Chapter 365: Real Life
Ding Changlin's words made the Mi sisters excited all of a sudden, especially Mi Silan, she snatched Ding Changlin's words and said: "Brother Ding, can we really turn the tables? Can we rely on ourselves? My sister does a good job of hand embroidery, but I can't, I have been discussing female celebrities since I was a child, and I am the most annoyed about picking needles and threads." Why should we women do these things?
However, the women in our village have been passed down like this for generations, and I am just an alternative, but I still haven't been admitted to university, and I am only three points, three points.
If I go to college, if I have a formal job, I can do without asking for a man.
But I've only graduated from high school, and Li Wuyi has already made me like this, if I don't follow him, who else can I follow? You are saying that Li Wuyi is going to fall, if my sister can really make the company stronger and bigger, I can help my sister manage the company, right?"
Instead of responding to Ding Changlin's words, Mi Silan is full of her imaginary vision for the future.
Ding Changlin was very relieved when he heard Mi Silan say these words, it seems that his words have worked, tonight is the happiest night he has ever had these days, he beat Li Wuyi and didn't say anything, and let Feng Haitao teach Li Wuyi a lesson, and brought Mi Silan out, he opened Mi Silan's words, it still worked very well.
So, Ding Changlin continued: "Sidi, Silan, in fact, in this life, people can be tempered, and self-sufficiency can be truly happy. If you don't reach this state, your suffering will never be saved.
And women should not live for men, they will lose themselves, and men will not cherish you.
We Chinese women are accustomed to attaching their value to men or children, and often forget that before becoming a wife or mother, she was a woman, a woman with her own ideas, and in need of care and love.
If you don't revive a lot of your consciousness, blindly counting on men and relying on men, you will become more and more shallow and ignorant, because in your eyes, you will always be those firewood, rice, oil and salt, endless celebrity gossip, and the rights and wrongs around you, these things will only dissipate your fighting spirit.
You have to learn from Hong Kong actress Carina Lau, she said such a passage: In a woman's life, the most precious and important person is herself, and the highest way for a woman to live is to please herself!
Sidi, Silan, I hope you will remember this passage and stop relying on men!" Ding Changlin finally told these big truths to the two sisters, so that they should know what real life is like.
In particular, Mi Silan is counting on a big tree, and it is indeed good to enjoy the shade under the big tree, but the problem is that you can enjoy the shade under the big tree, and so can others! You have nothing to do with it, how many men will abandon their homes and pay such a big price for you, especially when the economy is declining day by day, whether it is an official or a boss, it is far from the days before, at such a time, how many men really dare to hand over everything they have created to others, to marry a woman who needs him to raise and hold?
Of course, Ding Changlin didn't say these words, these words stripped the man as if he had no clothes, and he still couldn't say it.
Mi Sidi listened to Ding Changlin's words word by word, and she finally understood that Ding Changlin would not marry her, because she was poor and white!
The museum still arrived, a pair of sisters from the Mi family got out of the car, Ding Changlin parked the car at the museum, and took a taxi to go straight to the barbecue street.
By the time Ding Changlin arrived, Fifth Lotus and Feng Haitao had already drunk happily, and Mi Silan's words did not hinder these two people at all, and they were still punching heartlessly, especially Fifth Lotus, who was more slippery than a man when she stroked her fist.
As soon as the two of them saw Ding Changlin coming, they stood up at the same time, Ding Changlin motioned for them to sit down, but Feng Haitao asked, "Those two uneasy ones have quieted down, right?"
Fifth Lian laughed, glared at Feng Haitao and said, "Did you say that about your wife?"
"This is my wife who was forced to me at home, and I didn't move her, I don't believe you ask Brother Ding, she is still a girl's family. Feng Haitao looked at the Fifth Lotus anxiously and defended, for fear of being misunderstood by the Fifth Lotus.
Ding Changlin was stunned and said jokingly: "Am I not at the right time?"
Fifth Lotus realized that Ding Changlin was joking with her and Feng Haitao, and was stunned, so she didn't respond to them, but sat down directly, but thought in her heart, Ding Changlin really likes that girl named Mi Sidi?
Ding Changlin also sat down and added, "Fifth, I'll just make a joke." Haitao and Sidi really haven't had a round house so far, so I'm also persuading Haitao to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau tomorrow to divorce the marriage, what do you think? ”
When Fifth Lotus heard this, she was very curious, looked directly at Feng Haitao and said: "Your family really arranged an arranged marriage for you?" It's just that the girl is very beautiful, and both girls are beautiful, you fool, why don't you move others? Do you sleep in the same bed? Then how do you usually live, it's the first time I've heard such a thing, strange people, strange people." ”
"Fifth, look at you, you're talking nonsense again, Haitao wants love, you're a big girl, what are you thinking about. Ding Changlin rounded the field for Feng Haitao, and didn't let Fifth Lotus say anything more.
Seeing Ding Changlin say this, Fifth Lotus raised her glass and looked at Feng Haitao and said, "Come, Haitao, it's a gentleman, respect you." ”
Feng Haitao was so surprised, after drinking the wine and being praised by the fifth lotus, his face turned even redder, and he stammered: "I, I just want a wife who can be talked about, Sidi her, no matter how beautiful she is, she has never even been in the city before." ”
"Since you don't have love, let's go and leave tomorrow. By the way, fifth, don't let Liangyu know about this matter, she doesn't praise Haitao's divorce. You also drink less, fifth, you will accompany me to see Tang Xinyan later, I have something to ask her. Ding Changlin said this directly, which made the fifth lotus even more surprised, does Ding Changlin really like that person named Mi Sidi? Or is it Feng Haitao's nominal wife?
The fifth lotus had something stuffed in her heart, but because of Feng Haitao's presence, she didn't want to ask much.
Feng Haitao saw that Ding Changlin had thought about everything for him, and hurriedly said, "Come, Brother Ding, I would like to give you a drink, thank you." In fact, I have always wanted to leave, but I am afraid that Director Zhang will not be happy, this job has not yet declined, and the impact is not good?"
It wasn't until this time that Fifth Lotus completely understood what was going on, but her heart was even more sad.