The time entered March, and the filming of "The Legend of the White Snake" also came to an end, and it was almost finished in less than a week.

At this time, an uninvited guest came to the film and television city.

Dad Chen is here!

When Chen Feng told Chen Ziang that he was coming, Chen Ziang was surprised.

Dad said he wanted to see what his job was like.

After coming, Chen's father went to the set with Chen Ziang and watched everything silently.

When he returned to the hotel after work in the evening, Chen Ziang saw his father coming back from outside with a few bags of food.

Chen Feng, who had been silent for almost a day, finally spoke.

"Do you like this business?" he asked his son.

Chen Ziang nodded: "It's okay, people always have a job or career." ”

"Yes. In the living room of Chen's father's hotel room, he poured himself wine, but he didn't let Chen Ziang drink more.

Chen Ziang felt that it was a little strange for his father to come over by himself this time.

My mother has never come to visit the class.

But there is no way to do it, my mother is much busier than my father, who only runs a technical department.

In the past, my mother only flew all over the country, but now it has risen to fly all over the world.

"Dad, is there something wrong with you?" Chen Ziang accompanied his father to drink.

The TV was on, but the sound was low.

Chen Feng nodded: "There is something wrong, don't worry." ”

As he spoke, he took another sip of wine.

There are peanuts on the coffee table, some pickled pepper chicken feet, barbecue and the like.

Chen Ziang was a little apprehensive.

Dad's very solemn appearance made him panic.

The two elders won't have emotional problems, right?

From his mother, Chen Ziang didn't feel anything abnormal.

He and his mother have been talking on the phone every two or three days recently, some talking about work, and some of them are just talking.

The company has become bigger, and although Chen Feng is not very able to speak, he has more words than before.

often accompanied Shi Jia to socialize, or partyed with colleagues to eat and drink, Chen Feng was not as dull as he used to be.

But sometimes without drinking, he can't speak.

Chen Ziang had no choice but to persuade his father to drink a few more sips.

When the wine was over, Dad naturally said the purpose of the trip.

After a cup of belly, Dad Chen really began to cut to the point, with a serious face.

Chen Ziang rubbed his face, a little nervous.

Chen Feng wiped his hands with a tissue, looked at Chen Ziang and said, "Ziang, listen to you, at the latest this summer, you and Tongtong will hold a wedding and officially get married." ”

Chen Ziang nodded, not knowing what kind of medicine was sold in his father's gourd.

Chen Feng said solemnly: "I said ugly things before, after you get married, we may be two families." ”

Chen Ziang's heart sank.

At the same time, there is something wrong in my heart, which is a fact, an important watershed in life.

Chen Feng lowered his head, picked up the wine glass and took a sip: "Your mother and I don't need you to take care of it, the most important thing in your life is to take good care of the girl who married you." ”

"Well, Mom and Dad, you're all young. Chen Ziang said.

After Chen Feng took a sip of wine, he sighed: "Although I don't live well in this life, I can be regarded as a small achievement. I have to say that the existence of you and your mother has made a huge leap and improvement in my life. ”

Chen Ziang hurriedly patted his ass: "Dad, you have your own ability, and it has nothing to do with us." ”

Chen Feng didn't answer his son's words, and said solemnly: "Today, I take this opportunity to share with you my understanding of marriage from a man's point of view, and I hope you can avoid detours." ”

Chen Ziang hurriedly toasted his father: "You have to learn from your father, dad, you say." ”

Chen Feng took a sip of wine and said, "Don't be a relative with your wife." ”

Yes?

Chen Ziang is a little incomprehensible, when he gets married, isn't he just a relative?

Chen Feng said with a smile: "What is the best marriage? The best marriage is when the marriage has never been concluded." Some people say that two people become relatives when they get married, but I want to tell you that no matter how many years you have been married, you must remember: parents and children are relatives, and wives are always girlfriends, and marriage is best built on the basis of love. ”

Chen Ziang found out that his father turned out to be wise and foolish.

Chen Feng continued: "Your wife is not your relative who broke bones and tendons. You can yell at me and your mother, we're angry again, you're still our son, you can't get rid of it. But the wife is not, your relationship with her needs to be managed, if you are sorry for her, in fact, she can leave you at any time. ”

Chen Ziang saluted his father again: "Dad, you are free, I will drink it all." ”

Ginger is still old and spicy, and those who come over are those who come over.

"Those marriages that regard love as family affection are lazy and unwilling to manage and pay. After I got married to your mother, there was a rule that the toilet must be closed, because we are a couple, and we still just want to show each other the best of ourselves, which is business and pay. Chen Feng hit the nail on the head and said the true meaning of marriage preservation.

Chen Ziang poured wine for his father and himself.

"Don't think that if you get married, the dust will settle and you can do whatever you want. One of my favorite directors said something that touched me. The reporter interviewed him: What is your greatest happiness at this stage? He said: If my wife can smile at me, I will relax a little, and I will feel very happy. Chen Feng took a sip of wine.

Chen Ziang nodded silently.

Chen Feng continued: "I am someone's husband, it doesn't mean that I can naturally get her respect, I still have to earn her respect every day." I have to meet a certain standard, because that's one of the things that keeps me going. I want my son to earn the respect of his wife as well. ”

Chen Ziang was thoughtful.

Chen Feng said to Chen Ziang with a smile at this time: "Secretly tell you, marriage is actually really troublesome, and marriage is not as beautiful as we imagined." What is the meaning of marriage? It is not to make you happy every day, nor to make you feel passion and love all the time. Many times, marriage is even the opposite, it binds your hands and feet with red silk, and binds together a lot of irrelevant three aunts and six mothers-in-law, making you tired and wondering what the meaning of all this is. ”

"Well, Dad, taught. Chen Ziang cut fruit for his father.

Chen Feng sighed in a low voice: "The true value of marriage is actually reflected in the dark side of life: when you are lonely, there is someone next to you who listens to your words and accompanies you to do nothing; when you are empty, a look will suddenly appear in your heart, making you feel that you want to change something; and when you are knocked to the ground and stepped on a foot, there is a door that is still open for you." Not only will the people inside not be so you, but they will even try to heal your wounds and grieve for your grief. Parents can do that, but unfortunately we don't understand you that well, and we can't be with you for so long. ”

Chen Ziang listened.

"One day, we will all leave you, and the only thing by your side is your wife, this little family you have formed. That's why you want to get married, and why you should put your heart into maintaining and managing a marriage. That's the point I'm going to tell you: being good to your wife is the most important thing in a man's life. Chen Feng said solemnly.

Chen Ziang nodded seriously: "Dad, I know." ”

Chen Feng suddenly smiled and said, "Wife is the most difficult job in the world. Let me tell you, when you were a child, because I was very busy with my work, I worked overtime, and rarely took care of you and took care of the family. Therefore, everything in the family, whether it is your grandparents' health, your studies, or the payment of water, electricity and gas bills necessary to maintain the family, the personal contacts of relatives and friends, and housework, are all handled by your mother. Although no one is the male protagonist and the female protagonist, do you think it is easy to do housework and take care of the children? One summer vacation, your grandmother was sick, and your mother had to go back to her parents' house for a while. I had to hurry home every day to cook for you, and I had to toss a few dishes, clean up, and watch you study. It just happened to be when you were the most skinny, just thinking about playing, watching you do your homework was so angry that I was about to have a heart attack. After two weeks, I felt extremely tired. Mountains of dirty laundry in the house, and dust everywhere on the table floor. I'm almost tired after serving you every day. There were a few times when I didn't get up at all in the morning, and I was hungry several times. Do you remember how miserable our two lived during that time? I have only felt since then how difficult it was for your mother. ”

Speaking of this, Chen Feng's eyes were a little moist, maybe he thought of that hard but nostalgic time, or he thought of his wife's difficulty, and he was sad.

Someone once said that how much love does a woman have to be willing to stand by the kitchen and wash that pile of dishes?

The most energetic thing for people is not what they really do, but their thoughts.

As long as a woman is married, her mind will be on the family.

Whether the decoration of the home is good-looking, the hygiene is not in place, whether the children's education can be successful, and whether the old people can spend their old age in peace.

"When you get home in the future, ask your wife if she needs help, because other girls marry you, not to be a nanny. You love each other and get married, in order to cherish each other's encounters, weigh each other's hardships, and appreciate each other's contributions, so that you can walk this life hand in hand. One more thing, don't reason with your wife at home, home is not a place to reason, you see me every time, as long as your mother is right, your mother is the boss. Chen Feng said with some pride.

Chen Ziang nodded with a smile and added wine to his father: "Well, only a man who is good to his wife can succeed." ”

Chen Feng recalled the past and sighed: "Our family had a particularly big crisis, as you know, I quit my job to start a business at that time, but I had no experience, not only lost money, but also owed debts." Our house was almost sold, our standard of living plummeted, and we had to worry about debt collectors coming to us from time to time. Relatives and friends are gradually alienating us. At that time, I was like an island, very helpless. I told your mother that we should divorce so that at least your mother and son would not be implicated. But she said, "How can we be separated as a family?" So she did one thing, went to the house and asked the customers who owed us money. Everyone told her to shut up, and I advised her to give up, but she wouldn't. Later, she really wanted a sum of money back, and then later, we really made a comeback. ”

Chen Ziang was a little dazed, he knew that his father had failed to start a business, but he didn't know that it was so specific, and his mother was so hard and persistent.

"So in our family, your mother is the biggest, we owe her too much, when a man encounters a setback, he can accompany you, help you, and support you, only your wife. Do you remember your second uncle Chen Chong in your hometown? You always say that you don't like him very much, because he always drinks and complains. Actually, your second uncle has a very high starting point in the village, went to high school, and almost went to college. He is warm-hearted, has many brothers and friends, and is filial to his parents. The only thing is that he is indifferent to his wife. I always feel that she has no culture and no knowledge. Every time I go to his house for dinner, your second aunt is too busy to eat, and your second uncle still thinks his wife is slow and embarrassed him. Chen Feng said.

Chen Ziang nodded, if Chen Chong's life at home is not good, people's mood will deteriorate, and their work will definitely be affected, so Chen Chong will get worse and worse. Now when he drinks, he complains that he has not met his talents, and he always feels that his wife has delayed his life.

In fact, he messed up his life.

The second aunt is a particularly virtuous woman, her parents are old, one is paralyzed, the other is senile, she is serving, the two children are both admitted to 985 University, very promising, and the relationship with the neighbors and neighbors is also she is dotting, and even everyone has a good impression of Chen Chong. But Chen Chong couldn't see these and felt that it was worthless at all.

Chen Feng said: "There is a saying: the wife is the best feng shui in the family. Because if a man goes home, he will face a dirty, messy and oppressive environment, which will definitely affect his mentality, which is actually a kind of feng shui. I once looked at a study about the relationship between family and a man's career. Through the analysis of the people around them and many successful people, they came to the conclusion that men who love their wives are more likely to succeed in their careers. ”

Chan listened attentively.

Dad Chen said: "There are three reasons: First, one of the criteria for a man's real success is to have a feeling of happiness in his heart. A man who loves his wife will make the family more harmonious and more likely to have a sense of happiness; second, giving his wife more love means that his wife will be more willing to run the family with a man, and a happy family can give a man the power to conquer the world; third, a man who loves his wife usually has a higher emotional intelligence, which is also the basic element of career success. ”

Chen Ziang toasted his father.

"Remember one sentence: home and everything is prosperous. Chen Feng said with a wine glass.

"Well, I'm trying to do well. Chen Ziang responded.

Chen's father blamed himself a little and whispered: "If you decide to have a child, I have to tell you that the father may have more influence on the child's life than the mother." You have to be a good role model for your children. When you were growing up, I actually did very badly, I traveled a lot, I wanted to eat more than three meals a week at home, play ball with you at least twice a month, and even if I wasn't at home, I would call you every day and ask you how you were doing at school. But I didn't do a good job, since I had you, I even smoked and drank, and I couldn't do it a few times a day when I wanted to run and read a book in the morning. ”

Chen Ziang hurriedly said, "Dad, you did a good job. ”

Chen Feng shook his head: "Only by leading by example can we have a healthy body and a regular life." A man who plays games on the sofa all day long can't teach a child who loves to read, the child will learn from you, will imitate you, and your values are his values. ”

"Hmm. Chen Ziang took it to heart.

Dad Chen earnestly advised: "If you want your child to be honest and kind in the future, then you must also be able to stand up to the sky; if you want your child to be knowledgeable and talented in the future, then you must not give up learning; if you want your child to have a strong body in the future, then you must also exercise more......"

Chen Ziang nodded: "Dad, if I don't do well in the future, please educate me more." Living with you and my mother for so many years, sometimes it is not easy to think about it. Marriage management is one of the most difficult things in the world. ”

……

The next day, Chen Ziang continued to go to the set to be busy.

And Chen's father drank too much last night, got up late, and then left early and went back to Lin'an.

After coming back and seeing Chen's father leave, Chen Ziang was a little silent.

Father's love is like a mountain, and Chen's father specially came to him to say these words to his son before he got married.

Chen Feng is actually not idle, he is very busy.

"Mom, are you still busy?" Chen Ziang called his mother.

"What are you busy with? It's time to get out of bed when you're abroad. Shi Jia, who was abroad, was very happy to answer the phone.

"Mom, it's hard work!" Chen Ziang said sincerely.

"No, others want me to work so hard. Shi Jia said with a smile.

"Haha, too, you still have a good husband, others can't ask for it. Chen Ziang said.

"And a good son. Shi Jia added.

After talking to his mother for a while, Chen Ziang hung up the phone.

Then, he called Guan Tongtong again: "Wife, I'll go home in a few days, and the work is over." ”

"Really, that's great. Guan Tongtong jumped up over there.

Although she can come over on weekends, Chen Ziang is busy, and Chen Ziang can't completely relax when she comes, and only has a little time to accompany her at night.

"Wife, are you afraid of holding a wedding, and we will really be together in the future. Chen Ziang suddenly asked.

"Why are you afraid, I'm looking forward to it!" Guan Tongtong didn't know about the conversation between Chen Ziang and Chen's father last night.

"If you're really married, you'll be together for a long time, aren't you afraid you'll get tired of it?" asked Chen Ziang.

"Don't be afraid, I'm not going to get bored with you anyway. Guan Tongtong affirmed.

After speaking, she cautiously asked, "Husband, will you be tired of me?" ”

"It's no different from now when you get married. Chen Ziang comforted.

"Yes, I'm not afraid to be together every day anyway, I believe you can make me happy every day. Guan Tongtong said happily, thinking that Chen Ziang is actually very mature, and will surprise her, create romance, and manage feelings.

"Making my wife happy is the most important thing, and there is no one. Chen Ziang coaxed.

"Husband, I miss you. Guan Tongtong was very emotional and coquettish.

"I'll go back to hurt my wife in a few days, you can be busy with your own business this weekend, and you don't have to come over. Chen Ziang endured his longing and wanted to save that enthusiasm until "The Legend of the White Snake" was completed and then give it to his wife.

Chen was on the phone when a call came in that broke the current situation in the entertainment industry.

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