Chapter 1239 There is a big event in the family 4
Chapter 1239 There is a big event in the family 4
1.
Under the deterrence of Chun Shuli's parental authority and brother's status, Chun and the fourth uncle Chun Shujia were defeated one after another, and the two of them bowed their heads and drank sullen wine in frustration, and there was a great sadness that they died before leaving the school, and the atmosphere on the wine table was a little dull for a while.
At this time, Spring pinned all his hopes on his wife Xu Dan, and perhaps only Xu Dan, who was a daughter-in-law, could change his father Chun Shuli's stubborn old brain. There is one thing that Spring knows very well in his heart, that is, his father Chun Shuli has always looked down on Xu Dan, his daughter-in-law, and Xu Dan's image in his father's mind is much better than that of his own son. In addition, Xu Dan is an "outsider" after all, and Chun Shuli will not point fingers in front of his daughter-in-law or scold him like he did with Spring. These are Xu Dan's advantages. And at this moment, Xu Dan, who has been feeding his son, also realized that it was time for him to come out.
"Dad, you misunderstood what the fourth uncle meant!" Xu Dan said with a smile while feeding his son, "What the fourth uncle said about changing customs and customs refers to changing the old and bad customs and habits, which is a new social trend vigorously advocated by the state and governments at all levels in recent years! In 1997, after the death of the chief designer, wasn't it just a sea burial? Didn't you also watch the live broadcast on TV at that time? This is a typical example of changing customs and customs! A generation of great men can take an active part in their own actions, so why do we, who are ordinary people, still cling to the old traditions? For example, the village committee recently advocated the simple handling of marriages, advocating that young people purchase marriage dowries according to their basic living needs, opposing the behavior of asking for high bride prices for women's marriages and asking for other gifts under false pretenses, and advocating traveling marriages. New forms of marriage such as group weddings. These are all changes in customs, and this is done in order to form a good social custom..."
I have to admire Xu Dan's clever mouth, and the head of the analysis of the four words "changing customs and customs" is Dao, and the spring and spring calligraphers listened to it and couldn't help nodding again and again.
"Xiao Dan, I understand all the truths you said, and I'm not an unreasonable dead brain, but Xiaoyu's marriage is not as simple as you think..." If the other woman's side does not agree, but we have to insist on doing so, isn't that tantamount to slapping ourselves in the face? Secondly, Xiaoyu's marriage is also a major event in our Lao Chun family, and the old and young in the family, as well as relatives and friends, must be invited one by one, right? If according to the marriage customs of the Hushan area, the marriage is equivalent to being held for three days in a row, how many tables must be set up at home on the day of the wedding? A few tables must also be set up on the day of the Second Dynasty? There are also two tables for the 'Look at Three' of the Three Dynasties? Only in this way can those favors be sent away! If Xiaoyu and He Xinyan get married on a trip, then they will just hold a wedding ceremony at home on the day of the wedding, and they will have to go out to travel the next day, right? The groom and the bride are not there, so how can the banquets of the second and third dynasties be placed? If the guests who drink can't see the groom and bride toasting, then our family must not be scolded to death by poking the backbone behind their backs? So, don't think things so simple...
In front of his daughter-in-law Xu Dan, Chun Shuli told his worries and thoughts in one go, and Chun listened to it but was secretly happy.
2.
"Dad, none of the problems you said are problems, I can solve them all for you at once!"
"Just you?" Chun Shuli looked disdainful, "If you can solve these problems satisfactorily, then I will promise to let Xiaoyu travel and get married..."
"A word is a certainty?" Spring hurriedly asked.
"A gentleman's words are hard to chase!" Chun Shuli replied unambiguously, because in his opinion, Chun's ability could not solve these difficulties at all.
"Okay, Fourth Uncle, you can testify to me, save my dad from paying the bills!" Spring responded very simply, glanced at Chunshu's family, and then snapped his fingers and said, "First of all, let's talk about the first question, travel marriage is something that Xiaoyu and his girlfriend He Xinyan have agreed on a long time ago, and He Xinyan's parents didn't agree to them to travel and marry at first, mainly because people were afraid of our face, and they were afraid that this would make our old Chun family lose face!" He Xinyan's parents are both elementary school teachers, and they are both knowledgeable and literate people, so they don't care about these old traditions at all, so as long as we agree to the marriage simply, it will not be a problem for the woman at all!"
"Are you sure?" Seeing what Spring said, Chun Shuli asked.
"I'm sure!" Chun replied in the affirmative, "As long as you agree to the marriage and travel to get married, I will let Chunyu and his girlfriend come back next weekend to tell you in person, or let He Xinyan's parents come and tell you in person..."
At this time, Chun Shuli was forced into a corner by the spring, although he didn't know how true or false what the spring said, but Chun Shuli could only agree first. I still think that there is a second problem anyway, and if I can't find a way to solve the second problem satisfactorily in the spring, then it will not be too late for me to regret it.