Chapter 9 Nine: Strength Matters

"Good evening everyone, today is Saturday, I said before that there is an email puzzle session tonight, and it was quite tense to do this session for the first time...... Don't tell you the truth.,Actually, there are still people who are disgusted by this.,Say I'm a game anchor who can't broadcast your game well.,What are you doing with these things.,I just like to watch you play games.,Instead of listening to you read emails and chat with people....."

"There is still not a high level of attention to psychology in China, and there are very few universities that have psychology courses, but when I was in college, the data obtained through the school database and through the statistics of local hospitals and police stations showed that the proportion of people suffering from mental illness in the country has reached 9.7%, which means that 1 in 10 people suffer from mental illness. The proportion is even higher in first-tier cities. “

"You may know about depression, obsessive-compulsive disorder and other mental illnesses through TV news or popular science videos, but do you know what depression looks like and how harmful depression is? I just want to say that about 15% of those who suffer from major depression will choose to commit suicide. ”

"Oh, really?" "I have a friend who has depression and is having a very painful time, and I believe in what God said. "Trembling~" "So how can I prevent it?" "Let's play the game, it's boring." "What are you talking about, don't play games to get off. ”

"Mental illness is a problem that modern society should pay attention to, but whether it is relevant experts, or even the people themselves do not pay much attention to it, this is a major problem that cannot be ignored by the whole society, and I happen to have professional knowledge in this area, and I take one night a week to help people solve psychological problems in my live broadcast room, I think it is a very meaningful thing, through my live broadcast room to help some people, although I may have so many people, but I think this is still helpful to the society. And through the observation of the audience in the past few days, I think we at 66521 still attach great importance to this kind of issue, and everyone is very active in participating, so thank you very much for your support...... Thank you Bear for 520 ice creams, thank you White Fox for 6 bottles of red wine. ”

"As for those who send spam, or oppose in the live broadcast room, I understand, because you have your choice, and I also have my choice, those who say that it will be closed, then I can't force you to stay, I hope you can find your own entertainment and lifestyle, and you are welcome to come back to my live broadcast room to watch me play games, so without further ado, start our first email right away. ”

From FoxABC:

Hello Circle God, I like to watch your live broadcast very much, because I think your live broadcast is different from other people's, it's just a clear stream, there are not a lot of fancy, pure technical anchors, I personally also play the console, and I also bought "Blood Origin", and it was extremely painful when I played by myself, but when I watched you play, it was like a walking simulator, and I admired you.

The above is the truth, and there is no meaning of sycophancy. I have a work question I want to ask you, yes, I am an ordinary college graduate, after graduation directly into the company of relatives' home to work, a few months later became a small head of the department, my relatives said that this job is very easy, usually sit in the office and look at the computer, go to the subordinates every day to go around, and do not need any technical skills, because you are their supervisor, and my relative, there is no need for any pressure at all.

But when I went to work, I found that it was not like this at all, although it was very easy to go to work, but I felt that I was out of this department, and they showed great respect for me, in fact, because of my identity, there was a person who resigned and said "waste can be in charge, this company will collapse sooner or later" , I think he's talking about me, but I've tried my best to go to work, go to and from work on time every day, work overtime with them, buy them food, invite them to eat, but I don't think these are useful at all, I haven't slept well for months, I've been thinking about what I should do, please help me analyze it.

"Okay, thank you very much for the fan's letter, although I have a little doubt about what he said, 'not a lot of fancy', does this mean that I don't have anything else to do just playing games?

"No, no, it's a pleasure to be able to watch the game of the circle god every day. "The circle god sings and learns to meow. "Can the gods of the circle dance? ”

"Okay, okay, the previous is just a joke, let's analyze the problems of this friend: first, he feels that he can't fit into the group and feels anxious, and second, he mentions the word 'supervisor' several times, indicating that he has doubts about whether this position is suitable for him. ”

"Please put yourself in the role of your employees, do you have any respect for this supervisor, or treat him as your boss, please raise your hand?"

"Indeed, the supervisor who was parachuted in did not have much work experience and did not understand the technology, although he said that he was a relative of the boss, it was okay to pretend to be, and it was impossible to respect him. "Yes, I'll have an opinion on him too. "I've only been in charge for a few months, have you done anything outstanding? Why do you obey you without me, you can only rely on the person in the top position, you can be respected on the surface, but when you don't have a line, you don't treat you as a human ...... at all."

"Through everyone's words, you can roughly refine a word, 'strength', right, is your own strength enough? You can ask yourself, can my strength make me qualified for this position, you are the leader of the department, do you think you have this ability? Can you solve the problem when an accident occurs, or can you lead everyone to overcome this problem, maybe you have a very strong technical staff under your command, you don't need to take care of technical matters, so do you have the ability to deal with departmental interpersonal relationships and arrange business plans? Everyone has their own opinions, but the bottom line is that you don't have the ability to sit in this position. So to solve this problem, first, don't be a supervisor, go back to the basic employees and slowly start up, and when you think you can do it, you are asking your relatives, and second, learn more from the heads of various departments, or temporarily follow them to see how they work, learn a little bit every day, and slowly everyone's image of you will change. Learning is a lifelong process, and you should never feel like you don't need to study anymore. “

"Strength is very important no matter where you are, this is your bargaining chip, and it is the basis for whether you can gain self-esteem and respect from others, for example, if I open a live broadcast room to play games in the name of a game anchor, sing and chat, but the game is very poor, I die at every turn, and I am full of swearing, what do you think will become of this live broadcast room? If the anchor dies, will you mock him, if I swear every day during the live broadcast, what will the audience's barrage look like, not to mention that it will cause disgust to others and have a bad impact on the children and teenagers watching the live broadcast, when the time comes, the screen will be full of anchor good food, waste, you still deserve to play games, etc., and the screen is full of swearing, what will this live broadcast room make people think?"

"Everyone sees that I play "Bloodborne" very well, and I am very chic when I fight the boss, but do you know that I have cleared the blood source at least 10 times, and each boss has been beaten more than 10 times, and those that are difficult have even been beaten forty or fifty times, so that everyone can see the results of this anchor playing blood source very well. Everyone saw that I didn't die once in this process, but do you know that I died hundreds of times when I practiced offline, this is the strength I only gained after hard work, I read the description of the item very carefully when I played "Bloodborne", and I checked a lot of information on the Internet, so everyone thinks that my game is very exciting. ”

"I am convinced of the god of the circle, the best dedicated anchor of the year. "Circle, I love you" "But I've also fought more than 10 bosses, why can you fight so smoothly, I still can't get by?" "66521 Niu B, Circle Divine Cow B" The white fox gave 66 steaks......