Chapter 114: Toast
"Uncle Qin, I can warn you not to toast, not to eat, to eat and drink."
Miss Zhao's face now showed a feeling of surprise, and the corners of her mouth continued to twitch, as if she was very angry
"Have you figured out the situation now, this current problem has nothing to do with money at all, do you want to become an enemy of our entire family because of this little scary in front of you?"
"Isn't there some contradiction in what you say? Isn't it true that before I said it, our two families had already become opposites?"
When Uncle Qin said this, his expression was also very indifferent, and the two of them looked like they were going toe-for-tat like this, indeed, because the two families only had these enemies before, and now in this city, there are certain disputes over the interests of the two families, although the two families have not directly torn their faces, but at least they are in a state of competition with each other
It's like today's-for-tat situation, so the resentment of the two families may be on the verge of breaking out in this place, and these frightened people in the house seem to have something wrong with the state in front of them, so after looking at each other a few times, they all walked over to their eldest lady and began to persuade
"Miss, I think we should take a long-term view of this matter, don't be too impulsive, and our team leader hasn't come back yet, if you offend their entire family because of such a scary thing in front of you, the two families will definitely lose both, wouldn't there be some gains outweigh the losses?"
There is a very frightened look in the eyes of the frightened people now, because they know very well in their hearts that if this matter cannot stop Brother Gang, then a big war may break out at once, their eyes look in this direction of Lin Wu from time to time, and there seems to be something else in their eyes.
"Crooked looking at the phone in bed addiction that kind of dependence is almost exactly the same, you say that there is no damage to the body, a lot of people are under the bright light, instead of being forced to look at the phone in this dark light, young people, do you know how much that hurts the macula of your eyes?"
It's easy to be blind, that is, it will cause a lot of physical trouble, and many people will be bald because they don't sleep at night because of their mobile phones, and children still hold mobile phones. There are many trees that have been transferred to the well, some have been in a car accident, and some do you know about this Marvel movie.
"He is obviously the world's leading brain master, how did he lose his hands that can perform surgery? He drove on a winding road in heavy rain without looking at his mobile phone, and suddenly the car overturned. Phones are not a bad thing. It's like some software, but if your personal willpower is too low, you can't become the owner of the phone, but are controlled by the phone. ”
Then you may be finished, you can't blame the phone for anything, a smart person and a person with strong willpower, he will control the relationship between himself and the phone very well, I think when it is to look up the information or when I want to make a call, then I will use the phone to take a look, and then I will put it there.
I would never say how many times I would pull my phone out when I was working or I had this critical task, or something more important, and I would see it when I went out to eat.
"It's obvious that it's a couple, isn't it good for a couple to eat at the table, when the two of them look at each other and look at their mobile phones, what are you doing face-to-face except for eating, and sometimes when I go out on vacation, I also find that everyone is lying on the beach in a tourist resort looking at their mobile phones, and they can watch it at home, why do you have to run so far to see it?"
Why do you look at your mobile phone when you go abroad, that's this kind of dependence, and now it's a more test of people's willpower, are your willpower strong? Can you be your own master, there are too many things that want to control us, bad temper and emotions to control work will lead me by the nose, and now there is a bigger family of harm killers are uncontrollable mobile phone addiction. 187
"When your eyes and your body power turn on the red light, you will know that my way is not right, maybe it will really be when the family is about to break up because of this, and your other half has opinions on you, you will know God, it turns out that my lack of willpower will cause such a big disaster. Strive to be your own master, friends, don't let anything become a killer that hurts you, I hurt your family and friendship"
So all of us, I really think it's important not to let the mobile phone become a third party in your intimate relationship, such a toxin that destroys your family, and I also want to say what kind of person is controlled by the mobile phone. First of all, of course, the first is the lack of willpower.
"The second is that people with a relatively low level tell me that this level is relatively low, that may be from all aspects, this index and quality, to measure such a point, you don't know how to arrange your life, I don't know how to measure, I don't know how to deal with the relationship in marriage, I won't deal with the relationship between me and my husband or I and my wife, I really don't know what proportion is when I deal with the relationship between me and the mobile phone. ”
I don't know what the severity is, so this is called a low level should communicate with the family and should be with the family, when enjoying the family, I gave all my time to the mobile phone, you don't know where to turn the elbow, is there a level.
"What is my empty life, it is because I live an empty life, I will not be like other smarter people, I have absorbed useful things, I am attached to fitness and exercise, I am attached to public welfare activities, I am attached to swimming in the ocean of knowledge with my children, exchanging ideas with my partner"
Communicate life, then talk about our views on work, promote each other and improve these, I don't have these skills, I don't have this ability, I am very empty, so I place my affection on the mobile phone, which is a low-level performance, controlled by the mobile phone, because there are many more meaningful things you need to do.
You have given all your energy and good youth to your mobile phone, and you can take your battery every day because we have a battery on our phone, right?
"There's also this content occupation and memory occupation.,You can take a look at what you do every day, and what you do with your mobile phone the most.,And some people find out,I use short videos to watch short videos.,At most, you can think carefully about whether you use it to say that it's against watching videos, it's a big idea, and some short videos are really good.。 What do you think you're getting out of it?"
What you get is very superficial, a very superficial, a kind of sensory pleasure, and what is that kind of thing called dopamine that controls your brain, dopamine is such a thing, in fact, she is very magical, and he is not easy to deal with, once you enter your brain area, let you feel that dopamine is to make people happy, such a thing is in the brain, it is a kind of neurocin, so it is not accurate to say that if you taste this pleasure, you will keep wanting to use this method.
"Is there any benefit to the improvement of life and personal growth? Is there any benefit to the harmony and happiness of the family, the health of the child, and the good development? You will find that there is none, but why can you indulge in this and make you feel a very superficial or shallow kind of pleasure?"
You find that two or three hours pass in one fell swoop. Some people say that it is not easy to see a young man holding a book in the subway, and I hope that in the future of the treasure, we can often see it, or when registering in the hospital, or in the subway, I hope to be able to see more young people holding books, reading or holding e-paper books to see less useless things, because I can't control myself to be controlled by the mobile phone.
It's hard to climb up a girl who jumps down, I'm sorry, but what do I mean by saying this to you, not just to you? I said I want you to put this passage to you, if your husband is not too disgusted, if you can, I don't know what he has, whether he can understand or accept this statement, because at that time it was from a third party after all, you may not take it, but if he hates me very much, he may not be convinced, but after all, I am a melon eater.
"If he can listen to it, he can listen to it, which means that he just likes to put his spirit in that mobile phone, I feel that his temper and personality are more introverted, and the feeling that he can't say can be realized in the mobile phone as a whole. ”
I said in it that I like to indulge in my mobile phone, I put my spiritual world in it, and then I feel that I can succeed in it, and I feel that the safe zone I received is like this, you know that this is the practice and experience of the weak, and this world belongs to the strong. It's no secret that it's an underdog experience. What can be done?
"I want to change the sentence. What you can do is change yourself, I understand very well that what you are talking about is that he realizes his ideas in his mobile phone, what can you do? I have something to say, don't control it, don't quarrel with him, don't increase your mutual disgust, because controlling him and arguing will not solve any problems, it will make you further and further apart, if you still want to save your life, your youngest son is just eight months old, don't quarrel, don't control him, then I don't ask of him?"