Chapter 122: Indecision
"What about me, I just think, my sister-in-law, oh no, it's my ex-sister-in-law who has a very bad impression of my brother, and it's not good for him, I'm wondering if my brother really has a lot of shortcomings? Because we are relatives, we can't see through it, and we may not be very objective, so ask you, if he has any shortcomings that are not very good, then I will remind him to improve well, otherwise he may have to fight a bachelor for the rest of his life, what a pity. ”
Feng Xiangzhen smiled: "Do you really dare to say that let your brother know, it's strange if he doesn't beat you?"
Su Xiaoman smiled mischievously.
"What's wrong with your brother? He is very mature and kind, of course, sometimes he has some impatience, which can be regarded as straightforward, and now he can suppress his anger more and more, very manly. It's not bad for my ex-wife, actually. Divorce is not the party at fault, and it is not common to have this or that. Your brother doesn't have those careful eyes, which is good. ”
Su Xiaoman was still not satisfied, and continued to ask: "Then does he have any advantages?"
"Also, I'm pretty good at taking care of people. Feng Xiangzhen replied without thinking.
Su Xiaoman lowered her head and drank coffee, hiding the smile on her face, and secretly rejoiced, okay, it's good to have a good impression.
"By the way, Xiaoman, your matter is not a trivial matter, don't be a joke with me!"
Su Xiaoman nodded helplessly. Su Xiaoman chatted with Feng Xiangzhen, originally intending to share happiness and sweetness, but she didn't expect to be warned by her, which made her a little confused.
Seeing that Su Xiaoman still hadn't reacted, Feng Xiangzhen couldn't help but remind again: "It's really not a joke, such a big thing, I don't dare to finish it so hastily." Wear this ring yourself, don't let your parents see it, or a lot of things will happen. ”
Su Xiaoman looked at the ring on his hand with a regretful expression: "This can't be shown?"
"Of course not!" Feng Xiangzhen looked at Su Xiaoman seriously, and persuaded earnestly: "It's okay to show off if you want, and only then can you wait until everything settles." ”
Su Xiaoman was still a little reluctant: "If I do this, how disappointed will Shang Wen be?"
"You can wear it in front of him, although it is showy, when you are the two of you, but in front of your parents, you must not show it like this, you think, your parents have not met yet, you have already finished the ceremony, looking for a beating!"
"What should I do then? I've already accepted it?" Su Xiaoman was entangled: "I feel like I have to accept it." ”
"Didn't I tell you that I took it off when there was someone and put it on when there was no one, so, for the time being. ”
Su Xiaoman is really not as complicated and long-term as Feng Xiangzhen thought, she is just happy now, consciously or unconsciously ignoring the pressure and resistance of the family and the traditional etiquette.
"If their family sees Ou Shangwen wearing a ring, they will probably have an idea, fortunately he is a man, and I think he is also quite strong, he will not be swayed by his family, at most it will add a little trouble. ”
Listening to Feng Xiangzhen's analysis, Su Xiaoman's face turned a little gloomy: "It's so complicated, you say this, the two of us exchanged rings, and the consequences are quite serious?"
"It's quite serious, it's about the same as you ignoring the opinions and suggestions of your parents, in ancient times, the two of you were privately decided for life, you said it's not serious, right?"
"Yes...... That," Su Xiaoman wanted to say and stopped.
"You don't need this or that, listen to me right, this time, you just be quietly happy and sweet, don't ruin the big things, don't do the good things too much. Feng Xiangzhen still insisted on his own point of view.
"Well, then, shall I tell Auchanwen in case he is in trouble there?"
"That's not necessary, on his side, it's a kind of determination. It is also beneficial for their family to see it, at most, to see sincerity and determination, to see firmness, and to see your place in his heart. However, they should have some rude or hasty ideas, but not as serious as yours. ”
Su Xiaoman thought thoughtfully: "Why didn't I think of it?"
"You, now you care about happiness, don't you know that there is a saying? People in love are fools, you and Ou Shangwen are both. ”
Su Xiaoman was a little embarrassed by Feng Xiangzhen's words: "Ah? haha, yes, you're right, the two of us don't seem to have enough IQ, and the two of us are not as good as you." ”
"It's not that I blow, it's not that I have experience, it's my cousin's family, I just experienced such a war, and it was a good marriage, and the two of them came naturally, just because the two young people were willful and ignored the feelings and opinions of their parents, and finally led to a war between the two parents and broke up directly, what a pity. ”
Su Xiaoman was curious: "What's the matter?"
"Yes, at first, it was two parents who fought, and later, the two lovers also protected their own families, and slowly the conflict escalated, and they quarreled and fought, all kinds of trouble, you don't know how sorry we are, it's because they didn't handle it well, didn't take care of the parents' emotions, and caused the two to break up, break up, and let the two big families intervene, and also alarmed the police station. ”
"Hurt someone?"
"That's right, in the chaos, the people on our side beat the people on their side, and they were hospitalized directly, this thing made a fuss, injured one, and went in the other, the two families lost more than they lost, and they also made enemies. It hasn't stopped until now. Therefore, when dealing with family matters, you must be careful and careful. ”
"However, if the head of the family just doesn't agree, then you can't just rely on them, right?" Su Xiaoman still didn't want to have a conflict with Ou Shangwen because of family reasons.
"That's of course, but pay attention to ways and means, you can't be willful, willfulness can't solve anything, and sometimes it's a bad thing, and you can shoot yourself in the foot. Feng Xiangzhen said with relish: "I figured it out, marriage without the blessing of your family is absolutely not good, you also have to pay attention to one point." ”
"Oh, well, I'll think about it again. Then, it's also delaying you a lot of time, why don't we talk another day?" Su Xiaoman looked at the time, and the time that the customer had made an appointment was about the same.
"Okay, think about it again, I'm for your good, can you understand?"
Su Xiaoman smiled, "I know, you are a good person, and I am also a big stupid person, you have to remind me, I don't want to be unhappy with my family." Probably not. ”
"Then you have to work hard, take care of your uncles and aunts' emotions, don't provoke them. You are all the ones who are going to get married, coax them at home and make them happy, as long as they are happy, your problem will not be a problem!"
"Got it, you go quickly, don't get fined because of me. ”
Feng Xiangzhen smiled: "You still have a little conscience, delay me from going to work, and pretend to say that you are afraid of affecting my bonus and that I am afraid of being fined?"
"I believe it. You're leaving, I'm leaving, I'll leave when I'm done. ”
Feng Xiangzhen stood up, waved his hand to Su Xiaoman, and hurriedly walked out.
Su Xiaoman looked at Feng Xiangzhen's back, and sighed a lot for a while, it's really good to have a friend, if you can't talk to your family, you can talk to your friends, and you can get good advice, hey, I'm really lucky. Su Xiaoman was silently grateful to Feng Xiangzhen in her heart.
Feng Xiangzhen walked on the road, thinking as he walked, he simply took out his mobile phone and called Su Xiaotian: "Hey, I have something, do you have time to listen?"
"Of course, you say. ”
"Your sister, she showed me her ring just now. ”
Su Xiaotian was really surprised: "The ring, so fast, what does it mean?"
"It's about the romance of the two, I think. It was Ou Shangwen who came to deliver it in the morning, and then he flew back. ”
Su Xiaotian smiled: "Ha, this kid is really romantic enough, so far away to give a ring?
"Don't care about flowers, you listen to me, I taught your sister a lesson, I'm afraid it's a little too much, let me tell you, let's go to the staff, is it that I'm worried." Feng Xiangzhen told Su Xiaoman before and after meeting and chatting.
Su Xiaotian sighed: "That's the case, what you said makes sense, my parents don't object so much, but they have accepted them without saying it, but they don't know what to object." I know what they mean, and I have to look at what my in-laws mean, in case something is not suitable for them on their side, we have a way out, and we didn't explicitly promise them, right?"
"What do you mean? Have you asked your uncle and aunt?"
"Well, we discussed it last night, thinking that if their family didn't agree, our family would have to hold on to it, after all, we had little money, so we couldn't be looked down upon because of this. We can't let them misunderstand this and think that we are interested in their money. Su Xiaotian said: "You said it right, right?"
"Of course, it makes sense, it's right to keep a hand, after all, everyone is not familiar with it, and they can't know the roots, so it's also for Xiaoman's good. I'm afraid I'll be too helpful, right? ”
"No, that's good! I want to thank you, if you hadn't reminded me, my sister would have been so angry when she came home, I don't know how angry my mom would have been? ”
"No, I think Auntie is very good, she speaks very reasonably, and her temper is good. Feng Xiangzhen said how he felt.
Su Xiaotian laughed: "That may be the right person, I think my mother is better to you than to me, isn't it, better than my sister?
"Yes, I don't think so, maybe we can both think of one place. ”
"Yes, my mother said the same thing, saying that I am not as concerned as you are in matters with my sister. Su Xiaotian couldn't help but smile as brightly as the sun when he thought of Mother Su praising Feng Xiangzhen for all kinds of goodness.
Feng Xiangzhen chatted with Su Xiaotian for a few words, and his heart was also steady,