Chapter 367 Thorny Problem 5

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Early in the morning of September 20, Spring made up a reason for his wife Xu Dan to go to the Education Bureau for a meeting, and went to the county seat by car alone.

Huxian Library is located in the center of the prosperous area of the old county seat, adjacent to the county cinema, and is a quiet place in the middle of the hustle and bustle. After getting off at the long-distance station, Spring is a few minutes' walk to the library. In the huge library, apart from two staff members, there is not even a single reader friend. Think about it, in this era when everyone pursues money and material comforts, and materialistic desires, there are not many people who can calm down and read seriously, and the desertion of the library is also reasonable. The two eldest sisters in charge of library management are chatting and chatting, and the arrival of spring has brought a touch of vitality to this secluded and lonely courtyard.

Spring told the two administrators about their identity and intentions, and the two of them discussed, and happily agreed to let the spring consult the information for free, and enthusiastically sent the spring to the psychology data area, and the spring hurriedly expressed his gratitude.

The psychology information area is in the innermost part of the reference room, and the high rows of bookshelves are full of various Chinese and foreign psychology works, but it is obvious that few of these books have been turned over, and a thick layer of dust has accumulated on the books, and there are silky cobwebs in the corners of the bookshelves, and there is a strong musty smell after opening the pages.

But he didn't care about these things in the spring, he searched the shelves hungrily for the materials he wanted, not only to read intensively and quickly, but also to copy important passages into his notebook in the spring.

2.

Fetishis, also known as fetishes, is a type of sexual preference disorder. Sexual preference disorder, formerly known as paraphilia, refers to a series of abnormal sexual behaviors, such as exhibitionism, friction disorder, fetishism, voyeurism, cross-dressing disorder, sexual sadism or masochism, zoophilia, etc. This type of sexual and behavioral disorder is rare in pre-adolescent children, and is placed in the ICD, DSM, and CCMD diagnostic systems as an adult, human, sexual, and psychological disorder, but surveys have found that most of these problems in adults begin in adolescence, and about half of them begin before the age of 18. According to foreign reports, 30%-50% of child sexual harassment incidents are caused by teenagers. Many children have a combination of abnormal sexual fetishes. The most common sexual preference disorders in children and adolescents are exhibitionism, fetishism, cross-dressing and voyeurism.

Fetishis.m refers to an obsession with non-living objects that are used as stimuli to evoke sexual fantasies and urges. Commonly found in boys, the object of infatuation is often direct contact with the body surface of the opposite sex, such as a lock of hair, shoes, gloves, underwear, underwear, stockings, hair clips, pins, necklaces, etc. Fetishists are often unable to love a physically present, whole person, and are only interested in what they wear or wear. Sometimes, in order to obtain the above items, they even steal them by any means necessary, thus breaking the law.

Fetishes are usually characterized by a stunted psychosexual development in childhood, and most of them tend to generalize sexual objects or replace opposite-sex sexual objects with symbolic objects. During puberty, the sexual satisfaction behavior of taking a certain object or a certain part of the human body as a sexual object is learned, and a fetish is formed through the conditioning mechanism. Some stubborn fetishes are more or less accompanied by some kind of genetic or congenital defect. The cause of this may be related to the poor educational environment or qualitative factors in childhood.

Fetishism is a kind of sexual psychological disorder, which is characterized by the patient's difficulty in refraining from being obsessed with the clothes of the opposite sex, and almost only men among the patients will do this, so the clothing is mostly women's underwear, bras, stockings, shoes, belts, ornaments, etc., we call these "fetish", they often use their hands to hold, rub or sniff the fetish object to fantasize about sexual masturbation, and even themselves or ask their sexual partners to wear this fetish during sexual acts.

The pathogenesis of fetishes is not yet clear, but some scholars believe that it is related to dysregulation of the secretion of central nervous mediators in the hypothalamus, others believe that it is due to primitive desires and cravings for the flesh of the opposite sex, and more certainly it is due to the hindrance of the development of personality caused by the childhood environment and sexual consciousness. According to clinical understanding, some patients are accustomed to sleeping with their mother's clothes and headscarves in their childhood, otherwise it is not easy to sleep. If this kind of situation is not corrected in time, it is easy to form fetishes when you grow up.

There is no specific drug treatment for fetishes, but psychotherapy, combined with environmental education and restraint, can correct the behavior of most fetishists. The prevention and treatment of fetishes should start from early childhood education, and pay attention to the influence of the environment on children's personality. At different ages, it is necessary to carry out necessary sex education according to the psychological characteristics of children and adolescents, guide them to correctly understand the physiological and psychological differences between the sexes, eliminate excessive mysteries about the opposite sex, encourage them to study hard, actively participate in group activities, and cultivate good personality qualities, especially self-control, decisiveness, and moral cultivation.

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Faced with a thick book of materials copied in his hand, Spring felt more and more confused, there were a lot of various books and materials about fetishes, but in so many psychological materials, Spring did not find effective methods and measures to treat fetishes, and even if there were, there were only a few sentences, and it was impossible to implement them on Cao Tianyu.

3.

Bidding farewell to the two kind-hearted librarians, the depressed spring squatted in the shade of the street in front of the library and smoked a cigarette. Just go back? Spring is not reconciled. However, if you don't go back, where should you go to find a suitable solution to the problem? The most suitable person to solve this problem is a psychological counselor, but where can a small county town in Hushan find a professional psychological counselor?

If you don't have a psychological counselor, you can find a psychology teacher! Smoking a cigarette, a flash of inspiration suddenly flashed in his mind, and he thought of Liu Xiangyang, Huxian Normal School, and Huxian Normal Psychology Teacher. There is a huge county seat, and only Huxian teachers will have psychology teachers.

Spring's mood suddenly lifted up, and he hurriedly found the public phone on the street and dialed Liu Xiangyang's mobile phone.