337 The third watch of that year (66).
That year (66)
Second Sister Lin discussed with her second brother-in-law when she went back, "Deng Cheng, you say, I will take a few days off, can I make a trip with my wife?"
Deng Cheng lay down on the bed, "Can the old man be willing? Isn't this going up to get a piece of the pie?"
"My own brother, what is there to be polite. How much money we have, how many things we do. My salary has been all over the years, even if I bring ten or twenty back, it will change hands and it will be money. How cost-effective. The more Second Sister Lin thought about it, the more she felt that it was feasible, and the more anxious she became.
Deng Cheng frowned and said, "Forget it." You see that your three sisters and two sons, people don't talk about mixing. โ
"Why didn't you get involved?" Second Sister Lin pushed Deng Cheng, "My boss can buy so many goods, how do you think the capital came from? โ
Speaking of this, Second Sister Lin was angry, "Look at the third brother-in-law's husband's family." The child is here, in fact, he stays for less than 20 days a month, and when the grandfather is busy, he sends a car to pick him up. Just a little bit of time, not to mention the rice flour oil, this year is not as tight as in previous years, and it is not a rare thing. But it is the heart of others. Not to mention the three children, it's enough for our family to eat for half a month. And the milk, the eggs, the fruit. It's a bowl of braised pork, and when the child's aunt is ready, she will also send the child's uncle to send it. We're not unusual. They are all their own children, just eat and live here, not to mention my aunt, that is, my sister-in-law, if you say a word of conscience, you won't have anything. Nor will the child be wronged. But the Yin family has done the job, isn't it? Both parents are happy. The sister-in-law has no opinion, Xiaowei has gained weight. It's a heart. Let's talk about your hometown, you just came to get some vegetables and dried tofu, that's also your intention, isn't it? You always say that I know money, money, money, and face. But you'll have to save face for me, too. Even if it is a native product of the countryside, peanuts, potatoes, and dried wild vegetables. Homespun cloth. Every time I go back to dinner, I'm embarrassed. Picking up a meat dish from the cafeteria, it's like I'm taking money to supplement my mother's family, why don't you want to think about it, the two of us eat over there for most of the time, whose food and whose drink?"
"Alright! Here you go again. Deng Cheng frowned and said, "I didn't say anything, when I said that I couldn't be busy, I would refer to your eldest sister's example and pay for food." You're not unhappy. I'm to blame for that. โ
"What do you give for food?" Second Sister Lin glared, "Your monthly salary is almost all sent home." Last time your dad was hospitalized, I posted a lot of it. Her eyes were a little red, "I'm not afraid that if I get pregnant, I won't have any money in my hand? โ
"Then give the money to the old man and let him piggyback. Deng Cheng took a step back and said.
"Even our little money is not enough to stuff our teeth. I was embarrassed to open my mouth. Second Sister Lin leaned on the head of the bed, "Just to see the world, and then see what to bring back? โ
Deng Cheng glanced at Second Sister Lin's stomach, "That's okay." You brothers and sisters, presumably your brother will not hide it from you. Otherwise, I'll go. โ
Second Sister Lin frowned, "I said, why are you like this? Is my brother like that?"
"Just kidding! Just kidding! Why are you still serious?" Deng Cheng turned over, "Anyway, it's true that your family has always been dissatisfied with my family conditions." โ
Second Sister Lin fell asleep and said, "It's still worse than the eldest brother-in-law." The eldest brother-in-law needs half of his salary to support his younger brother. But the younger brother is also promising, and one of them will be admitted to college this year. It's better in the future, and I definitely can't forget to be a brother. What about our family? Don't be a fool. I just got married, and I don't want to make a fuss too ugly. Your old lady always reaches out to ask for money, do you think it is safest for her to save money? She thinks that my daughter-in-law here is extravagant, and she lives close to her mother's family, so she must provide subsidies to her mother's family. Isn't it? Ask for money in a different way, and then save it in your hands, and then give it to you secretly in the future. I'm afraid that my daughter-in-law is too powerful to give you pocket money. If it weren't for the fact that the old lady really only has one son, she would only favor you in her heart. I wouldn't be so talkative. I've even given you face three times. In the future, don't think about it. The old lady can make a fuss with her as much as she likes. I'm not used to her stinky problems. โ
Deng Cheng sat up all of a sudden, "How do you speak? That's my mother." Isn't filial piety supposed to be? She doesn't spend any money on her, she saves it all for us. What opens and closes the mouth is a stinky problem, and it is unpleasant to hear. โ
"It's not that I said ......," Second Sister Lin frowned, "It's not that the old lady is facing us, I can get used to her." Your sister, with your sister, your old lady simply treats her daughter as an enemy. If my parents had treated me like this, we would have a comfortable life now. Look at the old lady's meanness, as if your sister and your sister were not the flesh that fell from their bodies. Marry your sister to a lame man and exchange it for food. Marry your sister to a half-fool......" she was angry at the mention of this, "did you get this place in college for your sister." โ
Second Sister Lin mentioned this, and she really regretted it to death. Although she knew that his family was poor, she didn't know the root of this. Now that I'm married, I slowly realize that something is wrong. Her sister's husband's family was the head of the commune. Sixteen-year-old watery girl, given to fools. You don't have to think about it, you know how greasy it is.
She felt that Deng Cheng was ruthless!
This is something that Second Sister Lin only discovered after marriage.
She really has no place to talk about her suffering. The marriage was chosen by herself.
Deng Cheng's face was ugly, the green tendons on his face collapsed, and he suddenly got up and said, "He, mom, I didn't know about my little sister in advance." โ
Second Sister Lin was taken aback, "What are you doing?"
"Although I want to get ahead, I haven't dirtily changed my future with my little sister. Deng Cheng covered his head, "So, I have to have a chance, I have to stay in the city." I have to tell that family bastard not to bully my little sister. He glared at Second Sister Lin, "What do you know? What do you people who have never suffered or suffered sin understand? It's not that my mother is ruthless, but that without the food that my eldest sister has exchanged, the whole family will have to starve to death." If you don't give me a change in my future, my family can't bear those people either...... They want to harm people, and there are many ways...... It's not that my mother is ruthless! Is there really no way...... Therefore, I have to establish myself in the city, I have to have a good life, so that others have scruples, and I will never dare to bully people again. โ
At this time, no matter what you do in the capital. For people in small places, they just stayed in the capital. In their hearts there is awe.
Second Sister Lin didn't know what mood she was in at the moment. suddenly felt that he agreed to the marriage, not because he liked himself, but because he liked his status as a college student, he also liked the fact that his family was in the city.
Although she didn't have much extravagance at the beginning, thinking how much he would like her, but now facing reality, she is still a little sad.
became a marry, married a couple. It's as if life isn't what I imagined.
The next day, I wanted to go to Lin Yuting to talk about going south with him. As soon as I entered the yard, I saw three children playing in the yard, and Lin Yutong and his wife were sitting in the shade, talking next to each other.
Lin Yutong peeled the melon, cut off a small piece and fed it to the fourth master's mouth. The fourth master opened his mouth to eat while flipping through the book.
"Is it sweet?" Lin Yutong asked in a low voice.
The fourth master nodded, "Sweet." โ
"I'm the best at picking fruit. Women who can pick fruit will pick men. Lin Yutong smiled childishly.
The fourth master nodded, "This is a compliment to me." โ
"I just heard it. Lin Yutong smiled and fed him another piece.
When the three children saw this, they all pounced, and called with their mouths open like little sparrows waiting to be fed.
Lin Yutong fed a piece of it alone, and then ran to the side to play again.
Second Sister Lin had some envy in her eyes, this is a husband and wife.
She came in and smiled, "The children are so old and so tired." โ
Lin Yutong stood up with a smile and handed over a piece of melon, "Taste it, it's really sweet." โ
Second Sister Lin took it and went to the house, "Come in, let's talk." โ
Lin Yutong put the fruit plate aside for the fourth master, and pointed at the child again, "Look at it more." โ
Entering the house, Lin Yutong saw that Second Sister Lin's eyes were a little swollen and asked, "What's wrong? Mom and Dad's eyes are swollen, and your eyes are swollen too. The old man has made money, why can't everyone sleep?"
Second Sister Lin looked at the fourth master outside through the curtain and asked, "You have been married for a few years, how are you doing?"
This is inexplicable.
"Doesn't I seem to have a good time?" Lin Yutong smiled, "It's nice to have someone with you." What's wrong? You had a fight with your brother-in-law?"
Second Sister Lin didn't speak, "I just feel tired." "I feel tired every day.
"Getting married and living a life can't be compared to when you fell in love. Lin Yutong smiled and said, "Firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea are all trivial matters." However, โกโก, it can be inclusive. Take a step back, and there is nothing that cannot be overcome. Second sister, don't be blindly strong. โ
Isn't that the problem? It is precisely because neither of them loves each other, but chooses each other's conditions rationally. I feel that I have met my needs in one aspect of my own needs, and I am combined.
Therefore, tolerance becomes forbearance, and humility becomes compromise. Every contradiction and conflict makes people physically and mentally exhausted.
Deng Cheng is not a bad person, but he has some low self-esteem and some caution. The disparity in the family made him lack confidence, a little sensitive, and used to thinking too much, for fear that something would be inappropriate.
But it is precisely this difference that makes people feel that getting along with him is really tiring.