Gao Yuan and the principal walked out of the office, looked at the battle outside, and suddenly jumped, he didn't expect that he was just entering with Zhang Qiming to talk about donating to the school, and there were so many more people outside.

The entire Chinese University is overcrowded, with more than 100 reporters alone, not to mention some students from other universities, who spontaneously rushed to Chinese University when they heard that Gao Yuan came to give a speech.

Zhang Qiming looked at the situation in front of him, he was also a little confused, he never thought that there were so many people in his school, but the interview in front of the reporter is also a good thing, it can help the school to publicize, but there are too many people.

"Mr. Gao, this?"

Gao Yuan looked at Zhang Qiming and said, "Let's go to the big class." ”

Zhang Qiming nodded, the large classroom is a unique classroom in Chinese University, which can accommodate a full two thousand people.

Zhang Qiming began to arrange these matters, and Gao Yuan, under the protection of Jiang Tong and Gu Nannan, walked towards the big classroom.

Within five minutes of Gao Yuan's entry, it was soon full of people, most of whom were students, but of course some of the social elite.

Of course, the main thing is that there are a lot of journalists.

"Mr. Gao, may I ask ......?"

At this time, a reporter suddenly wanted to ask a question, but Gao Yuan waved his hand and directly interrupted the other party: "I'm sorry, I will speak first, if there is any problem, is it okay to ask after the speech?"

The young reporter was slightly embarrassed when he heard Gao Yuan's words, but Gao Yuan spoke quite tactfully, nodded and began to prepare.

Gao Yuan looked at the people below, this is a thousand people, but he is not timid, how many people are in the TT group, that is hundreds of thousands of people.

"Hello everyone, I'm Gao Yuan, this time I was invited by President Zhang, I came over, in fact, at the beginning, I was still more worried, after all, I am just a student who has just graduated from university, what can we tell you? What can I teach you?"

"I have to say, in fact, I thought a lot, not so much that I came to teach you, it is better to say that I just told some of my own experience, some lessons, and encouraged you. ”

"In this world, there are thousands of successful paths, but if you want to succeed, then you must cut thorns, and even some people are covered in injuries, and they may not have results, this road, you need to have enough perseverance and determination, just like Tang Seng, without experiencing nine hundred and eighty-one difficulties, can he become a Buddha?"

"I think it's mysterious. ”

Someone might ask me, ask me why I'm successful?

In fact, I don't have a clear answer to this question in my mind, but if I am lucky, it may be the best choice at the best time.

In fact, the shopping mall is a battlefield, one second you may be an immortal, a miracle in the business world, and the next second, you will become a loser.

There is no shortage of geniuses in this world, nor is there a shortage of geniuses who can be shaped, but whoever can have the last laugh will be the winner.

Okay, having said that, let's talk about something else.

In this society, I will say a few points, and I can also share my experience.

The first point of speaking skills, in the future, we all have to go out and enter the society, how can we get along with others?

How to win the favor of others, then speaking is a science.

[1] Praise and praise - when we talk and praise others, we generally do not do it in front of others, so that sometimes it seems very hypocritical, and we can convey our praise to her through others, such as in

When you say that another person is good in front of others, when this kind of praise reaches the ears of the other person, he will feel that you are sincere.

[2] Learn these three words - in fact, some basic polite words in the skills of speaking and communication are very important, you must learn to thank you, excuse me, sorry for these three words. If these three words are used well, they will give people a sense of maturity, stability and sincerity.

[3] Learn to appreciate the people you hate - this is not something that ordinary people can do, think about it, what problems can we solve if we hate others? So on the other hand, if you can look at the people you hate with appreciation, maybe you will not hate people, and then your relationship can improve.

[4] Remember the basic principle of three more and three less - three more is more praise, more praise, more praise. Three less is less nagging, less complaining, less criticism. This three more and three less are used well, but it is a great knowledge of dealing with people.

[5] At any time, under any circumstances, don't say things that find fault - when communicating with people, no matter if you are not old in your heart, or angry, don't say things that find faults, such as what you are doing wrong, what should you do, etc.

[6] Get rid of the three faults -- when talking to people, we should get rid of the stinky faults of questioning, making things difficult, and asking rhetorical questions. These three problems play a very bad role in communicating with others, making others feel very bad, so they must be corrected in order to improve their speaking level.

[7] Ask less details about the other party - in fact, when communicating with others, when speaking, many words are exaggerated, if you ask the details of the other party, the matter may be exposed, which makes the other party ugly, so when talking to others, try to ask the other party less, very detailed details.

[8] Don't feel that you're important—for example, if you've met someone once, and then you see someone again, you'll always say, "Can you remember who I am?" Do you know me, and so on.

As for the second point, it is to be a pragmatic, down-to-earth, and sincere person.

Sincerity and steadfastness are the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. The art of being a man is ever-changing, and the fundamental way is to have a square and a circle, adhere to the principle, and treat it with an honest heart, because honesty is the foundation of life.

There is a story that the company once held a joint event with a newspaper. The prize is a Goldlion tie.

After the event, a female reporter surnamed Luo, who was in charge of distributing the gifts, handed back the remaining three ties to the company. This little thing moved Zeng Xianzi, the president of Menglilai Company. A few years later, the company fully entered the mainland market and established a branch. When hiring managers, Mr. Tsang first thought of the journalist...... "Truth, integrity, fairness and nobility are inseparable," and a well-known American politician wrote to his son, "Lies come from meanness, vanity, cowardice, and moral corruption." Lies are eventually exposed, and liars are despised. Without integrity, fairness, and nobility, no one can achieve real success and earn the respect of others. Sooner or later, the liar will be discovered, even sooner than he himself thinks. Your true character will be known and you will be judged fairly.

When a person tells a lie, he has to tell more lies. Before he repents, things will get bad. However, this is not the whole story. A person who tells a little lie will leave a spot in his character, like a small spot when a fruit has just begun to spoil. Once you allow yourself to tell a lie once, then you will find that you can easily tell a second lie. Soon, his way of dealing with the world was all

Steadfastness and honesty will be lost. Only by adhering to the principle of being honest will you really lay a good foundation for successful work.

Bang bang bang

The applause kept ranging, and Gao Yuan looked at everyone, just nodded slightly, and then took a sip of water, to be honest, he was really a little dry-mouthed, but the people below looked at him blankly, as if waiting for him to continue.

The third point is the knowledge of finding a job, that is, you must be clear about finding a job first and then choosing a job.

When it comes to choosing a job for recent college graduates, most students hope to be able to succeed at the first time, that is, they want to find a job from start to finish.

The ideal state is to find employment first rather than blindly choosing a career, because you may be hit a lot by focusing on choosing a career after graduating from university, and you also need more experience, and employment is also an indispensable preparation for future career choices.

Of course, coupled with the current employment pressure that cannot be ignored, what our graduating college students need is to be able to solve their work problems in a timely manner, rather than choosing a very good job.

In short, for recent college graduates, finding a job is a very profound knowledge, not that you can find a very ideal job casually, nor can you find a job that you can work for a lifetime. Because no one knows our future development, you can only get employed first, and then choose your own future development path according to your actual situation in the future, so that it may be more secure.

And if we don't find a job that we want, how do we choose?

Face the reality, don't talk about the big truth, your own future, grasp it yourself. When we pursue our ideals, we certainly cannot ignore practical issues. The most perfect thing is to be able to combine the ideal with the reality and find a job that you love the most.

When there is a disagreement between the ideal and the reality, you have to take three steps.

1. To face the reality, as long as you can get food and clothing and have a certain income, you can get material enjoyment from it.

2. Be realistic and do a job that you don't like the most. Do the work you don't like to do "good enough", and then talk about what ideals to chase.

3. Gradually realize your ideals, do the job you don't love the most, and work the job you don't love, earn enough money, solve the problem of eating, and then go to do the job you love the most.

Ideals and realities can be both. But you have to have a plan, you have to give, you have to be persistent. Three hundred and sixty lines, the line is the champion, so you can't say what work is good and what work is bad. Many people who make achievements actually start small, work hard, and then succeed. As long as you like a job, and the job is especially suitable for you, and can maximize your strengths, then it is a good job. I'm not much in favor of not getting a job if you can't find it.

Of course, it is good to be able to choose a job at the same time as employment, but it is difficult to choose a job at the same time as the employment situation is relatively severe. In this case, it is not necessarily a good thing to find a job first and then choose a job, in the process you will find that you have accumulated a lot of social experience, accumulated a lot of vocational skills, and now enterprises are more and more interested in experience. So gain experience first, which will also help you find a better job later.

Work, practice, save, develop yourself after certain conditions. It should be said that it is not easy to do any line, as long as you work hard, you can do it well, I wish you success.

Thunderous applause rang out continuously, and Gao Yuan looked at the crowd and nodded, smiling.

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