[53] There is a kind of love called letting go
The son-in-law was inferior in front of his mother-in-law, and the daughter-in-law did not marry, he was afraid that the mother-in-law would have a violent temper and lead the daughter back, and the marriage would not be over.
The mother-in-law is mean, the daughter and the mother-in-law are honest people, persuade at a critical time to suppress the mother-in-law's fire.
"Mom, you want to hear what people are going to do. The girl said.
"yes, you're in a hurry, listen to it first. "Father-in-law.
Wu Daguang said to the son-in-law of the main family with insight: "Your mother-in-law wants to hold a face-saving wedding for you, I'm afraid that we can't do it well and smash your face, you can have such a mother-in-law, it's really a blessing." ”
These words are words to cross the bridge, and give the mother-in-law a step down.
The mother-in-law sighed, she is a cultured person, how can she not hear what Wu Daguang meant, they gave the steps, go down first.
"You, you, you just don't understand our painstaking efforts as elders, first tell me how you plan to hold this wedding for my daughter?"
Wu Daguang hurriedly took out more than a dozen pieces of paper from his arms, and the process plan was densely packed on them.
"This is my plan for your wedding, you see, where you are not satisfied can change, you are not an insider, I can explain some things I don't understand, we will do our best to make the wedding perfect." Wu Daguang presented the plan with both hands, although it seemed to be low, but for two thousand yuan, it was worth it, it was definitely worth it.
Wu Daguang's rigorous attitude is quite satisfactory to the other owner.
When you go out to do business, you only have a little shortcoming, and you are magnified by the other party fifty times, and a lot of business is lost because of this.
The mother-in-law didn't say that she invited Wu Daguang and the four of them into the house, stood in the yard to look at the plan, and asked Wu Daguang about the situation from time to time.
At the beginning, the mother-in-law was very dissatisfied, and when she talked about a few small interactions at the wedding, she hid her face and snickered, seemingly satisfied.
Seeing his mother-in-law smiling, the son-in-law really admired Wu Daguang, he got along with his mother-in-law, and he was scared, for fear of which sentence was wrong, the mother-in-law raised her face and said in front of her fiancée. Wu Daguang made his mother-in-law laugh in three or two sentences, and he had to admire.
Although the mother-in-law is bitter and mean, she is attentive, from the overall planning, to the small details, she asked clearly, Wu Daguang knows, she is reluctant to daughter, I don't want a kid to marry her daughter home so cheaply, the girl grew up in the palm of her parents, from birth to breastfeeding and changing diapers to adults going to college, she didn't pay more than this man, but now this man wants to take away her daughter, that kind of injury, only parents with daughters can understand.
Wu Daguang realized this, and tried to express this kind of emotion at the wedding, laughing and crying, and investing in feelings to be a perfect wedding.
The mother-in-law was not picky about Wu Daguang's wedding process, and ignored her son-in-law and said to Wu Daguang: "You are a person who has achieved great things." ”
Wu Daguang smiled innocently and scratched the back of his head embarrassedly.
Arrange tables and chairs in the yard, so as not to fall dust, cover the tablecloth again tomorrow morning, set up a large pot in the yard, and prepare all the ingredients that can be prepared in advance, so as not to catch blind before the wedding.
In the evening, the four people did not go back, opened two cheap rooms in the county hotel, four turtles from the countryside wandered around the county, Wu Daguang and Er Laizi were bitter, and the things they saw were curious to look at them twice, Wu Yongzhu was not, the family was poor and never poor him, everything he saw was fresh, he bought everything, especially the food, he drooled when he saw it, he didn't care about others, he bought a single copy, and let Xinghua a child look at him pitifully as an adult to eat.
Xinghua remembered that her grandmother said that it was not easy for her father to make money, and she watched Wu Yongzhu eat, swallowing her saliva desperately, and didn't dare to open her mouth to ask for it.
Er Laizi looked at Wu Yongzhu too much, and accused: "Wu Yongzhu, you didn't see that there were other servants with you, you ate alone." ”
Wu Yongzhu was eating the fragrance in his mouth, and was accused by Er Laizi, who already looked down on Er Laizi, and said: "Aren't you rich? Buy it yourself, the apricot blossoms have a big light, when do you want to worry about it." ”
Er Laizi was so angry that he wanted to continue to blame, Wu Daguang interrupted: "Forget it, cousin Yongzhu, you go to yours, we go to ours." ”
Wu Daguang didn't give Wu Yongzhu a chance to speak, pulled Xinghua and turned around and walked towards another stall, buying three snacks that were exactly the same as Wu Yongzhu.
Wu Yongzhu rolled his eyes and glanced at the three of them with extreme disdain.
As a relative, Wu Daguang has achieved benevolence and righteousness, while Wu Yongzhu is the opposite, he feels that Wu Daguang puts himself in a high position and only gives him charity.
Some people don't take revenge.
In the early morning of the eighth day of the Lunar New Year, the first firecrackers sounded, and the wedding kicked off lively.
Wu Daguang greeted Er Laizi and Luo Yongzhu in advance, prepared happy words for them, and was coaxed by Er Laizi on the way to pick up the bride, which was so lively.
In the bride's house, Wu Daguang set up many obstacles, allowing the groom to please the bride's family in various ways, and tried his best to receive the bride.
The process and customs in the county are still a little different from those in the village, and the county does not hold it after 12 o'clock, but it must be held before 12 o'clock.
Pick up the bride, the two newlyweds take a break, and the host supports the scene.
There are many relatives on both sides, and there are 100 people at the scene to attend the wedding.
"Ladies and gentlemen, friends, thank you for coming to the wedding of Mr. Wang Liansheng and Miss Liu Lijuan in your busy schedule.
Hehe, I've heard some people say that they don't care who the host is, so let's cut to the point.
As the saying goes, women chase men's compartments, men chase women's compartments, and some people are not necessarily separated by several mountains. To be honest, aren't you curious about how Mr. Wang Liansheng of Sina chased our beautiful Miss Liu Lijuan?"
According to the plan, Er Laizi and Wu Yongzhu led everyone to coax.
"Okay, I would like to invite our groom, Mr. Wang Liansheng, to tell me how he chased such a beautiful daughter-in-law. ”
The groom takes the stage to tell the story of their relationship, and then the bride enters in a wedding dress.
The combination of Chinese and Western, during which there are some small activities for newcomers, in the eyes of these people who go to college outside, this is novel, this is unique.
Then, invite the parents of both sides and try their best to use words to create an atmosphere.
"Your mother-in-law and mother-in-law raised your daughter-in-law with hard work, the first milk she drank, the first sentence she said, the first bite of food, and then went to elementary school, junior high school, and college, all of them grew up with all their heart, holding it in their hands for fear of freezing, holding it in their mouths for fear of melting, even getting married, they are afraid that their palms will be bullied in your family, and now that their daughter is married, married to the person she wants to marry, and married to the person she has been with all her life to old age, you undoubtedly cut off their hearts. ”
Wu Daguang said moving, thinking of Xinghua for a while, he will also experience Xinghua marrying a wife, who can be willing to give his heart to others?
There is a kind of love called letting go, and probably only parents can do it.