557 Reflections
"Dad, why don't you like Enoch?" the baby looked a little distressed, and the little girl was also upset, "Dad, Enoch is the cutest, why don't you like Enoch? It's unfair, Enoch will be sad!"
Zhang Dawei put down his fork in surprise, looked at the baby with a serious face, and then looked at Enoch, who was stupidly busy eating cake.
I have to say that Zhang Dawei is a little surprised now, he is also very puzzled now, he really doesn't know what to say. Even Zhang Dawei was a little flustered, he didn't understand why the baby asked so, could it be that his partiality was a little obvious? !
Of course, the more nervous thing is that the baby has some questions, so what if Enoch also felt it. Zhang Dawei knows very well that he doesn't want his children to feel like this, he doesn't want his parents to feel partial, he doesn't want his children to feel left out or something.
"Baby, I don't dislike Enoch, I love you and Enoch the most. Zhang Dawei was very serious and said very seriously, "Baby, whether it is you or Enoch, you are my favorite children, and I love you the most." I will protect you, I will love you, you are all I have, I can't not love you!?"
This is definitely Zhang Dawei's truth, Zhang Dawei must love his children, there is no doubt about this. Zhang Dawei can touch his conscience and say that the baby and Enoch are all he has, and he will be desperate to protect his children.
The baby pouted, still unhappy, and said, "But Dad, you always hold me, you don't hold Enoch." Enoch is spoiled, and you don't like Enoch. You don't get coquettish with Enoch, Enoch is not happy. ”
Zhang Dawei suddenly understood, and began to explain with a smile, "Baby, it's not like this. You're a girl and Enoch is a boy, so I'm sure I'll treat you a little differently. Think about it, if a little boy likes to cry all day, or if a little boy likes dolls, what do you think?"
The baby thought for a moment, then said, "But there is nothing wrong with a lot of little boys who like dolls." ”
Zhang Dawei also felt that he was a little paranoid and a little stereotyped. But he still insisted on his point of view, that boys have boys' education methods, and girls actually have girls' education methods, which is definitely the way it should be.
The worried Zhang Dawei is carefully explaining some things to the baby, don't look at it now, it seems that the baby thinks her father is partial to her. But Zhang Dawei feels that such a thing is not something that the baby is happy about now.
Zhang Dawei and Melissa have always wanted to give the children a fair impression, and now the baby feels that the baby's father is biased. Obviously, this is not a bad thing, this is a bad thing, this is a thing that makes the baby unhappy. What's more, the baby is still a good sister, and the baby is now fighting for her ignorant fat brother.
It's okay, although the baby is a little confused, puzzled, and even has some dissatisfaction, but after patient explanation, the baby now basically understands some truth, and there are no previous doubts.
In the final analysis, Zhang Dawei may be a little eccentric, but he can't talk about absolute eccentricity. The most important thing is that Zhang Dawei and Melissa are still relatively fair in the matter of education, even if there are some differences in the treatment of babies and little Enoch, but this is more because of gender and personality, rather than because of eccentricity and other reasons.
"Dad, I can be like Xiaobai, I can eat an ice cream. Enoch didn't care about eccentricity, and he didn't think Dad was biased, he cared about ice cream, "Dad, can I have another ice cream?"
Zhang Dawei didn't answer yet, and the baby immediately objected anxiously, "You have eaten an ice cream! You can't eat any more, you are a child, you can only eat one ice cream." Otherwise, my stomach will hurt in a minute!"
"It doesn't hurt, it doesn't hurt at all!" Enoch's voice was louder, and while the little guy retorted loudly, he also touched his little belly, "Sister, my little belly is not full, I am hungry, and I have no strength!"
This time it's okay, this time it's interesting, and this is a proof that Enoch grew up. Now I know how to be reasonable, and now I also know that I want to use reason to fight for better treatment for myself. Of course, some of these truths are basically crooked, for example, the set of crooked theories that Enoch is saying now in order to eat ice cream is definitely not likely to be adopted anyway.
Zhang Dawei understands this truth, and Little Enoch actually clearly has such a truth, but Little Enoch still doesn't give up, this little guy still seems to want to mess around, and he also wants to fight for another ice cream treatment.
I have to say that Enoch behaved like many children, for snacks and toys, these children often messed around, rolling and spilling. The performance of these children, while making people laugh and cry, also have to be seriously faced.
Bringing home the two children who were noisy, Zhang Dawei continued to be the one who was ignored; although the baby was a very intimate little talker, but at this time, the baby was pinching Enoch's meaty little face, which became the baby's favorite game.
Enoch must have an opinion at this time, if he just pinched his little face a little, Enoch would definitely be very happy. It's just that when his sister kept pinching his little face, then Enoch was not happy. He is now protesting, struggling, and even keeping a small face, but as a younger brother, of course, there are no human rights.
Zhang Dawei felt that he should drive safely and steadily at this time, this is what he should do; as for some small grievances between the children, Zhang Dawei said that there is really no way to mix them now, and he feels that it is better not to provoke himself.
What's more, Zhang Dawei knows in his heart, in fact, this is the baby deliberately teasing Enoch, that is, the baby wants to see Enoch's angry appearance. This is what the baby did on purpose, even if she wanted to make Enoch angry, so the small appearance looked 'hateful'.
It's not without bad fun to say that the chubby little Enoch is still very cute if he puts on an angry look. At least the child looked very cute with his head bowed slightly, and it was certainly impossible to talk about being terrible, and the family also liked to tease Enoch when there was nothing to do, and they wanted to see Enoch's helpless little pitiful look.
Good sister, good sister sometimes bullies younger brother, this is really normal. Zhang Dawei has long been accustomed to these, accustomed to the fact that the baby is like a good sister most of the time, has been taking care of and protecting Enoch, and is accustomed to the fact that the baby is always helping Enoch to fight for better treatment.
But Zhang Dawei is also used to seeing the baby bullying Enoch; if you really want to talk about it, the family bullied Enoch the most and made Enoch angry the most, that must be the baby.
But there is nothing to worry about, Enoch is often the one who is bullied, but in Enoch's mind, his sister must be in the first place. Even if he was crying and pitiful a moment ago, he said that he never wanted to play games with his sister again. But as soon as my sister said hello, she immediately followed!
Zhang Dawei is used to this, and Melissa also thinks that this is normal, and the two of them don't think it's strange at all, even if the baby and Enoch get along every day, this is the way the two children get along. It's good to get used to it, anyway, don't expect to love each other all the time, really don't expect it.
When the baby returns home, naturally there is no need to worry about anything, this time is the baby's game time, this time is the baby and her friends together, it's that simple, and everyone understands these.
Zhang Dawei just looked at it, and saw Pooh who was screaming and piercing into Pooh, and saw Pooh happily holding the baby and rolling, that is, with a doting smile in his eyes. Including seeing Enoch fall on the spot, and then crawl directly onto the stomach of Xiao Qiao, who was napping, he just shook his head in amusement, thinking that this was a normal thing.
This is the children's game, Zhang Dawei continues to keep the children playing, he will not participate much.
"Honey, baby told me today that she thinks I'm biased. When he arrived at the kitchen, Zhang Dawei, who had taken a sip of water, said in a tangled manner, "Am I so obvious? Even the baby can see this, which makes me sad!"
Melissa was not angry, glared at Zhang Dawei and said, "Are you sad? Shouldn't it be my Enoch who is sad? Think about it yourself, the baby can see that you are eccentric." That is, my Enoch was kind and simple, so he didn't care. ”
Zhang Dawei didn't know what to say now, or he really needed to reflect on it, he felt that he really couldn't show it too obviously.
Otherwise, the fat son must be psychologically unbalanced, which is not good for Enoch's growth, not to mention, it will also affect the relationship between Zhang Dawei and Little Enoch, which must be something Zhang Dawei needs to care about.
Zhang Dawei felt that he needed to pay attention now, of course he also loved Enoch. It's just that in terms of expression, he needs to pay attention to some influences, not to mention that children are more sensitive now, even Melissa will be sensitive, she definitely doesn't want to see Zhang Dawei treat children differently.
Don't say that there is no patriarchal preference in the United States, and many families in the United States will also have some patriarchal thinking, especially in the central and southern regions. Naturally, there are a lot of opinions on many things.
Zhang Dawei is chatting with Melissa without a match, Zhang Dawei feels that this is very necessary, which can be regarded as evidenced by famous sayings: the husband can be dressed properly with copper as a mirror, with history as a mirror, he can know the rise and fall, and with people as a mirror, he can know the gains and losses.
Zhang Dawei felt that Melissa must be able to give him a lot of advice, naturally because Melissa was the one who was most familiar with him, and Melissa had seen some of Zhang Dawei's actions in ordinary times. Even some things that Zhang Dawei may not have noticed himself, Melissa may also notice.
Just chatting like this, Zhang Dawei felt that he still had a lot of gains, and after careful reflection, Zhang Dawei thought that his gains would naturally be greater. What should I do next, of course, I also have some numbers in my heart, and now I am a lot more sure.
"Mommy, I'll drink water!" Little Enoch, who shook his head, ran back sweating profusely, shouting as he ran, "Sweet water, I want to drink sweet water!"
Zhang Dawei picked up his fat son, kissed Enoch's fleshy little face fiercely and asked, "What sweet water?"
"It's sweet water!" Enoch said happily, pointing to the juicer on the table, "Gollum is sweet water!"
Zhang Dawei had a headache, of course he knew that Enoch liked to drink juice. Just looking at Enoch's current performance, he probably won't drink anything except juice, which is not good.
Who makes the fat son like it, Zhang Dawei naturally has no choice but to do it. looked at the fat son, threw a few strawberries in the juicer, and saw that the little guy was still not satisfied, Zhang Dawei felt that it was better to forget it, throw in a few more strawberries, anyway, this fruit consumption is nothing.
"Sister too!" Sitting on the table, Enoch happily kicked the little short leg and said, "Dad, my sister wants a big cup, Enoch wants a small cup, Enoch is the youngest and youngest child!"
"Enoch is also the cutest child!" Zhang Dawei couldn't help laughing, and then asked half-seriously and half-jokingly, "Enoch, do you know that Dad loves you?"
Little Enoch nodded immediately, and it seemed that the little guy still knew something. But what Zhang Dawei expected was also disappointed, because Enoch nodded and disappeared, and even stared at the juicer, it seemed that juice was more attractive to him.
Zhang Dawei really had no choice, who let the fat son not open his mind, so he could only take the initiative to say, "Enoch, Dad loves you so much, so do you love Daddy?" I didn't hear you say that you love me, Dad is going to be sad and unhappy. ”
"Then I love Mommy and Sister the most, I don't love Dad anymore!" Enoch replied without hesitation, and Zhang Dawei immediately fell into deep thought when he heard such an answer.
If nothing else, he was now thinking about the way Enoch expressed himself, did Enoch express his rank after Melissa and the baby, or was it in Enoch's mind that he didn't love his father at all?
It's really a headache to be with ignorant little kids, because the expression ability of these little guys can be a headache. The expressions of these little guys can sometimes really make people fall into a state of confusion.
For example, Enoch's current expression, Zhang Dawei is very headache, because little Enoch's expression is really difficult to guess!
Zhang Dawei felt that it was better not to guess, although there might be some problems with Little Enoch's expression. However, Zhang Dawei can be fully affirmed, affirming his position in Enoch's mind; although it is not in the first place, it definitely belongs to a rather high position.
Zhang Dawei still has such self-confidence!(https:)
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