"When I read this email, I think this girl is not easy, in my country, homosexuality is still not accepted by most people, and it will be subjected to cold violence in society This world also exists, don't look at the current boys who put the word 'ji' on their lips, girls call each other husbands and wives, and regard the usually more intimate actions as engaging in concentric love. This is far, far from real homosexuality, and the state of mind and behavior is completely different. I have a lot of sympathy for this girl. So let's analyze the reasons for the formation of homosexuality from a psychological perspective and what we should do to homosexuals. ”

"Many countries in the world, they have recognized the legalization of homosexuality a few years ago, even decades ago, such as Denmark, the Netherlands, France, the United States, Canada and other countries, you will find that these countries are called developed countries by the international community, developed and underdeveloped is not the point, the point is that these countries attach great importance to psychology, I also said before that our country's psychology is still in the development stage. Psychology can also analyze the reasons for the formation of homosexuality from the perspective of behavior and spirit, which is also one of the reasons why China is not friendly to homosexuals. Because only when everyone understands the reasons for the formation, everyone will naturally understand those homosexuals. ”

"Before psychologists conducted research on homosexuality, it was generally accepted that the 'genetic theory' could make it easier for homosexuals to accept themselves, and they could convince themselves that homosexuality was not their own reason, that they could not resist it, that it was innate. ”

Later, psychologists began to study the causes of homosexuality, explaining the causes of homosexuality through investigations such as psychoanalysis and behavioral support. First, from the perspective of psychoanalysis, Freud, the father of psychology, believed that everyone had a period of worship of the opposite sex when they were young, such as sons like their mothers, daughters are closer to their fathers, and you can recall whether this is what it was like when you were a child, and the period of childhood was generally 3-5 years old, and it is obvious that the key period of psychological development of this girl was not with her father, but with her mother...... The result of this is that she has no object of worship of the opposite sex. ”

"From the perspective of behavioral support, the departure of her father when she was a child had a certain impact on her psychological development, but whether it is from the genetic level or the social environment, reproduction must be through the opposite sex is still the mainstream, because our genes can be inherited from many years ago to the present is because we regard reproduction as the primary goal, which we cannot resist. After the investigation and research of psychologists, it was found that the formation process of homosexuality is a process of adaptation, because she has been hurt by a man, she has a period of frustration with the opposite sex, and that frustration forms a process of punishment, and the company of her best friend who allows her to readjust to society makes her feel happy, which is a process of reward. The girl's behavior with her ex-boyfriend and girlfriend made her feel in her heart that she would be punished for being with a man and rewarded for being with a woman. People want to be rewarded. ”

"There are also explanations for the formation of homosexuality from the genetic level and physiological point of view, but those theories are relatively not very mature, and everyone has heard of them. I don't know if you have noticed that if you are surrounded by homosexual people, you will find that they are relatively prettier and handsome after observing their characteristics, and after analysis, psychologists have found that they all generally carry this gene fragment. I received a photo of the girl and her best friend in the email, both of whom are very beautiful, which just confirms this statement. ”

"From the above theories and research, we can find out that the reason why a girl is called homosexual? When she was young, her parents divorced and she was powerless, and she had to suffer a lot, and the deception when she grew up hurt her even more, and when she helped her, a girl, so she became a homosexual, so is it this girl or someone else who is at fault? When you know these reasons, will you still discriminate or deliberately alienate her? Can you understand her?"

"I believe in the circle god, I really believe it, when I was young, I liked my mother very much for a while, and when I grew up a little, I didn't do this, I thought I had it. "Poor girl touches her head" "It seems to make a lot of sense, the circle god is amazing, and she really deserves to be a professional!"

"From the perspective of developmental psychology, all kinds of things that happen when we are young have a great impact on the improvement and development of the mind, although genes affect some of our thinking and behavior, but it is not a major factor for the development of the mind. What kind of person he will become in the end is closely related to his experience, so I can fully understand the girl and wish them happiness. ”

"In addition, I would like to say to you please don't think that psychology is a pseudoscience, every study of psychology needs to go through the analysis and investigation of many samples, and it is inseparable from the help of modern science, you can think about it, in the past thousands of years, there is no such thing as psychology, until the development of modern science and technology has led to the progress of medical technology that people can study a person from the most fundamental point of view, which gave birth to psychology, and in the past 100 years it has developed so fast, it can be said that there is no psychology without the support of science and technology......“

"As for what to do, I don't think it's the best way to hide it, as you get older, if you don't marry a man, your mother will definitely be suspicious, and then you will have to face a choice. Of course, you can't have a direct showdown with your mother, according to your current state of mind and the general prejudice against homosexuals in society, you and your mother may have a rift. If you believe me, please send me your mother's contact information, at least I still have the title of Doctor of Psychology. I'd love to be a buffer between you, and I'd ask my teacher to help me, and I'm sure she's interested in doing the same, because it's a very rewarding thing. Even if you can't get your mother to accept your other half, at least it won't break off the relationship between your mother and daughter. I believe that after a few years or so, your mother will gradually understand you, and maybe this society will become more tolerant. “

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"A wonderful psychology lesson, thank you!" "I've already bought an introductory reference to psychology, and I think it's quite interesting." "From last week to this week, I feel like I've learned a lot, and I should let more people see the live broadcast of the circle gods. "I understand, I understand them, and try not to alienate them. ”