My mother often wanted to go back to my parents' house to visit my grandfather, and my uncle and aunt always wanted my mother to go back to see my grandfather. Because of my father's refusal, my mother never had the opportunity to return to her parents' house to visit her father.

In the summer, when her sister was also on summer vacation, Yang Li called her brother and asked her brother to persuade her father to let her mother go back to her parents' house to visit her grandfather.

called her mother again and asked her to bring her sister, and Yang Li herself set off from Chongqing to her grandfather's house.

Because Dad is an extremely conceited, arrogant, unreasonable, and liarous person. He can't listen to anyone's words, and in his heart everyone in his family and family is a fool, as far as he is clever and capable, he only occasionally listens to the persuasion of his heart's son.

Mom, sister and Yang Li played together at her grandfather's house for more than a week, and also swept her grandmother's grave.

A few months after returning to Chongqing, I suddenly received a call from my uncle saying that my grandfather had passed away. Yang Li thought to herself at the time, fortunately she didn't leave regrets for her mother and herself, at least for so many years, she went to visit her grandfather a few months ago.

Who can Yang Li blame? Only blame herself for being born in the wrong child and in an ignorant family. Dad is selfish and violent, he thinks of himself first in everything, if Yang Li secretly goes to her grandfather's house by herself, her father will think that Yang Li gave the money she earned from her part-time job to her grandfather, and then she will be angry and scolded and beat her mother, and when she comes home, she will also be beaten and scolded.

But fortunately, my grandfather himself has a retirement salary every month.

Yang Li called her father to tell her the news of her grandfather's death, and her uncle also called her father and mother to go back to see her grandfather off. Dad called Yang Li: "Your grandfather died, you go first, I will go with your mother in two days, you first buy some wreaths and paper money for your grandfather in my name, and then share the money, I will return it to you!"

Yang Li knew that her father was cheating her money again, and said that she would pay it back to herself, but in fact, she was lying to herself, but she just didn't want to worry about her father, but her father always thought he was a fool. Forget it, I don't want to deal with a cranky father.

Early the next morning, I came to my uncle's house and sent my grandfather to the end according to what my father said.

A few days later, my father and mother came, and my father burned the paper money for my grandfather, thinking about his son's household registration. (Because of the popular urban hukou in the 90s, grandpa and mother are both urban hukou, Yang Li was born before the month, and her mother was worried that Yang Li would be discarded by her father and grandmother, so her mother sent Yang Li to her grandmother's house, and her grandmother originally wanted to put Yang Li's hukou with her grandfather and mother, but was later forced by her selfish father to secretly change Yang Li's hukou to his son's.) Now it's not popular anymore, so my dad wants to move my brother's hukou back to his hometown)

Dad told his uncle about his brother's household registration, but my uncle didn't pay attention to my father. Dad talked a few times, but my uncle still didn't pay attention to my father and was busy sending my grandfather to the end. Later, her father ordered Yang Li to tell her uncle about her brother's household registration, Yang Li felt uncomfortable and ignored her father, and her father scolded Yang Li in front of her uncle's guests, Yang Li talked back and almost beat Yang Li.

Dad is not only worried about his brother's household registration, but also about whether his grandfather will be cremated, because his grandfather is a retired employee of a state-owned enterprise, and if he is cremated, he will get the funeral fee. Dad asked my uncle if he had been cremated, but my uncle still pretended not to hear it and ignored him. Dad asked Yang Li to ask her uncle again, Yang Li didn't know that cremation had funeral expenses, so she stupidly ran to ask her uncle, and her uncle told Yang Li that if she didn't cremate, she wanted her grandfather to leave decently. Yang Li stupidly ran to tell her father again.

Dad treats Yang Li like an outsider, bullying Yang Li's kindness and simplicity, and treating Yang Li's kindness and simplicity as a fool to use. Every time he cheated Yang Li of her money, he thought that Yang Li was stupid and easy to coax, but in fact, Yang Li just didn't want to worry about him. A normal father would not treat his children like this, even if he has no money to beg by himself, he will not abduct his children, and Yang Li's father is just used to being able to abduct Yang Li, constantly squeezing Yang Li, Yang Li is frugal herself, and her father squeezes and cheats Yang Li's money to eat, drink and have fun.

Dad's job is officially retired early, and he also has a retirement salary every month. Yang Li repeatedly discussed with her brother and sister-in-law, and asked her brother to persuade her father not to ask for money from him in the future. Now that I'm older, I need to have my own life.

After that, my brother promised Yang Li and did ideological work for his father, and he couldn't ask Yang Li for money anymore.