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"Dad, Enoch and I are going to fish for small fish, we won't be sailing today!" Carrying a small bucket and a small fishing rod, the baby said very seriously, "I'm not taking Enoch to play in the water, we're going to fish!"
Zhang Dawei put down the magazine and said to the baby with a smile, "I know, I know that the baby is a good child and a good sister." You go fishing, I'm watching. ”
"Then you can't help me, I can catch small fish myself. The baby looked at Zhang Dawei and said seriously, "Dad, I'm not a child now, I can fish by myself." You are not allowed to help me in the future, you can only watch from the sidelines, and if I fall into the water, you will save me!"
Zhang Dawei nodded hurriedly, he felt that the baby's arrangement was still very suitable. Of course, Zhang Dawei is also very clear, that is, the baby does want to be able to fish by herself now, and she doesn't want anyone to help her fish now.
But in any case, it is not really just for children to play by the lake, and adults still need to be careful next to it. After all, water and fire are ruthless, the little girl can go fishing by herself, and Zhang Dawei can not help. But when he goes to the water's edge, Zhang Dawei will definitely follow, which can be regarded as protecting the baby and Enoch.
Enoch jumped up and down happily, and he was now looking forward to his sister catching a lot of fish, so that he could give them to Goldfin, so that Goldfin could continue to be his best friend.
The baby is a child who loves fishing, and Zhang Dawei and Melissa know this. But the baby is fishing now, a large part of the reason is because of the younger brother's request, the baby also knows that the younger brother made the golden wing angry, so the baby is criticizing and educating the younger brother, but also helping to ease the relationship between the younger brother and the golden wing.
This matter will definitely be difficult for the baby, because the baby is the most popular and affirmative. Goldwing is her good friend, so as long as the brother apologizes, then the baby is very confident to help make peace, but when it is time to fish, you still have to fish, you can't visit Goldwing empty-handed, this is a very rude thing.
It's definitely not taught by Zhang Dawei, it's definitely not that you can't go to the Three Treasures Hall for nothing or eat people with short mouths or anything like that. The simple thing is that the baby now knows some etiquette, and knows that when you go to someone else's house to bring some small gifts, this is respect for the host, which is a sign of politeness and friendship.
When the baby and Melissa talked about this topic, Zhang Dawei listened to it next to him, listening with a smile, and felt that although the baby daughter still didn't understand some things thoroughly, she had some half-understood cognitions, which was actually quite gratifying, and it was difficult to make people unhappy!
Enoch happily held his sister's hand, not Enoch's little hand, he was his sister's best brother, and he liked to play with his sister the most.
"Sister, Xiaobai beat me in the morning!" By the way, Enoch wanted to tell his sister all his little grievances, "Xiaobai was disobedient, it knocked me down and ran away." ”
Of course, the baby was not happy, and quickly asked, "You're not lying, are you, are you?
Of course, Enoch nodded, Enoch was the most honest child, and Enoch would not tell lies. It's Xiaobai who bullied him, ran away when he knocked down Enoch, and laughed at Enoch before he escaped, Xiaobai has now become a big villain again, and he only knows the big bad guy who is naughty and bullies!
Zhang Dawei listened to Enoch's complaint with a smile, and he had no intention of meddling in such a thing. On the one hand, he is accustomed to letting the little ones deal with these things by themselves, and on the other hand, Zhang Dawei knows that the baby can actually handle some small things, which is also a small exercise for the baby.
The baby is seriously asking about the small contradiction between Enoch and Xiaobai, and the baby doesn't think that such a thing is a trivial matter. The baby is a child who cares a lot about details, and she must make sure that Xiaobai has not really made a mistake, and she must make sure that Enoch is not lying, so that she can make the final decision.
The attitude is still very obvious, that is, Zhang Dawei really does not plan to speak more on this matter.
His attitude is to leave such things to the children themselves, Zhang Dawei and Melissa believe that the children can handle such things by themselves, and there is no need for them to meddle at all.
Just observe and pay attention to it, and the children can do it themselves, so leave it to the children to do it themselves, which is naturally the best thing.
If the children can't do these things well, or the way to deal with things is debatable, then Zhang Dawei and Melissa will stand up at this time. Help the children, and by the way, analyze carefully with the little ones, so that the little ones can try to have some experience when facing such a situation next time.
This is the educational philosophy of Zhang Dawei and Melissa, this is what they are doing now, and it can even be said that there are some free-range methods, which can be regarded as a way that they like.
There's no such thing as modesty in the United States, and it's not a bad thing to have character. Of course, it is important to have good grades in school, but the school also attaches great importance to children's communication skills and children's extracurricular activities. When it comes to nurturing children, sometimes it's not just about 'technology', it's about 'leadership'.
Leadership is very important in this country, you can not be the most tech-savvy person, you may not be the most sociable one, but you can be the core of a team, integrate resources, rational allocation, this is what a small leader should do, let more people around him do a good job.
Zhang Dawei and Melissa feel that there is nothing wrong with this, they still agree with this way, of course, they will not force the children, mainly according to the children's own preferences and personalities, they are more just supportive, observant, or talk to the children when necessary.
The baby is now a nice little nucleus, and when she is at home, she is Enoch's dependence. And although she often has trouble with Xiaobai, the baby can also take care of Xiaobai, Pooh and Rudolph, these are all difficult to be smart babies, she is the best friend.
In school, although the baby has always been troubled by not being able to become the lead dancer, she is the most popular child among children. Because the baby is smart and cute, because the baby is friendly and cheerful, she has a lot of good friends, everyone likes to play games with the baby, and they all want to be best friends with the baby!
To say that Zhang Dawei and Melissa are not proud must be false, every little progress and achievement of the children is the biggest surprise and pride of their parents.
The baby's performance in school naturally can't be hidden from Zhang Dawei and Melissa, so they are so happy and satisfied. This is also the reason why they continue to insist on encouraging education, which is naturally the reason why they are always willing to let go and let their babies try more, even if they make mistakes, it doesn't matter, they can learn from their mistakes.
This is Zhang Dawei and Melissa, this is the child they have educated, although the baby is still young, no one is sure what the baby will be like when he grows up. But it is certain that the baby nowadays is a cheerful and lively, confident child, which is also a child for bearing.
With such qualities, Zhang Dawei and Melissa naturally have every reason to believe that their baby daughter will be a good child that people are proud of and like!
Looking at the baby's proficient throwing rod, Zhang Dawei laughed; the fishing master is about to be born, even if the current use of children's rods, it can be seen that the baby is still some level. At least now this little girl knows how to hang fake bait, and she doesn't need help from others, which is naturally progress.
Originally, Enoch wanted to sit next to his sister, and it was better to sit in his sister's arms. But his sister drove him away, because he was going fishing now, so he couldn't bother his sister.
It doesn't matter, Enoch will definitely not go. He knew that his sister's fishing was for Goldwing, and that his sister was not available but Pooh was free. So Enoch happily greeted Pooh, and when Pooh sat down, Enoch was already extremely skillful in squeezing into Pooh's arms and sitting down, and then playing with Pooh's fat bear paws!
This scene made Zhang Dawei feel a little uncomfortable, he was next to him, but Enoch's gaze ignored him at all, as if Zhang Dawei was transparent. This little guy, if he really can't help it, he must be unwilling to find his father.
My heart is indeed sour, but Zhang Dawei insists that he doesn't think that this is because of education, and it can't be a problem with education at all.
Zhang Dawei does like free-range, but this doesn't mean that he doesn't care about the children, just because Enoch's child is too playful, and this restless little guy also has a lot of interesting friends, so where does he have any mind to care about his father, and the time to play games with his good friends every day is not enough!
There was no way around it, Zhang Dawei really couldn't help it, he knew that he couldn't blame him for such a thing, and it wasn't because of Enoch.
It can only be said that this is Enoch's character, and this is Enoch's growth environment, this little guy is used to playing with his good friends, and this little guy is really used to going wild with his good friends. Of course, there will be such things as looking for dad, but the frequency of this is certainly not high.
At least when he was playing, Enoch had too many good friends, and when he had little troubles, he could go to his sister to talk to. When looking for Daddy, it must be a big deal in Enoch's eyes, and in that case, the little guy will definitely go to Daddy immediately, because Daddy is the best!
Even if there is indeed a little bit of bad taste in his heart now, Zhang Dawei doesn't feel anything bad.
He thought it was good, at least he knew that in Enoch's mind, his father's image was still very majestic and reliable. At most, the fat son is not too clingy to him, which is nothing!
The baby is serious fishing, this little guy is also full of patience, although it is also lively and active, but when fishing, the baby will definitely be able to calm down. It's her hobby, it's something babies have long been used to, and she's just waiting for the little fish to take the bait and give it to Goldfinch to eat!
Enoch's current peace and well-behaved behavior is also a bit surprising, where is this active child who sits and stays in character. That is, his mother and sister can appease this little guy, otherwise this must be a master who makes a lot of trouble in the heavenly palace, and this must be a child who can't sit still for half a minute.
It's okay, Zhang Dawei looked at his two children happily next to him, even if he didn't do anything now, he really didn't need to do anything now.
Just looking at his children so quietly, Zhang Dawei now feels full of happiness and pride, and he also enjoys the quiet fishing with the children.
"Enoch, when you see Goldwing, you want to call me, do you know?" A little embarrassed to let the little fish unhook, the baby looked calm and instructed his younger brother, "The little fish I caught is the most delicious, and it is Goldwing's favorite." You can't be lazy, the freshest fish you catch are the most delicious and fresh, you know?"
Enoch nodded busily, of course, he couldn't figure out the situation at all, but this did not affect his sister's most remarkable status in his mind at all.
So what my sister said must be the most correct, as my sister's best brother, Enoch will definitely not be lazy, he will always stare at the sky, and immediately call his sister when he sees Goldwing.
Zhang Dawei smiled and didn't say anything, he knew that the baby could cope with such a situation, and because many things didn't need to be so serious.
For example, if the baby does not succeed in catching the small fish that bites the hook, no matter how powerful the fishing master is, he will also encounter such a situation as decoupling, so there is nothing to say, it is normal!
Fishing naturally requires patience, and if you don't have patience, you can catch any fish, so just continue to wait patiently, and it's not like you haven't caught a fish.
There are so many successful experiences that the baby is not panicked at all, and she will not be upset at all, she just continues to wait patiently, and the baby believes that she can catch a lot of small fish.
Don't look at Enoch's usual mischievous appearance, but there are still people who can cure this little guy at home. Now the boy was honestly leaning into Pooh's arms, looking up at the sky with his little head up, and he knew that Goldwing liked to fly around the most, and he knew that Goldwing liked to catch small fish on the lake and eat.
So Enoch was also very confident now, and he believed that he would definitely see the golden wings. Of course, Enoch is also focused enough now, since his sister told him to look for Goldwing, then Enoch will definitely not be lazy, as long as he sees Goldwing, he will immediately call his sister, and he will definitely not let Goldwing fly away!
Continuing to accompany the children to fish is a very interesting and heartwarming moment in itself. I continue to accompany the children and wait for the golden wings, and I am also looking forward to seeing the children's performance.
Zhang Dawei is looking forward to seeing the baby deal with the relationship between Enoch and Goldwing, and wants to see how the baby reconciles Goldwing and Enoch.
Of course, Zhang Dawei is also looking forward to Enoch's performance, I want to see if this little guy really recognizes his mistakes, and I want to see if this kid understands and corrects his mistakes!(https:)
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