312 And there is a way to learn from it
"Honey, you should be a role model for your baby, you can't always look like this without trying. Melissa looked at Zhang Dawei with hatred, and said seriously, "Look at the baby's performance, she is as good as you." You can all achieve easy success, but you don't work hard. ”
Zhang Dawei said 'um', but no matter how you look at it, it's a perfunctory attitude.
What made Melissa even more helpless was naturally Zhang Dawei's performance. When it was so serious, Zhang Dawei's perfunctory answer was forgotten, the key was that the groping pig hand was still so dishonest, and he still drilled into her pajamas at this time.
"I think babies are influenced by you, because you can succeed easily, so you always think that you don't need to put in enthusiasm and focus. Holding down Zhang Dawei's troubled hand, Melissa analyzed seriously, "Honey, don't you think this is a bad performance? Sweetheart is still very young, but she already has such an attitude." ”
is a little embarrassed, naturally because Zhang Dawei feels that the baby has indeed been affected by him.
Naturally, the learning attitude does not need to be correct, and there is no need to work so hard, anyway, the final result will definitely be satisfactory.
"I think it's good that the baby is happy, although I am also helpless about her lack of a proper attitude towards learning. Zhang Dawei smiled bitterly, but also said seriously, "I think this matter really needs to be taken seriously, and our child can choose what she likes." I don't think she needs to be a scientist or get into the best universities, but she does need a learning attitude. ”
Melissa nodded approvingly, she did have some of these thoughts.
Babies don't necessarily need to get into the best universities, or become amazing scientists, scholars, etc.
It's just that Zhang Dawei and Melissa also feel that the baby is really a waste of her talent now. This smart little girl really doesn't have a proper attitude towards learning, and she doesn't even have any intention of studying at all.
Playing and eating, this is almost all of a baby's life, and learning does seem too luxurious and distant for the baby.
"You see how your baby behaves, and if she studies well, she can easily learn a tune. But as you can see, she doesn't care about that. She just likes to do what she loves, and she plays the piano just out of interest. ”
Hearing Melissa say this, Zhang Dawei really smiled bitterly.
"Concerto of Love", Zhang Dawei is very serious and hard-working, and he is really working hard to memorize the score. It's a pity that the effect doesn't look very good, even if Zhang Dawei has a very upright attitude, but he has a headache when he sees the shop, and it's hard to remember.
And the baby, a three-year-old girl, can easily remember those, which makes Zhang Dawei completely embarrassed.
But the baby is a little guy who really has no enthusiasm for learning at all. What is interested, the baby's learning progress will be very good, and once you don't want to learn, it is basically a level of ignorance.
Seeing that Melissa was a little distressed, Zhang Dawei suddenly said with a big brain, "My dear, do you think that the baby has learned to pretend to be stupid? I think it is very likely that she must have learned to pretend to be stupid like Xiaobai!"
Even if she couldn't cry or laugh at the baby's learning attitude, she still couldn't listen to Zhang Dawei arranging the baby.
Melissa pinched Zhang Dawei angrily, which was a small punishment.
But Zhang Dawei didn't care, he still analyzed it seriously, "I think she must have been damaged by Xiaobai, because Xiaobai will hide it." Xiaobai is like this, he is very smart, but he is also very lazy. As long as it shows that it is not capable enough, it will be difficult for us to assign more tasks to it. The same is true for the baby, if the learning effect is not good, you can't force her to continue learning. ”
Hearing Zhang Dawei say this, Melissa subconsciously felt funny. But after being funny, I also fell into deep thought.
Because what Zhang Dawei said is really not unreasonable. Xiaobai is such a performance, that little guy is a smart and cunning effort to show a state of unbearable bravery.
Even if everyone in the family knows that Xiaobai is very powerful, this little guy still has such an attitude.
Xiaobai has to show his determination and ideas, that is, don't arrange tasks for Xiaobai unless it is absolutely necessary. Xiaobai's life should be eating, drinking and having fun, and Xiaobai should live a stress-free and relaxed life.
"Think about it, my dear. The baby is so smart, but she still can't count, she doesn't know how to read, and she can't even write her name. Zhang Dawei continued to open his mind and analyze carefully, "If it is in other children, I think this is more normal, of course, there are some children who have learned these at this age." But our baby, even better!"
Melissa thought about it carefully, and didn't care about Zhang Dawei's groping pig hands.
Because the baby's performance is really doubtful, every time she is given some children's literacy cards or a variety of preschool education pictures. Babies are impatient to run away, or perfunctory attitude...... I may have learned something, but I really don't care.
The learning atmosphere at home is really average, and it can also be said that the learning attitude at home is a big problem.
It can even be said that the upper beam is not correct and the lower beam is crooked, because Zhang Dawei's performance has become a good negative teaching material. Therefore, the smart baby and Xiaobai have the same kind of learning, they are all perfunctory learning attitudes, and they are all barely passing the test and think that everything is fine.
Zhang Dawei and Melissa were seriously discussing some things, and their brains were opening up such things. It is not necessarily completely brainy, there is also a high possibility that it is some reality, and it is also very likely to be based on facts.
The learning attitude of the baby and Xiaobai is really doubtful, these two little guys really have too much cleverness!
Even if the baby is still young, there are some things that can't be justified because of their young age. is also because Zhang Dawei and Melissa will be a little worried, the baby develops such a habit when he is young, and it is basically difficult to change it when he grows up.
Personality, although there are some innate factors. But more often than not, it is the growth and influence of the day after tomorrow.
I'm worried, because the smart baby is bad at learning, and because the family is full of 'talented' beings, but all of them are unmotivated, or all of them are some little slippery heads.
So Melissa is really worried that in such a growing environment, it is the most unrealistic for the baby to say that it is not affected!
Zhang Dawei also felt the pressure increasing, because he felt that he was very likely to have a huge black cauldron on his back.
Because in Melissa's opinion, Xiaobai must have learned the same, Xiaobai is so smart, and his current style is naturally because of Zhang Dawei's influence. With the existence of Zhang Dawei and Xiaobai, the baby must have been naturally taken into the ditch.
In this way, Zhang Dawei is naturally the culprit, such a huge pot, Zhang Dawei naturally has to carry it.
It can even be said that this incident is indeed caused by Zhang Dawei!