Chapter 18: Communication and Labeling

During the live broadcast that night, the audience saw that Yuan Quan's interest in playing the game was not high, and they were distracted a few times when playing the game, as if they had some troubles, but Su Li, who was connected to him, was still so happy. A group of fans shouted and asked warmly, "Circle God, what's wrong with you, are you sick?" "There are always a few days ...... every month" "Circle God, if you are uncomfortable, go and rest early, at most you won't watch the live broadcast tonight 555555~" "Circle God, if there is anything unhappy to say to make everyone happy" "I never thought that the circle god is also a mortal after all, come and let the old man come and dial it, naturally his heart is clear"......

Yuan Quan felt that he could ask the fans about this matter, maybe they had experience in dealing with it, and then said sorry to Su Li, and went to deal with private matters after this fight, Su Li expressed great interest in wanting to know what things could bother Yuan Quan.

Yuan Quan went downstairs and poured a glass of water, and slowly said to everyone: I'm very sorry for the time for everyone to watch the game because of my personal reasons, and the audience who wants to watch the game can't watch the game is really sorry, here's the thing, I originally made an appointment with my teacher to deal with the gay lady who came back to the mail, but my teacher insisted that I go to meet with someone older than me as a request, and I wanted to dress up better and behave better..... But my teacher has always treated me like a younger brother, and I heard her say that she is still her acquaintance, and her family is not bad, and she is a daughter......

And my current job is an anchor, and it shouldn't change in a short period of time, can this older daughter have a common hobby with me, first of all, after knowing that I am an anchor, what will you think of the teacher who introduced her? Because my relationship affects the relationship between my teacher and others, what should I do?

And it's the first time I've met a girl in this way, and I'm older than me, so I don't know what to say or talk about, after all, a few years older always have some hobbies differences, and it will be awkward to sit there if there is no topic.

And because of my personal relationship, it's still natural for me to talk as a girl, but whenever I want to develop a relationship, I will always instinctively let myself not enter that stage, which is the sequelae left by my junior high school and high school, when a girl confesses to me, because of the psychological age difference, I feel that the two have no common language, and even the thoughts are different, and in the end I will always become friends with them, and after many experiences, it has become a psychological suggestion, and then when I want to experience the feeling of love in college, I can't change it。 As a result, I had a few more female friends instead of girlfriends...... If I like that girl and end up being friends again, I'll regret it, because it's too painful to miss out on someone I like...... This is also a psychological problem of mine, and I want to talk about it after I have healed myself.

As a result, the teacher has already sent me the address of the meeting in the afternoon, so please give me an opinion......

"Hey, it's interesting, the god of the circle, you are going on a blind date, not so simple as meeting......" "Female fans expressed their willingness to be the experimental object of the circle god" "I'm coming, I'm coming, how many times have I met on a blind date, what kind of situation haven't I experienced!" "No, my circle god is going to be picked by wild flowers...... "Circle god, I'm coming, I'm here to be your temporary girlfriend, it's definitely not a shame to bring me to the scene, 172 cm 48 kg 36 D, do you want to think about it." "Little sister, in fact, I'm going on a blind date tomorrow" "Looking for a girlfriend, feature 36D" "I've seen this ID, it's the women's clothing boss in the group, don't be deceived by him." ”......

Seeing that the barrage was getting more and more crooked, Yuan Quan smiled when he saw it, and there were a few good suggestions: you can't escape from meeting when you meet, let's talk about it when we meet, if you chat, the recent current affairs, girls like Korean drama stars or something, the circle god can make up for it a little bit, it should be this time to meet, if the conversation is good, say it separately.

There is also a saying that when you meet a girl, don't believe in the AA system on the Internet or something.,You should be generous when you meet.,Even if you don't look at it right, you can't be stingy.,It's not a shame to be like this when you meet.。

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Just when everyone's discussion was heating up, Su Li, who was still in the voice channel, suddenly spoke: "Actually, you just think too much, I have a general understanding through your previous description of things, your teacher forced you to meet someone you have never met, are you afraid that you will not have anything to say when the two of you are embarrassed, or the other party will despise you as an anchor or something, and then you are afraid that you will become a good friend when you have a good feeling, right?"

"Yes, the above are all my worries, so how can I avoid it?

"Everyone likes to label others, and while this can help you quickly deepen your impression of a person, it's not so easy to understand people thoroughly, some traits may be obvious, but some traits are not so easy to see. I've heard a lot of labels for each other from what you just described, such as 'Miss Qianjin', 'Elder', 'Different Hobbies', etc., but in fact, you haven't met each other, so you don't need to worry about this now, what if the other party also likes to play games, or like to watch live broadcasts?"

"Since you have learned from your teacher what kind of person the other person is, then when chatting with someone, you can start talking about the other person's clothes, to the weather, to life, to hobbies, if you find the same hobby, then you can keep talking about this, if not, you can talk about pets, entertainment, etc., if there is no hobby, it means that there is no need to develop; if you are interested in hobbies, then you can become friends, and after getting to know each other, you will naturally continue to develop......"

"And I find that you seem to be stressing what you should do and what you should do then, but don't girls look for topics? People may have already learned from your teacher what kind of person you are and find a good topic? Communication is an interaction, and talking alone is not communication at all!"

"I happen to have an appointment tomorrow.,The situation is similar to you.,I'm not worried about these at all.,Plus I want to find my favorite other half and have to support me to play games.,Not only but also to play with me.,This is a must.,And it will show the characteristics of your personality and hobbies on the body accordingly.,Such as cartoon clothes and accessories, etc.,I'm going to go out tomorrow in clothes printed with a doll girl.,In case I meet someone who also understands "Bloodborne", it's really fate! I found that I was really tired when I was communicating with people, and I didn't know what others wanted to express after chatting with people for a long time when we met before, but now the cocoon between people is getting thicker and thicker....."

"It's so philosophical, Emperor Bai, you are my idol!" "Emperor Bai, can you say it again?" I plan to record it and listen to it every day!" "White Emperor-Philosophy-Emperor" "Emperor Bai, you should also go to the live broadcast, there is no future for mixing with the gods of the circle!" ......

Yuan Quan felt that he had learned a lesson in the evening: "Thank you, Su Li, yes, people like to label, then I just plan it myself, isn't it inconvenient to find a colleague, I plan to wear a brother onion's clothes to an appointment tomorrow......"