Chapter 277 Exchange of Experiences

1.

In the past two days in the county seat, in addition to getting together with a few classmates to drink a lot of wine, in the spring, it is to meditate behind closed doors. What I am thinking about in the spring is the marriage event that is related to the happiness of my life.

In the spring, I wanted to ask for some ideas from Sun Li and Liu Xiangyang, but the opinions of the two people always differed, and Sun Li still strongly encouraged the spring to marry a wife to look at the woman's character and ability, and not to be rigidly entangled in her background; Liu Xiangyang still resolutely insisted that she marry a fellow teacher or a public official with a high level of education in the spring, so that the two people could easily communicate, and the spiritual and material life after marriage would be more fulfilling. Liu Xiangyang and Sun Li also debated their respective views from time to time, and the two of them chattered in Spring's ears, and their two incompatible views made Spring even more helpless and helpless.

It's just that although Liu Xiangyang and Sun Li have adhered to their respective views, they have ignored the truest feeling in Chun's heart, that is, Chun has always had a woman in his heart that he is worried about and will never forget. This woman is Liu Qing, the only woman she has liked in the spring for more than 20 years. Except for Liu Qing, Spring doesn't know if he will fall in love with other women again. However, is a poor boy who has nothing qualified to say "love" in front of the woman he likes? Reality can only make Spring struggle in this hopeless love.

In the spring, I often ask myself, if life is a play, is it too deep for me to enter the play? All kinds of things in the world are originally impermanent, and the glitz is just a passing cloud; gathering and scattering is just a thought; gains and losses are fleeting, and in the blink of an eye, it is already a moment of beauty. Hongchen all the way, who is his lifelong life partner?

In fact, people are on a journey, a trip to the mountains, a trip to the water, and there is an encounter and a separation. There are many misses, painful liver and sausage, there are many encounters, unforgettable, some dreams, may be exchanged for a lifetime of exhaustion... Those who have little hope of looking and waiting, let it go with the wind, it may not be a kind of ease. Spring has been wondering, is it time to let go and let go of your hopeless attachment? Let go, move forward, walk through the scenery that does not belong to you, learn to cherish, learn to forget, and learn to be strong. I only wish that life is like a lotus, not for whom to open, not for whom to fall, let the world fall into the dust, only hold on to an inch of their own time, in the clouds and water, low eyebrows, walking, water-like through the red dust, stick to the original intention, isn't it also good?

2.

Haru knew that if according to the wedding customs of the Toyama area, as long as the man and woman held a ceremony to "send the day", then the marriage would be 100% decided. At this time, if one party repents, not only must bear the financial compensation, (such as the woman repents and wants to return the bride price, the man proposes to break up and cannot ask for the dowry, etc.), and more importantly, the repentant party also bears the infamy of being immoral and untrustworthy, and there will be people pointing fingers behind his back wherever he goes.

For the days of dating Xu Dan, I can't say what kind of feeling I feel in my heart in the spring. For Xu Dan, a girl, she didn't like or hate it in her heart in the spring, just like facing a familiar stranger, her heart was as plain as water, and she was not shocked. There is no love and no hate, will such a marriage be a disappointment to the passionate Xu Dan?

In the face of the current situation, should we stand back or rise up to resist?

Spring doesn't want her parents to bear the infamy of going back on her word and betrayal, and she doesn't want to see her parents' helpless eyes full of disappointment and despair, and every time she thinks of her parents' grief, Spring will feel an indescribable sourness in her heart. But if you obey the wishes of your parents, you will hastily hold hands with Xu Dan and walk into the palace of marriage, in addition to the guilt of Xu Dan in the spring, there is also a trace of unwillingness, and the spring is unwilling to give up your love like this...

After two days of struggling in the county, spring still failed to find a way out for his love and marriage.

3.

On August 2, he returned to Hushan Town from the county seat, afraid of being scolded by his parents, so he did not dare to go home in the spring, but plunged into the studio of Hushan Middle School to check the painting situation of the students who were not at home in the past two days, and tutored the students one by one.

On August 3, it was almost noon, and Spring received a call from the office of the principal Zhao Zhiqiang in the studio.

Before he arrived at the door of the principal's office, he saw Wu Xiao rushing out of the principal's room, holding the spring and shouting and screaming.

"Ah Xiao, are you insane? What are you going to do?" Spring struggled to break free of Wu Xiao's embrace, and scolded as soon as he opened his mouth.

"Hehe, it's a good thing, hurry up and get into the house..." In the face of Spring's scolding, Wu Xiao didn't care at all, and pulled Spring into the principal's room with a smile.

In the principal's room, most of the school's middle-level cadres and the six class teachers of the junior high school department are all there, counting and registering the admission notices of high school entrance examinations at all levels and types of schools around the coffee table.

"Xiaochun, come on, come on," seeing Spring enter the house, Zhao Zhiqiang beckoned to Spring with a smile on his face, "Come here, I'll tell you something good." ”

"How many art students have been admitted again?" Spring stood at Zhao Zhiqiang's desk with a smile, the results of the high school entrance examination in the art class were within his expectations, in fact, there was nothing to surprise.

"That's not what I'm talking about," Zhao Zhiqiang smiled, "The entrance examination results of art students and the high school entrance examination results of the entire junior and third level departments are basically the same as last year, this is nothing, I want to tell you another thing." ”

"What's the matter?" said Spring, puzzled.

"That's the case, the Education Bureau in order to summarize and commend the collectives and individuals with outstanding results in the high school entrance examination, and promote the work experience and methods of these outstanding collectives and individuals in the high school entrance examination, decided to recommend a class or individual with outstanding high school entrance examination results according to the results of this year's high school entrance examination, write out the report materials, and then go to the Education Bureau for centralized training, and finally the Education Bureau will select a part of the typical class teachers to participate in the county's education system after the start of school this fall. Just now, Director Feng Shu and I counted the results of the high school entrance examination of each class in the third-level department at the beginning of this year, Wu Xiao's class results are the best, none of the 68 people in the class dropped out, including 4 people admitted to Huxian Normal School, 13 people admitted to various high schools, 26 people admitted to various vocational schools, 6 people were admitted to other small and technical secondary schools, including art students, and there were only 20 students in the class who did not enter the higher level school, do you say this is a miracle?" But Wu Xiao said that all these achievements have been achieved under your guidance, and Wu Xiao has been implementing your education plan in an orderly manner according to your educational views and concepts. Just now we have also obtained Wu Xiao's consent, the school decided to recommend you to participate in the county's 'lecture tour' activities, these two days you will start to write materials, August 10 with the stamped materials to the Education Bureau Teacher Training Department to report...

"Don't mind," Zhao Zhiqiang's words were not finished, and Spring hurriedly interrupted him, "Principal, what's the matter with letting me go?

"What?" Zhao Zhiqiang looked surprised, "This is a great opportunity to show your face, don't you really want to go? This is a good platform to show your teaching ability and work level in front of the leader, in case you get the appreciation of which leader?"

"Don't think about it," Spring said very resolutely, "The results are made by Wu Xiao, I can't make this cheap, and I won't do anything to sell my reputation." I can help Wu Xiao write the exchange materials, but the 'experience exchange meeting' must be Wu Xiao!"

"Okay!" Zhao Zhiqiang sighed in his heart, in this era, there are really not many people like Spring who are not moved by fame and fortune. This kind of opportunity to show his face in front of the leaders and expand his personal popularity and influence in front of the teachers is something that no number of people can ask for, but in the spring, he resolutely refuses to give in without complaint. Zhao Zhiqiang secretly admired the high-spirited approach of spring in the face of deserved honor but thinking about others.

Wu Xiao stood aside and looked at Spring nervously, he knew in his heart that most of the credit for achieving such good results in the class this time should be attributed to Spring. However, people have selfish intentions, and Wu Xiao is no exception, and deep down in his heart, he is reluctant to give up this opportunity to show his face and raise his eyebrows in front of others. It wasn't until he saw that he resolutely refused in the spring, and Zhao Zhiqiang nodded in agreement, that Wu Xiao's hanging heart could be regarded as letting go. At the same time, a trace of guilt also quietly rose in Wu Xiao's heart, the kindness and generosity of spring are sometimes really unattainable and embarrassing to others.