forget their original intentions. Those who understand may not be able to see through, those who don't understand may just be talking, those who care will know how to do it, and those who forget can no longer see each other. People have an ability called nobility, and there is also an instinct called kindness.
Don't care, it's easy to get lost, don't delay, you can't turn back if you give up, don't be distracted, you can start from scratch if you lose. The reason is not for yourself to say, the ending is not for others to say, and the process needs to be described by yourself. With self-confidence, life can not be afraid of the future, have courage, be full of confidence, add connotation, stay away from the excitement, in order to understand yourself. When it's time to stop, don't worry, and when you slow down, you must know how to think about life.
To be a person of understanding, do not fight, be alone for respect, happiness first, health second. Widen the width of life, let yourself live with a smile, cultivate a cup of cloud water Zen heart, be worthy of your heart, do not worry, do not complain, and be content in this life.
Enlightenment is a kind of respect for others, a kind of acceptance of oneself, you can see clearly, let go, and know yourself, so that you can realize weakness, after all, the pole is broken, and right and wrong have a beginning and an end. Showing weakness is not that you are incapable, but to maintain your strength, you can't fight with unnecessary people, and you don't worry about impulsive people, it's not worth it. Showing weakness can look up to a person's cultivation, can change a person's mentality, and let himself know that he is not giving up the time to fight, but finding his own goal and not delaying his life.
Wu gave up, yesterday has left, today has begun, tomorrow is just around the corner, reluctant day and night, only to know the time to give up, will not come back. Enlightenment is a virtue, giving up is a kind of dignity, not asking for people, not perfunctory, living for an enlightenment, being a man, you have to know how to be willing, and you have to know how to show weakness, to give up, to let go, in order to afford.
Enlightening the state of mind, climbing the peak, and seeing the mountains at a glance is not for fame and fortune, but for one's own health. One day, realize a little of yourself, look at others with your heart, understand the width of life, and explore the realm of the soul. Only when people have a heart can they have a realm, only when they have a way to understand and have a sense of what they have, do not miss the future, do not delay the present, do what they should do, and hide what they leave. The state of mind of conscience is a kind of blandness, the state of mind of gratitude is a kind of happiness, enlightenment is to understand the true meaning of life, and the state of mind is not regretful.
Wu is alone, a person looks at the sea, what he sees is not the sea, but yesterday's scenery, a flower appreciation, not flowers, is today's sunshine, a person waits for the dawn, waits for the dawn, but today's efforts. Lonely people think about gregarious people, lonely hearts, ask why they are not there, why they can't accommodate themselves, ask more questions, and they will understand. The character is written with two paintings, others give themselves the opportunity to be alone, and they want to give themselves a cup of cloud water Zen heart and epiphany of the soul.
Complaining can make people lose their minds, lose their inner balance, and not be full of hope for the future. To complain is to hurt oneself, to be unfair to one's own life, people do not live to complain, time is waiting, not to make themselves lose everything. Complaining is an impulse, there is no virtue in the heart, there is no growth in thinking, and the ability cannot keep up with the speed. To be a man, not to be a complaining person, not to complain, in order to know that quiet, silence is golden, step by step.
Nonsense is when it fails, in one go, smart people have calm thoughts and don't get excited, so they can't say it. People who talk nonsense don't know how to measure, they don't have good popularity, and they let others guard against every move, and they can't see through every move they make, and they can't learn experience. Nonsense is the beginning of a kind of regret, letting people know that they are lost, forgotten, and when they can't erase it, they know that they can't do anything. People can be stupid and poor, but they can't talk nonsense, hurt themselves, and reject others.
Crazy words are not measured, it is a kind of faux pas, if it is shallow, your credibility is gone, and if you say it far, your clumsiness will be more. The crazy words are true, make others afraid, say it closely, and let other people's rejection come very early. People who talk crazy talk have little cultivation, lack a cup of cloud water Zen heart, and the heart of crazy words can't see themselves clearly, can't sort out others, only cares about what they say, and doesn't understand whether others are annoying. Talking crazy things hurts others and hurting themselves, and those who talk crazy talk have no measure for themselves, and others can distinguish between cold and warm.
Gossip is a waste, delaying the lives of others, consuming one's own hearing, and delaying one's own mind. If people condense too much gossip, their eloquence will be clumsy, and if their hearts perceive too much gossip, they will not be able to communicate with their souls. To be a man and listen to other people's gossip idle, it is better to calm down and look through your former self. Watching others gossip, listening too much is tired, thinking too much is tired, chasing too much and forgetting the original intention. Smart people, don't complain, in order to be able to let go, not to say crazy words, to be able to leave, not to talk nonsense, to be able to think widely, not to gossip, in order to be able to afford it.
Pursuit, without pursuit, life has no meaning, pursuit is the inner faith, but also the soul of life. People have pursuits, only then can they have dreams, say it, think about it, and do it slowly, in order to get out of the width of their lives. People's pursuit is the desire of the heart, with a kind of Zen, no understanding and clear and clear, change their attitude, listen to the wind and rain of the world, and chase their own dreams. The reason why people have pursuits is because every step of life and life is to explore and believe in themselves.
Dignity is the backbone of life, and it is also the biggest bargaining chip in life. Dignity is to use the responsibility to protect the family, protect others, and maintain credibility. Dignity, dignity, respect for others, strict self-discipline, step by step, see open, in order to be able to take it, to do it, to let it go. Respect the elderly, learn from experience, strictly manage the young, experience childlike innocence, listen to things, respect the right to speak, and speak respectfully with the feelings of others.
Self-confidence, can allow yourself to climb, but also allow yourself to continue to work hard, those who believe, follow step by step, those who do not believe, take refuge as soon as possible. Self-confidence relies on the experience of thinking, maintains the royal road of survival, has the courage to be a man, and sees things in detail. A confident person is taciturn, but he must know that he is calm and learns a lot, and a confident person will not be impulsive, but his heart is like a mirror, and he will be able to take risks. Self-confidence is the wings of life, if you want to fly high, you must use your own key to open the door for yourself.
Tenacity is a kind of wealth, success or failure lies in the millimeter, life lies in every day, only accumulation, in order to surpass, if you want to excel, you must be tenacious. Tough people know how to share, don't say if they don't have results, don't do it if they aren't good enough, do it, and let others say it. Right and wrong, tenacity is a kind of heart vein, which can make the soul sound and can make the mind broaden the depth of reading. If people have a kind of sincerity, they will have a kind of tenacity, if they have a kind of kindness, they will have a kind of tenacious effort, and if they have a kind of endurance, they will have a kind of tenacious listening.
Knowledge, a knowledge, is a wealth, a clear view, is a life, a understanding, is a health, an experience, is a talent. Knowledge reading is not the thickness of the article, but the width of life, and what knowledge gets is not the helplessness of life, but the inner talent. People have pursuit, in order to learn to be diligent, to be self-confident, to understand right and wrong, to maintain dignity, to gain insight into the world, people live is to read their own knowledge, in order to learn more, tenacious efforts every day, not to disappoint, not to give up.
Although kindness is a virtue, if you pay wrong, you will hurt yourself. People are not good people, but good people. What is kindness, helping those in need, and the people who are helped, or the people who are grateful, know how to share, and understand things. Kindness is a kind of lazy beginning, and kindness is a preparation that makes people forget self-confidence. Life is not greedy, kindness scores, sincerity to see things, don't think that kindness can be rewarded, real kindness is to let others understand and be kind.
Giving money to others is not really kindness, just a kind of mercy, giving others wealth, not a kindness, but giving alms all the time. What is kindness, is that people understand, what is kindness, is human affection, absolutely let people change a lifetime, know kindness, change ugliness. If you say the wrong language, you may be able to make others learn kindness, and if you are sincerely wrong, you may let others forget kindness. A person, a conscience, lives and forgets to be grateful, there is no kindness, kindness is not what is said or done, but a future.
The vicissitudes of life, life is just a book, others look through their ugliness, or they pay kindness, and they insist. Time has precipitated too much, some people learn, some people wipe it away, and kindness, like a mountain, does not move, life shakes today, some people are sad, some people smile, some people have no time to speak, and kindness, like a strong wind, blows and leaves, comes and scatters. Kindness does not speak, the world is grateful, kindness does not speak, the world is sincere.
Kindness, there is a difference between truth and falsehood, some people disguise, some people borrow kindness, deceive kindness, people deceive others, it is just a time, and the sky will pay it back. Kindness, regardless of rich and poor, kindness, regardless of high and low, ugly and beautiful, but the Zen of the mirror, but the Zen heart of Yunshui, come without a trace, go without a trace, when you catch it, there is no one, when you leave, it comes again. You can't be too kind, listen to kindness, listen too much, waste your mind, say too much, others are upset, look at it kindly, see too much, and get tired.
Be human, do things, be kind to people, be kind to things, not be kind to anyone. Look at people, see things, be kind, let go of dignity, for the poor, you have to know the wealth of wisdom for him, for kindness, just understand, don't talk about other people's bad, don't point through other people's injuries. Man is the master of all things, but also the root of kindness, will not pay kindness, but also a kind of helplessness, will pay kindness, find the right person, is kindness. Look at people, say that others are kind, talk about people, talk about others' sincerity, be a person, listen to other people's details, deal with things, and think about your own ability.
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