Chapter 141: For the sake of cultivation, maintain personality

Angry words, let yourself not forgive yourself, delay your own thoughts, and disturb your self-cultivation. Pen & Fun & Pavilion www.biquge.info people who talk angrily, lack self-confidence, have no self-knowledge, look at people, see shallowly, speak heavily, have few friends, and have many difficulties on the road. People live, think twice, there is no need to say angry words, hurt others, delay yourself, lose friendship, there is no place to regret, others don't care, you are still silent, it is a waste of time. To be a man, to speak angrily, you have to know that admitting mistakes, and bowing your head and admitting mistakes is a virtue.

Big words, deceitful words, words that are wide, easy to suffer, too far, others are difficult to believe, after all, other people's ideas and their own practices are inconsistent. If you talk too much, you have no credibility and no personality, delay yourself, and affect the pattern. People say big things because they can't let go, and they say big things because they can't understand others, big words make people suffer, too wide, and easy to forget themselves.

Straightforward is a possibility, too sure, so that others have no confidence, too simple, let yourself not be capable, speak directly, easy to be sad. Be a man and speak less, not everyone can bear it, not everyone can forgive, cherish others first, and say less if you don't understand. If you speak directly, if you can't see through what you say, you will make others feel distant, and if you see through it, you will talk too much, and it will be easy to alienate the relationship between friends.

Evil words are a kind of stubbornness, speaking stubbornly is not as good as helping others, and being reckless is not as good as virtue. Bad words hurt people in June, the spring breeze is gone, why bother to delay other people's minds and close their own scenery because of their own powerlessness. Speak less evil, do more good deeds, repay good people, listen less to evil words, listen more to kindness, help yourself, and improve others. Bad words are a kind of alienation, but also a kind of parting, sometimes passing by, that is, never to see each other again.

Crazy words, talking too much, are to prove that one's cultivation is shallow, and if you say it deeply, it shows that one's ability is limited, there is no need to say it, and it is not worth saying. Crazy talk is a kind of excitement and passivity, others see through it, you don't understand it, the practice is less Zen, and there is less hope. When people are poor, there is no need to say crazy things, when people are rich, why bother to say crazy things, people are stupid, they can't say crazy things, and when people are smart, they won't say crazy things at all.

Don't lie because you have a personality, don't gossip because silence is golden, don't talk crazy because you have self-confidence, don't complain because you have a wide heart. No matter how good the relationship is, don't forget that distance produces beauty, life is short, don't forget to be grateful, people live for a lifetime, learn to let go, learn to be quiet, see openly, and think openly. There is no next life in life, and there is no turning back. You can't talk too much, you can't gossip too much, the way of being a person is a virtue, and the way of self-cultivation is sincerity.

People are doing and doing wrong, as long as they don't lose their conscience, it's good if they don't hurt nature and reason, the sky is watching, and those who borrow money and don't pay it back will always be frightened all their lives, and they will be lazy and helpless all their lives. Smart people don't fight, give others a chance, and clumsy people don't know how to speak, so they don't talk much and rarely say bad things about people behind their backs. Suffer hardships, not afraid of what people say, as long as you are kind and do not violate your conscience, you will have a clear conscience for a lifetime, and you will be at peace for a lifetime.

People help others, is a kind of accumulation of virtue, gives people a kind of sunshine, people look at people, is a kind of goodwill, gives people a kind of wisdom, people are whole, is a kind of play heart, easy to make more people guard. If a person lives, he is worthy of heaven and the earth, and if he does not forget the kindness of his parents, he will not live in vain. Life has a ruler, not for a moment, only for the time of filial piety to parents, the route of gratitude, and the compassion of helping others. Be a good person, even if the wind and rain blow, you are not afraid of what others think of you when you do good deeds, and you are not afraid of others looking down on you when you say good things.

Money and people, people are the main, money is secondary, parents can't say money first, fate and money, edge first, money second, friendship is still there, you can't say money first. Seeing others clearly is a grudge, understanding oneself is the second sun of life, people must know how to be at peace with what happens, don't lack morality, don't be too serious. Life is like tea, others are afraid when it is hot, others are annoyed when it is cold, and others are annoyed when it is bitter, life is like the moon, some people look at the shortcomings and cannot correct their own destiny, and some people look at the advantages and learn to work hard.

A person can't tell everyone, a word, can't hear every heart, and can't think through the world for a lifetime. Willing to give, give up and give up, but the soul is not charity, life is not begging, living is not to give up conscience, waiting is not to be unhappy. Don't be too straight, not many people are willing to pity themselves, don't be too lazy on the road, no one is willing to give too much to themselves, don't be too aggrieved in your life, after all, you know your own heart, others may not be able to see through.

Got it, don't be too happy, lose it, don't be too aggrieved, people are still people, things are still dances, there is no need to care too much, there is no need to worry too much. Right and wrong are hidden in the eyes, if you get more, you are easy to be distracted, and if you get less, you are easy to be lazy. People can get, but they can't forget their roots, people can't, but they can't forget gratitude, people can be wrong, but they can't be very wrong, people can be lazy, but they can't be lazy. If you get it, don't play with your heart, don't get it, don't be too straight, it has to be a word, a sentence, an invisible time.

If you lose the beginning, you can't find the end, if you lose the beginning, you can't find yourself, and losing is a tolerance and a virtue. If you lose money, you can earn it again, you can lose your love, you can face the sea, you can lose your dreams, you can ask yourself, if you lose it, you should ask, not to find, not to think, not to embarrass others. Smart people like to let go, tolerant people like to lose, because they can see openly, understand the cycle of cause and effect, and between gains and losses, they are all fate.

Good things, forget it, it's already a good thing, why bother thinking about it, bad things, forget it, it's already a bad thing, you have to forget it. Forget, forget the sadness and unhappiness, be a sunny person, forget the unsatisfactory life, wipe away the life too much, there is no next life in life. Forget, forget sorrow, remember happiness, share hope, write wishes, this is life, this is virtue. Forget, forget that I care too much, I worry too much, I am tired on the road, I care too much, I am less quiet, I don't forget my life, and it is difficult to be confident.

Snowflakes flying, drifting night tears, the truth of the world's right and wrong, who is it, cutting the soul of flowers, asking me all my life, who is the third world of love, writing me Changhong for a year. The tears in the left eye, the thoughts in the right eye, what to say about the deep love, what to see the deepest dream, a farewell to the years, Chanjuan is gone, and the people are scattered. Flowers are like frightening, birds may be hearts, cold thrushes, lovesickness, a pool of clear water, waiting for a lifetime, a word of attention, asked for a while. One hundred are relieved, two tears, ten thousand are reluctant, just a sentence never to be seen again, a dream of rubbing shoulders, and a wound revealed.

If you don't leave, I won't be persistent, if I don't give up, I won't shed tears, the edge of distance will let you go to the end of the world, the dream of life, let me go to the end of the world alone. A period of the past, wishful thinking, willing years to toss and turn, lingering too much freedom to think, inadvertently, tears gone, not paying attention, the dream is gone. If the flowers can't open, and the flowers can't be lifted, this is a sentence in this life and this life, and this is no next life and next life. If you don't leave, I won't give up, just because of a sentence of hating each other, people's lives are doomed.

A glass of old wine, taste the Zen of a lifetime, take care of the arrangement of God, read the classics of life, deep rhyme, hazy incense, people are not young, the flowers and the moon are thick, and the days are more years and people are longer. The oath of the past is just a love song of red dust, and the promise now is just a sentence without regrets, the person who loves you is waiting, the broken heart is asking himself, love is gone, the heart is broken, this is the last journey. A lamp was lit in front of the Buddha, the years were traceless, the world promised three lives, Nan Ke had a dream, and everything was empty when he woke up.

What is love, not the flower on the other side, not the three-life stone, not the bridge, the dispersion of the fate, the heart of waiting, the seriousness of loss. There is no love in life, and there is no cold meeting in life, because the goodbye of meeting has become the loss of cold and warm self-knowledge. The wind, messed up the lovesick dreams, people, gone forever, where has the wandering heart gone, the climb that can not be seen again has been forgotten. Memories, can't wipe away the listening, looking at each other, can't catch up with the thoughts in the heart, farewell, just a burst of fragrance that can't be saved.

God, always let people cry with their hearts, life, always let the dream of lovesickness toss and turn for several years, love and love, love and disconnection, if there is no ending, why meet each other. When I wake up from a dream, I am drunk, I am bitter and deep, I am serious about my broken heart, everything is providence, everything is willingness. Leave too much affection for you, write too much dissatisfaction, leave too many tears for you, you are destined to regret it for the rest of your life, and then you will not see it, regret it at the beginning, and you can't keep your favorite and favorite person.

Look away, be tolerant of yourself, don't care, learn to follow fate, let go, learn to be quiet. I look wide, think shallowly, and be happy, there is no need to learn from others to worry, there is no need to ask so much, and other people's time is also very expensive. People help others, is a virtue, the joy of helping, the happiness of the soul, people to help others, is to help themselves, see others clearly, understand themselves, take a step, are the truth, every pay, there is a return, not afraid of others ungrateful, afraid of their own can not see.

If you want to open, when everyone is old, suffering is a blessing, just in order to give wisdom to others, you can't be unforgiving, you can't let go of things, learn to cherish, forgive others, is to cherish yourself. Don't gossip, don't complain, want to open up, why bother to wronged yourself for others, why delay your own principles of life because of doing things. People are better than people, there is no distinction between high and low, there is no difference between good and bad, some people create sunshine in life, some people sprinkle more hope on the road, some people forget to be grateful, some people forget their original intentions.

Let go, give others a chance, give yourself time, taste a cup of Yunshui Zen when you are old, and when you are young, don't be too slow and don't be too straight. Relax your heart, put the road right, those who do not fight have a future, those who do not make trouble have hope, and those who do not wronged themselves can be smart. People are a kind of experience, practice for themselves, speak to others, people, you can fight, but you can't forget to sort yourself out, people can not fight, but you can't lack virtue, you are not afraid of others fighting, you are afraid of being ashamed of your conscience.

Don't lie, improve your credibility, lie too much, lower your personality, lie once, lose a little time, say twice, lose friends, say three times, and lose yourself. A person who tells a lie has no opinions, he can't get things done, and being a man is not a lie that can succeed, but that he has not spoken all the time, so he is kind. What is a lie, the first is to lie to yourself, and the second is to let others learn to refuse. Telling too few lies is a kind of inferiority, and telling too many lies is a kind of immorality.

Don't talk crazy, people are poor, there is no need to talk crazy, people are rich, why bother to talk crazy, clumsy people, say it, smart people, never say crazy things. If you borrow money and say crazy things, you don't have much credibility, if you don't have the ability to know yourself, and you still talk crazy, it's easy to suffer losses and be fooled. When people talk crazy things, they lose their sincerity and affection less, forget yesterday lightly, discard the future more seriously, and they can't see the sunshine and appreciate the virtues in their hearts when they talk crazy.

Don't gossip, gossip is too tiring, gossip is more annoying to others, why bother yourself and make it difficult for others. Gossip is a kind of communication, but it cannot delay life, it is the beginning of a relationship, but it cannot affect time. Gossip, it's easy to be disgusted if you talk too much, it's easy for others to forget if you say less, it's better to say more intentional things and do more intentional things than to gossip. When people live and are surrounded by gossip, they will not be able to show their excellence, listen to too much gossip, and forget the goal of struggle.

Don't complain, complaining is a tasteless language, making others sad, making yourself not motivated, if you are right, there is no need to complain, if you are wrong, why complain. It's when everyone is at fault, don't be in a hurry to speak, don't speak out of anger, say too much, delay the pattern of life, say it lightly, affect your vision. Complaining covers one's own heart, covers one's own thoughts, delays the kindness of others, and affects the cultivation of a lifetime, so why forget your conscience because of what you say.

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