597 Self-awareness
After a lively and joyful fishing trip, we enjoyed a hearty and delicious meal together, and then enjoyed the sunset and sunset together. A large family sat around the bonfire and began to prepare for a lively and warm bonfire night talk.
"Xiaobai likes the best coffee, I don't like it. The baby naturally leaned on Zhang Dawei's arms, touched Xiaobai's head and said, "But you can't be in a hurry, the coffee is too hot now." Can I put you a sugar cube, okay?"
Enoch squeezed over, hugged Xiaobai and said, "Sister, Xiaobai likes original coffee today." ”
"But today's coffee is from Angola, Enoch, and you don't know that the coffee tastes different depending on the origin, and you don't know that the coffee beans are roasted differently. The baby said to herself, and the little girl seemed to have a lot of power, "Enoch, just listen to me, you go find the sugar cube." ”
Enoch ran away, and the little fellow was not at all upset by his sister's disagreement. This little guy, no matter how you look at it, is used to her sister arranging some tasks for him, and what Enoch has to do is to be obedient.
Zhang Dawei and Melissa also felt that such a growth environment would definitely have a great impact on Enoch's growth.
Isn't this an obvious thing, Enoch, the little guy doesn't like to make up his own mind no matter how he looks at it now. Because he is accustomed to being obedient, he has to listen to his father's words, and his mother's words must also be listened to. As for my sister's instructions, they are even more resolutely implemented.
It is difficult to say whether Xiaobai is an obedient and obedient child, because this little guy sometimes has his own opinions, and if he wants to make this little guy obedient, he must come up with a reason to convince Xiaobai. Otherwise, even if you trust a friend, don't expect Xiaobai to be obedient, because that's simply unrealistic.
Catherine was in a good mood and pointed to the baby and said, "My sweetheart is an assertive child, and we all know she can arrange it all well. So I don't have to worry about my sweetheart at all, she's an excellent kid. ”
Shy, modest, such a thing does not happen to the baby, hearing the grandmother's praise, the baby is looking at her grandmother with a sweet smile. The baby takes such praise and affirmation for granted, and the baby deserves it.
Zhang Dawei naturally knows the baby's character, and Melissa doesn't feel any surprise; whether it's Paul or Catherine, they actually know the baby's personality and think it's normal for the baby to behave like this.
Naturally, I don't think there's anything wrong with this, and in the United States, there are times when there is really no market. Self-confidence, which is easier to be affirmed here, are some of the personalities and manifestations that are accepted by more people.
"Joshua, you should be careful about your credits, you're spending too much time partying and dating, which is not a good sign, and I don't want to see you not get your diploma after four years of college. Paul was a little worried because he knew his son's character and performance, "Trust me, you should pay attention to your credits, you need a diploma to get a better job, that's what you should do, not waste it on meaningless parties." ”
Joshua is naturally noncommittal, and it is naturally normal for him to have some such performances.
Speaking of which, I am twenty years old, and I think that I also have my own cognition and life, and sometimes it is not rebellious or rebellious. It's a simple desire to live according to one's own ideas, and a simple feeling that one can make up one's mind.
Catherine was also worried, reminding, "You are studying in a very good school now, and you have a chance to get a good job after getting your diploma." We all know that the current employment situation is not good, and we all know that there has always been some pressure on college students to find employment. But we also understand that graduates from elite universities find jobs more easily and earn more salaries. ”
Melissa also spoke at this time, and said very seriously, "Yes, I also think the same, if you study and work hard, I believe you can have a good life." But your personality is so active, I think you need to be a little more stable at times, and you can't act like a high school student who likes to be in the limelight all the time. ”
Zhang Dawei felt that although he was a brother-in-law, he was also qualified to say something, but after thinking about it, it was better to forget it, because there are so many people who are nagging Joshua now, and it is estimated that Joshua's ears are calloused. So one more is not more, one less is not less, Zhang Dawei feels that there is no need for him to deliberately nag now.
Although he also felt that Joshua's personality was a little out of the way, he felt that his family's worries were also justified. But now let Joshua go, if Joshua really has any unreliable moves, Zhang Dawei, who is a brother-in-law, will definitely rush up immediately and teach Joshua a hard lesson.
But not now, for the time being, Joshua will end up 'quiet', in fact, at most, there is one less person to join in the lively nagging at this time. Speaking of which, Zhang Dawei thinks he is still a very smart person.
What Joshua can do now is actually extremely simple, and it is estimated that many people are also extremely familiar with it.
In such a situation, what to do is to remain silent, that is, to accept this verbal bombardment honestly. Sometimes, I even have to echo and say a few words, to show that I have listened carefully to these suggestions.
No matter where it is, such nagging and such care will not be lacking, so of course you need to be skillful in dealing with it.
Joshua seems to be doing a good job, and he's pretty good at handling the situation now. Because of this kind of thing, too much happened in the process of his growth, and if he hadn't exercised it, it would be the weirdest thing.
Melissa didn't realize it at all at this time, because now that she is married and has children, Melissa thinks that her role has also changed. So in such a situation, it was natural for her to be qualified to give Joshua some guidance.
Of course, this is not necessarily a change that will occur when you get married and have children, maybe it is simply because Melissa is an older sister, and in the process of growing up, she has always cared about Joshua, and has been constantly educating Joshua.
Zhang Dawei thinks it's better not to mix with such a thing. Touching Enoch's little head, Zhang Dawei felt that what happened to Joshua now was likely to be Enoch's future, and even more 'miserable', because Enoch's mother and sister were more powerful personalities no matter how they looked at it, so Enoch's growth process must be indispensable 'ruler'.
Let Enoch handle these things by himself, and all Zhang Dawei can do is to observe silently. He would certainly have supported Enoch when necessary. But it is certain that sometimes, Zhang Dawei will also go to educate Enoch together.
"David, have you decided on this year's competition?" Paul asked suddenly, looking still concerned, "although I know that you are very good, I never remember you have trained. You're playing against very good athletes, and you can't be careless, and that's not going to do you any good in your career. ”
The baby was anxious and immediately retorted, "Grandpa, Daddy doesn't need training." Dad is the most powerful, and Dad can defeat his opponent in one turn to win. But Grandpa, why did Dad have so many victories, but never had a belt? Isn't Daddy's competition superlative?"
Zhang Dawei originally felt more gratified, because his baby daughter supported him unconditionally and trusted him. But looking at it now, this little girl sometimes questions her father.
"He's mostly playing commercial games now, and those games have a lot of gimmicks, a lot of highlights, and a lot of appearance fees and prize money. But sweetheart, he hasn't competed in an official fight for a long time, so he doesn't have an official record, and it's normal that he doesn't have a belt. Paul patiently explained to the baby, and he also knew that the baby was more obsessed with the belt.
So the baby is starting to be curious again, and now she wants to understand the difference between commercial exhibition games and official competitions, because in the eyes of the baby, her father's games are very lively, and many people will watch them. However, in the commercial competition and the official competition, the baby's little head has a vague impression, but it is really difficult to figure it out thoroughly.
Zhang Dawei was still silent at this time, he really doted on the baby, and he also cared about some of the baby's opinions. It's just that sometimes, some of the baby's suggestions really make Zhang Dawei feel very embarrassed, then there is really no way, and it may only be a little disappointing for the baby's little girl.
For example, Zhang Dawei's current competition, some heavyweight matches are actually too difficult and difficult to match. And weight grading and the like also severely limit the possibility of Zhang Dawei to choose opponents. Of course, even if Zhang Dawei wants to fight, his opponents may not be willing to fight against Zhang Dawei.
Since I am a professional athlete, I naturally know the importance of the record, and the current athletes are all 'can't afford to lose' character. Knowing that the possibility of defeating Zhang Dawei is very small, then it is natural to cherish the feathers; losing a game is a loss of real money, and the loss may be quite huge, which naturally requires even more caution.
Therefore, many of Zhang Dawei's current matches are some commercial exhibition matches, and the opponent may be middleweight or heavyweight. Zhang Dawei doesn't care about such a game, as long as the appearance fee and bonus are high. For other athletes, they can get a lot of appearance fees, and besides, it doesn't affect the official record, so why not!
Zhang Dawei is actually very satisfied with such a thing, although it is difficult to match a game worth hundreds of millions of dollars, but there must be tens of millions of dollars in a game. So he doesn't care if his opponents come from boxing or wrestling or mixed martial arts. For Zhang Dawei, winning is confident, and taking money is also at ease.
This is Zhang Dawei's main game now, and this is also the event that Zhang Dawei often makes a lot of money now.
The baby is still obsessed with the gold belt, and she may not care about the achievements and honors that the gold belt represents. According to Zhang Dawei's understanding of the baby, he thinks that what the baby cares more about may be the glittering gold and shiny gems.
The little guy also remembered that there used to be a gold belt in the house, but it suddenly disappeared, and this is the baby's heart knot, because this little guy who is a 'housekeeper' cares very much about the family's possessions. The gold belt is inexplicably gone, which of course makes the baby feel quite dissatisfied, she thinks that it belongs to the family's assets, and naturally cannot be lost.
Even if Zhang Dawei and Melissa have explained many times, saying that those gold belts are just held, it does not mean that they are owned. But the baby doesn't understand, even if it seems to do, but this little girl is still nagging sometimes.
Zhang Dawei felt that at such a moment, he continued to maintain a silent attitude, because he knew very well that the baby did not absolutely trust him in the matter of the gold belt, and Zhang Dawei knew that his words did not carry much weight.
So it's better to be wise, and at such a moment, it's better to let someone else explain to the baby.
In fact, whether it is Joshua, who looks aggrieved, or Zhang Dawei, who seems to be a little depressed, is still in a good mood at this time. Even if you are nagged, you are also nagged by the people closest to you, of course it feels good.
This is the reality, and this is the happiness and joy of sitting around as a family, talking and laughing. Even if sometimes it seems that the topic is a headache, but this is caring, and this is the best proof that the family gets along.
Zhang Dawei knows these things very well, and Joshua naturally knows these things very well, so there is no need to be excited about justification.
At such moments, it is enough to listen happily, which can also make the atmosphere more harmonious. Whether it's Zhang Dawei or Joshua, they are actually very good at these things, and they know how to do better.
"Dad, I'm also a man!" Enoch raised his little hand and said expectantly, "I don't sleep, I protect Mommy and my sister, I'm a man!"
Zhang Dawei felt very relieved, but touched Enoch's little head and said, "Xiaobai and I are outside to protect your mommy and sister, but they may be afraid, you have to protect them." If Enoch wasn't with her, your mommy wouldn't have been able to sleep well. ”
The baby was not so easy to fool, pushing Enoch towards the tent, and although the baby was a child who liked to be affirmed and praised, he was indeed willing to work harder. But the baby is well aware that she needs to sleep, and she will not keep vigil.
So this kind of thing, let's leave it to Dad, and Enoch, who wants to join in the fun, take it back to sleep, Enoch is the object that needs to be protected, he is too young and ignorant now!
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