407 Educational Philosophy

The baby had a conflict with other children in kindergarten, which seemed to be a big deal for Zhang Dawei and Melissa. For them, it is a matter of children, so naturally there is no such thing as a trivial matter, of course, they care very much.

Obviously, it's not just them who think so, but also Angela's parents, who had a conflict with the baby.

The parents of both sides have gone to kindergarten, not to say that they have to fight for their children. It's because everyone wants to find a solution, a solution that can solve the children's conflicts.

"We only have one child, and we are parents for the first time. So we have a bit of a pampering for her, and my child has always been a bit introverted and she doesn't like to play with other children. Jamie and I were so distressed that we tried to get her out of the house countless times, exposing her to some outdoor sports and camping, but it always worked well. ”

Courtney is very distressed, and now she is spitting out her bitterness, and it seems that raising a child is really uneasy and has a headache.

Raising a child is never a simple matter, and Zhang Dawei and Melissa also feel this way. But fortunately, their baby daughter is very smart and obedient, even if she is really naughty and playful at times, but in general she is still a good child with peace of mind.

"I think you can consider finding her a partner, if she's lonely right now, she doesn't know how to get along with the other children right now. You can give her a dog or a pet rabbit, and I'm sure that will help her learn to get along better with other children. ”

Jamie sighed and said worriedly, "But Angela is so crying, and Courtney and I gave her some false consciousness when she was a baby. She's a little egotistical now, and she thinks that crying is the solution. I know she's kind and innocent, and we think there are times when we need to communicate with her. But we can't do it, we love her so much. ”

Zhang Dawei and Melissa had nothing to say, because they knew that Angela's parents had such a mentality, which was a normal thing. Many children have some personality defects, which are likely to be due to the influence of their parents or the education of their families.

There is nothing to say about such a thing, not necessarily even if the family's economic conditions are better, or the parents' education level is relatively high, which means that the child's family education is successful.

For example, this Angela, her parents both have good jobs and the family has good economic conditions. However, her parents are indeed too spoiled for their children. As a result, it naturally made Angela have the character of a little princess, saying that she is a little princess, but in fact, even if she has some little princess diseases, she is a little self-centered.

What kind of education is other people's children, Zhang Dawei and Melissa don't plan to intervene more, others don't necessarily appreciate it, and they are asking for trouble. Now that they know what the situation is, Zhang Dawei and Melissa have some ideas.

Now that I know Angela's family situation, I know some of the attitudes of her parents. Then it's good to know in your heart, since Angela's parents' side has a bigger problem, then it will depend on how the baby deals with the problem with Angela in the future.

Sometimes, even if this is the case, the children's problems are left to the children to solve. Although I think Angela is likely to be spoiled by her parents, it is not absolute, and in a spoiled environment, children may also learn to get along with others at school and in interpersonal interactions, and it is very likely that they will slowly become sensible.

In fact, the communication and communication between parents is relatively smooth, and they do not take their children's conflicts too seriously. At best, he can be regarded as a person with some quality, at most, even if he is slightly different in the child's educational philosophy.

"Fortunately, there is no problem with our education, and I think the children's education should not be too spoiled. I'll admit that we do spoil her a little too much when it comes to her education. But our children are not spoiled by this, and if we are like Angela's parents, if our children are not so smart, maybe the baby will be a little squeamish. ”

Hearing Melissa say this, Zhang Dawei also agreed with this statement, "I think so too, although our baby is very good, although she is very sensible." But we can't be careless, once she develops some bad habits, it may be a lifelong thing, and it is difficult to change. So Merry, we need to think about this seriously. ”

Even if you learn some experience and lessons from your peers, you can also learn from your peers, and you can naturally find your own points and shortcomings better if you have such a horizontal contrast, which is a good time to absorb nutrients.

The two of them are communicating seriously, they are proud of their education, and of course they are proud of having such a lovely baby daughter. The reason is that I naturally think that the education is better, and the baby is really good.

"I think the baby is so good, in addition to the fact that she is very smart, I think the most important thing is that she does not lack companionship. Melissa began to analyze carefully, and she would be proud. "In addition to you and me, I think the presence of Xiaobai and Pooh has made the baby develop good habits at a very young age. She is used to sharing, to taking care of each other, to protecting each other. ”

This must be admitted, Zhang Dawei certainly agrees with this statement, "I think so too, our baby is indeed like this." She has been with Xiaobai since she was very young, although they do have conflicts at times. But the baby has learned to deal with such situations, and it is important that she gets used to solving and communicating. ”

In getting along, communication is naturally extremely important, the baby is a very good person in this regard, although at the beginning she has less contact with people, but it does not necessarily mean that the baby lacks the object of communication.

In fact, the baby is doing a very good job at this point, because of the existence of Xiaobai and Pooh, so that the baby can grow up and play together with a group of good friends of the same age. Although the identity of these good friends is a bit special, the thing that must be admitted is that these little guys are together, learn to get along and communicate.

Angela's child was spoiled by her parents, including the child's introversion and little princess disease, which was no problem, because it was someone else's child, and Zhang Dawei and Melissa were not so great and eventful. For them, taking care of their children is the most important thing.

So the baby had a conflict with other children in the kindergarten, and Zhang Dawei and Melissa attached great importance to it. This matter will continue to be paid attention to, but it is more important to do your own education!

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