"That's natural, if I don't have a perfect match with Yuntian, how can I become Yuntian's wife? You don't know how many old and young women are eager to climb into Yuntian's bed, if I'm not smarter, how can I keep my Yuntian's heart?" Mu Hibiscus joked and said to Nie Qing.

"Okay, I know that you are the most powerful and smartest, you are a well-behaved, sensible and smart little woman of your family, but to be honest, Hibiscus, I really envy you, you see that you are well married, and Mr. Mu is such an indifferent person, with a gentle smile on his face when facing you, he simply spoils you and doesn't want to spoil you, it is really all the ideal men in the minds of all women in the world are occupied by your husband, and you happen to have such a perfect man. ”

"What you said is as if your family is not as good as others, in fact, in the eyes of every lover, his lover is the most perfect: all the advantages will be magnified in the eyes of lovers, do you think Asen will be inferior to others?"

"That's naturally not, in my eyes Brother Sen is the best, he is also very good to me, I have never felt such warmth. Nie Qing said with a smile, his face full of happiness.

"That's it, you have been thinking about Ji Yuxi before, I told you Nie Qing, it's not that I don't support you and Ji Yuxi, a man like him is not your choice, if you and Ji Yuxin are together, you will not be happy, although Ji Yuxi is a very righteous and upright person, he is the kind of man who looks very macho and very bold in the minds of many women, but think about it, how can a man who cares about national affairs put all his energy on the person he loves？”

Mu Hibiscus said these things to Nie Qing very bitterly, in fact, she wanted him to understand that she didn't need to have any regrets about Ji Yuxi, she had to cherish the person in front of her, only the man in front of her was the most suitable for him and the best person for him, and the reason why she matched him and Ah Sen and disagreed with her about Ji Yuxi's matter was not because Ji Yuxi thought about him and did it himself, but because he clearly understood that Ji Yuxi's kind of person may be a very good man in the eyes of others, honest and kind, and has national affairs in mind, but for a single woman* There are many things that he can't do and can't take care of.

"Mu Hibiscus, what you said, in fact, I understand, you don't need to explain so much to me, I know you don't mean anything else, the reason why you want me to be with Ah Sen is that Ah Sen is good to me and thinks it suits me, and I never thought that you didn't want the two of us to be together because of Major General Ji's thoughts about you, I know what kind of person you are, you don't have to explain it to me, you are so good to Mr. Mu, you only have him in your heart, how can I miss you so much?"

It turned out that she also understood everything in her heart, and she could see Ji Yuxi's thoughts about Mu Jin clearly, or she was a little jealous from the beginning, but after she figured it out, she also felt that how could that kind of person be able to look down on herself?

Even if the husband and wife are lovers, if the level is not the same, the gap will get farther and farther, so it will never be able to go together, so it is a lucky thing to say that you have not experienced this kind of pain.

"It's good if you can understand it, for these things, let's not mention them again, the past is over, we all have to cherish the present, just be good to the people who are good to us. ”

Nie Qing nodded.

"So Nie Qing, how did your parents get along with your family during the time you were in school? Mu Hibiscus wants to find out that his family hates Nie Qing to continue going to school, and his mother insists on doing this, so what happened between them?"

"Speaking of this, I can't stop feeling sad in my heart, I also said just now, because my mother wants to provide for me to go to school, and a large part of the money he earns is used by me to go to school, and it can't be handed over to my father: so my father either beats or scolds him after drinking, but because I am now grown up, I also understand the relationship between men and women, in fact, I think my father is still a little different from other people to my mother. ”

"What's the difference? Are you saying that your father is different to his wife than the men in other families?"

"Yes, yes, I think my father still loves my mother more or less, but it's because he has too deep a family concept that he does those things, because the deep-rooted, macho kind of thinking that is dominated by men, but he has already taken root in his mind, so he will make him like everyone else, as if he doesn't do it and it makes him seem strange. ”

"I probably understand what you mean," Hibiscus thought for a moment, then analyzed, " I think it must have been your father who fell in love with your mother, he met your mother outside, and it happened to be outside at that time, so your father was able to treat your mother the same way a normal man treats the person he likes, and it is precisely because of this that your mother doesn't know those things in that family, so she also loves your father, and follows him back, but I didn't expect that after going back, in that kind of environment, your father also had to form that kind of macho attitude to treat your mother, so the things he did were actually affected by the environmentIf they weren't living in that environment, maybe your father and mother wouldn't be that way, would they?"

"Yes, I think that's the case, but I'm not sure, because after all, there has been no experiment, and we can only guess what hasn't happened, but I think my father must have loved my mother as well, because the men in other families really treat their wives like livestock, let them work, and they eat all the good food and drink first, and their wives can only eat the worst.

But in our house, my mother was allowed to eat at the table, you know? In that place, women were not allowed to eat at the table, but they could only sit on a small bench in the kitchen with a bowl of rice and eat by themselves, but at that time in my house I saw a different treatment, my mother could eat at the same table with us, and no matter whether the food at home was good or bad, my father would not say that he would not let my mother eat, we could all eat as we pleased. ”

After listening to Nie Qing's words, Mu Hibiscus nodded, she thought for a while and felt that maybe Nie Qing was right, his father had a certain love for his mother, but because of that environment, he had to do that, and his kind of thinking has been deeply rooted, and over time his kind of habit has been formed, but loving someone is indeed a little different, he will not be willing to let his lover suffer too much, especially in food, clothing, housing and transportation, this aspect is the clearest, as if every time he arrives at the meal, Mu Yuntian is most worried about whether he has eatenIn fact, this does not mean that a man can say it casually, or because the man is worried about this woman, so he will start with his food, clothing, housing and transportation, which is the most important point to express a man's love.

A man doesn't care about a woman's words, he really doesn't care what he eats, whether he eats or not, and Nie Qing said that his mother can eat at the same table with them and eat whatever she wants, which really reflects that his father is different from others, maybe his father really loves his mother.

"Nie Qing, since you say so, then I think this matter may be easier to handle, since your father loves your mother and has feelings for him, then it will be easier for us to act, maybe we can take both of them out, so that after they get out of that environment, maybe your father will not be the same as before." ”

"But I was still afraid, I was afraid of my father since I was a child: he was most impressed by me and my mother, and I didn't want to live with my father. ”

"Nie Qing, you have to know that your mother is not from that village, and she has the ability to get out of that place, but why doesn't he come out? Actually, I think your mother also loves your father, so the power of love is great, even if you suffer in that place: your mother is not willing to leave, what do you think?"

"Hearing you say this, I think maybe it may be true, I sometimes wonder if my mother is not unable to make money to support herself, he can make money for me to study, then when I am studying, he can go out of that place to accompany me, live with me, but he has never gone out of that place, no matter how my father and those people over there treat her, she has always stayed in that place, maybe it is really like you said, he also loves my father, so he didn't leave！”

"Yes, that's why you have to think of this that we have to save people, and we have to take your mother out: everything can happen, you have to think about it, so if you want your father to live with you now, and you don't want your father to come out, then what will you do if your father doesn't come out, and your mother doesn't go with you because your father doesn't go with you?"

It turned out that this was the case, Nie Qing was a little helpless, it turned out that what Mu Hibiscus wanted to say was this matter, she wanted to tell herself that if she didn't accept her father's words, maybe her mother wouldn't follow her out, so what should I do?

"Actually, I'm not saying that I can't accept my father, I'm just too scared of him, I've been beaten since I was a child, I'm really, really scared, if he stands in front of me again, he will beat me again, what will I do? I really don't have any defense against her. ”

"Nie Qing, you are not a child now, you are not young anymore, and you are not alone now, you have Asen, you have a group of friends like us, do you think we will let your father beat you?

"Also, you're right, now that I have Asen, Brother Sen will definitely protect me. Nie Qing looked a little happy, she almost forgot that she now has such a large group of good friends, and she has a boyfriend who loves her very much to protect herself, in fact, she doesn't need to be afraid of anything.

Maybe it's really because I'm used to being alone, and it's also because I'm used to being beaten and scolded by my father, so I forget all this and just care about being afraid.

"That's right, you will no longer be alone in the future, you have to get used to it, get used to having lovers and friends by your side, you are not alone!" Hibiscus smiled and said softly to her.

"yes, I see. Nie Qing also looked very happy. Now I am really no longer alone, all my friends and my lovers are like relatives to me, which makes me feel unprecedented warmth.

"Then I'll ask you now, do your father and his family have any special rules? Mu Hibiscus asked the most important point, as long as they find out this point and enter the village again, they can not touch those opportunities, and so as not to anger them and those people, so that it can be safe, and do not use force to communicate with them, negotiate with them, try not to do anything, after all, everyone is also human, even if they do a lot of things wrong, there are many strange rules, but they can't easily hurt them.

"In our place, there are actually a lot of rules, but it's quite chaotic, but there is a little bit of the main line that actually revolves around men, women and children as supplements, men are first-class, children are second-level, and wives are third-level, which is almost what it means.

If there is a boy born in the family, then it must be about the same as the father's position level, if it is a girl, then his rank will be lower, but it will be higher than the wife level in the family. ”

Listening to Nie Qing's words, Hibiscus was about to laugh, but he didn't expect that there was still a hierarchy in this society, and it was really ridiculous that there were still grades in a family.