"I think we can just ignore my baby's grades and we want her to be happy, but a lot of people don't think so. Zhang Dawei put down the book in his hand and said to Melissa, "You can also see that everyone has high expectations for her." ”

Melissa nodded, also very helpless, "I don't think it's fair to her, you can't make her standards and requirements higher just because she's smart." Obviously, we didn't do that, but that's what most people asked of her. ”

This is definitely not alarmist, because no matter how you look at it, it is some reality, and this is the situation that the baby is experiencing now.

The best proof is that the baby only won one 'excellence award'. According to the requirements and standards for other children, the baby's results are naturally proof of the top students, and they will definitely be able to get the little red flower.

But here in the baby, such a result has become a proof that the baby's learning attitude is not correct enough, and the baby can actually perform better, she has such ability and potential, but the baby has not done it, and the baby needs to work harder.

Zhang Dawei analyzed carefully and carefully, many people have really high requirements for some people, so people don't know what to say. This kind of thing is not even just in one field, but in all corners of society.

In the sports world, Adriano, the former king of Meazza is like this, this super striker has skills and potential, but the training attitude is not good enough, so everyone is constantly criticizing when they regret it.

The famous Xiao Luo is even more like this, it is useless to win the World Footballer of the Year, the Golden Ball, the World Cup or the league championship, and the Champions League. What many people remember is that Xiao Luo used to hang out in nightclubs, so he suddenly fell during the peak period. While marveling at Xiao Luo's football talent, he also regretted that the former first person fell quickly and did not reach the heights expected by many fans and media.

What are you kidding, Xiao Luo has won all the individual honors and team honors in the club and the national team. But the result is good, naturally everyone's appetite has been raised, and I think Xiao Luo can actually be better......

There are so many things like this in the sports world, and many players don't reach the heights that some people expect, so they are labelled as lazy and not working hard enough, and they are considered to lack discipline and think they are wasting talent.

Of course, Zhang Dawei has actually been criticized by some people, perhaps because some fans and martial arts fans think that Zhang Dawei has the most enviable talent and potential. Even if Zhang Dawei now shows terrifying dominance in the ring, in the eyes of the vast majority of people, Zhang Dawei must have more outstanding potential, and he can become better.

Zhang Dawei's distress, his baby daughter is now also crying and laughing, making people have nothing to say.

"Everybody knows she's smart and everyone knows that our daughter is a genius. So they think that the baby should get better performance, and it is normal for her to crush all her peers. Zhang Dawei is now a little indignant, and he is aggrieved for his baby daughter, "Everyone's expectations for her are too high, this will be her burden and pressure, which is not good!"

Melissa was silent, not that she felt that Zhang Dawei was making a big fuss, but that she felt that Zhang Dawei's worries had already been indicated.

Not to mention anything else, just take the academic performance as an example; the baby won A+ in everyone's opinion is a normal performance, if other children get such a score, they have long been praised and affirmed. But when the baby gets such a result, maybe the teacher will analyze the baby's performance and have some small shortcomings, which should not appear.

That is to say, some people deserve praise and affirmation for scoring 100 points, and the baby scores 100 points, which is a matter of course. Even if the baby scored 100 points, it was because there were only 100 points, and she had to score 100 points, and there was no other reason.

In fact, not only some teachers in the school, Zhang Dawei and Melissa sometimes intentionally or unintentionally raise their standards for babies. Because in their opinion, those questions that are difficult for other children, the baby will definitely get their hands on them.

They are full of confidence in the baby's learning ability and full of expectations for the baby's smart little head, because the baby is a genius!

Zhang Dawei and Melissa were seriously discussing some things, because they could now sense some of the baby's unhappiness. This incident really makes the two of them feel a little uncomfortable now, and it will indeed make them start to think seriously.

As a parent, there is no one who does not want his children to get ahead, and it is normal to hope that his son will become a dragon and his daughter will become a phoenix.

It's just that Zhang Dawei and Melissa are also very clear that they now have a certain net worth, and they can give their children a certain foundation. This also means that the starting point of the baby and Enoch is actually much higher than that of most people, which means that the children can maintain a fairly good standard of living even if they do not work hard.

So at this time, Zhang Dawei and Melissa hope that the children are healthy and happy, which is what they expect.

"The baby's interests are very wide, and we can't understand the thoughts of these little geniuses. Zhang Dawei looked at Melissa and said seriously, "So I support her hobbies, I don't ask her to be a scholar or scientist, I just want her to be happy, I hope she can do what she likes, I won't force her." ”

Melissa doesn't think there's anything strange about Zhang Dawei's attitude, although there are many tiger parents in the United States, and many people also hope that their children will have a good life. But Melissa knows how much Zhang Dawei spoils the baby, so in the case of no harm, Zhang Dawei will definitely not force the baby, he is the person who likes the baby's healthy and happy growth the most.

And Melissa also knows very well, that is, the baby is not a good child, and this little guy is indeed very worry-free. It's just that this little guy is also very thoughtful, and if this little girl is tough, it will be difficult for ordinary people to convince, or even convince.

Since this is the baby's character, since there are some good foundations at home, then the baby can do something she likes, not necessarily ask the baby to learn what may be useful in the future.

Hobbies, naturally, really like it, so that you will be more engaged and focused, so that you can get real happiness.

The two of them are seriously discussing the education of the baby, and they are discussing some of the little troubles of their little genius. Anyway, the opinions of the two people are extremely unanimous, that is, the two people don't want the baby to be unhappy.

So it's not impossible to have such a thing as wasting talent, and it doesn't matter if others feel sorry for it, because it's an unimportant thing. The most important thing is that the baby is happy and happy, which is the first place, and this is the expectation of two people.

Enoch was also very gifted, but it was almost certainly not in this area. Melissa has confirmed countless times that Enoch's child has inherited Zhang Dawei's excellent physical fitness, and this little guy will definitely have the potential to become a talented and capable athlete in the future.

It probably didn't matter which one Enoch preferred, but in general, it was as much of a hobby as Enoch was his sister, and the kid seemed to be interested in a lot of sports.

Enoch, sitting on the couch, held a golf ball in his hand and watched the baseball game intently. This kid doesn't really know the rules of some sports at all, but this doesn't affect this kid's interest in watching some games.

This is Enoch's style, and Zhang Dawei and Melissa have known this for a long time. So it's very simple to bring this active child, when you are really busy, turn on the TV for Enoch, find a game for this kid, this can basically make the noisy and active little guy quiet, it's that simple!

"Enoch could become a high school varsity football, baseball, and basketball star, and I think that should be fine for him. Melissa laughed as she made breakfast, "I know a lot of NBA stars who were proficient in several sports in high school, and they all did well. ”

Of course, Zhang Dawei has heard of this, as if Iverson and James were the absolute core of the school's football and basketball teams in high school, and even Iverson led the school football team to the semifinals of the U.S. Under 17 League. These players are very good athletes.

"But then they all gave up some sports because if they wanted to compete at a higher level, they needed to focus on one sport so that they could really improve. Zhang Dawei also knew this, so he said with a smile, "But my child, maybe he can be amphibious and multi-perchive, I don't force him to achieve anything in a certain field, and I don't care if he is wasting his talent, as long as he is happy." ”

Melissa looked at Zhang Dawei with a smile, and then asked, "If he focuses on baseball, he may be able to get a contract of hundreds of millions of dollars." You've also seen the NBA now, where top players can make hundreds of millions of dollars in their entire careers. If your child just has a wide range of interests, I don't think he can be the best one. Perhaps, he may just be a role player, a small role in many areas. ”

Zhang Dawei shrugged, maybe Enoch would be high or low, and it didn't matter; Zhang Dawei really didn't want Enoch to rule a certain arena, as long as Enoch could be happy in sports.

Zhang Dawei and Melissa had no doubts about Enoch's athletic talent, believing that if Enoch became an athlete, he would definitely become a pretty good one. Of course, this does not mean that Enoch can only be an athlete, and if he falls in love with mathematics or music one day, it will be fine.

It's just that the two of them are not optimistic about these, who made Enoch's child too easy to move. Expect this kid to be quiet for a while, probably when watching the game, this kid will be very focused. Even when Melissa was playing the piano, Enoch was probably 'blowing his beard and glaring'.

It's just such a black frame, red nose cover, and black beard, and when you blow it, the colored plastic strips will be inflated and stretched straight to both sides.

This was Enoch's favorite toy, and he could often be seen as the boy 'blew his beard and glare' walking around the living room. For Enoch, an elegant piano could not be compared to a toy like a beard and glare. Seeing the piano, Enoch was running as far as he went.

Zhang Dawei knows this, and Melissa naturally knows this, so for their baby son, neither of them actually expects this child to grow up to become an office worker or business elite in a straight suit;

It seems that it is indeed a bit early to say this, and no one can guarantee that naughty children will still be naughty when they grow up. Maybe, maybe you will become quieter in the process of growing up, maybe your personality when you are a child will be diametrically opposed to when you grow up, and there are not one or two such cases, which is too normal.

Having said that, I do know that there is too much plasticity and uncertainty in the child's future, but in Zhang Dawei and Melissa's opinion, their fat son is basically certain, that is, this child is probably a naughty and active master, and he is the type who can't be idle at all.

The baby ran over, grabbed Enoch, who was watching TV, and pinched Enoch's little face, which was her toy to the baby. For the baby, pinching Enoch's chubby face when there is nothing to do is actually a very interesting game.

"Enoch, why are you watching the Yankee game again?" the baby looked at the game carefully, and then said, "Daddy lied to you again, this is yesterday's game, it was recorded." ”

Zhang Dawei sweated, Enoch, this kid doesn't pick a game, as long as it's a game. This kid can't figure out the difference between recording and live broadcasting, and even a game can be watched over and over again for days, but this kid can't remember it anyway.

It's just that the baby is a very smart little girl, and she can see that something is wrong with the situation now.

"Sister, baseball!" Enoch naturally leaned on the baby's arms, stretched out his little finger and pointed to the TV and said, "Sister, Enoch likes it." ”

Zhang Dawei breathed a sigh of relief, as long as Enoch liked it. Of course, I am also very happy, Enoch's language skills are also improving, and this child is now struggling to speak at length. But some simple sentences can't help him, and the expression will be very accurate.

The baby didn't care about this, and the little girl said happily to Enoch, "Enoch, let's watch the cartoon." ”

So there is an older brother and sister, and this younger brother and sister are sometimes destined to be bullied. Fortunately, although Enoch's child does not like to read cartoons the most, as long as his sister tells him, this child will still faithfully carry it out.

For Enoch, of course, the game was his favorite, but if his sister took him to play a game, then even Peppa Pig could be very exciting. Of course, the baby doesn't like Peppa Pig or the Wang Wang Meritorious Team very much now, and the baby thinks she's grown up!(https:)

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