1842 Sympathy
They lie to get themselves out of this state of poverty, and then you give them money, and you feel like you're paying your compassion, you feel like you're a compassionate person, you think you're good, but that's not the case, and if you give them money, then it's clear that they're getting that money by deception. Yes, it's a means of deception, they don't really want to really work hard for their lives, and they don't have a good way to work hard for their lives. They always want to get something for nothing, and they always want to rely on deception to obtain the wealth of their lives.
So once you let them taste the sweetness, once you let them know that all the benefits can be obtained for not working, and all the benefits can be easily obtained for nothing, then obviously, they will not really become a hardworking person, then in fact, in this case, you are even harming them. Of course, it's none of your business here, because they are what kind of people they are. What kind of person they are is what kind of behavior, since they have such an behavior, it means that they don't really believe that there will be a reward if they give.
Everything seems to be like this, if you really have compassion for someone, if he can really feel this compassion, then what he shouldn't do is waste your compassion, what he shouldn't do is waste your compassion and make you really become a stupid person. Yes, if you give this compassion, then obviously he is taking you for a fool, he thinks he is really cheating on you, he thinks he is very good at thinking, he thinks he is very clever in his methods.
In the case of elephants, he actually has a little bit of sympathy, or he really does sympathize with elephants. Of course, for all people, they certainly don't sympathize with elephants if they don't see the real situation. If you list all the things that elephants have done, then all people actually hate elephants. If you just list the bad things he did, then it's clear that everyone is condemning the elephant. Because he didn't do anything good at all, because what he has been doing is bullying those weak people, bullying those weak people to show that he is strong, so at this time, it is obvious that no one will really sympathize with this elephant, but if you take out his whole environment, if you take out all the things he has done, all the things he has experienced, then I really want the elephant to be a little pitiful person. Of course, as the saying goes, there must be something hateful about the poor man. Obviously, the elephant is not a person to be pitied for sometimes, but in any case, he feels that the elephant is a person who can be saved.
To put it bluntly, he actually wants the elephant to change from a bad guy to a good guy. Yes, there will always be a lot of good people in this world, and there will always be a lot of good people in this world doing something. What he means here is to make the elephant change from a bad person to a good person, which is actually what he means to save. Of course, you can never say that you want to save a good person, because good people will always walk on the path of good people, all their thinking is good, all their ideas are good, they think they are a good person, so they should do what a good person should do, they think that a good person should think like this, even if they do things like this, even if they fall into a state of self-doubt, then obviously, even if you go to help him, you should not use the word salvation, you may need to use the word helpBecause they are good people because they have done a lot of things to help others, then at this time it is an experience of self-doubt, then obviously, even if you go to help him, you should not use the word save, you may need to use the word help, because they are good people because they have done a lot of things to help others, then at this time, you should give them respect you should make them feel your heart of help, so say. This is when you should help them.
But is it really the right thing to do to help a good person? Of course it's right, but is there a more correct way to do it, like he is now, like he decided to save the elephants. Yes, in fact, in his opinion, saving a bad person is more important than helping a good person, because if you really make a bad person better, then obviously the bad person will really become a good person, then the world will have one less bad person and more good people, so this effect is actually really twice the effect. Of course, it's not even just a doubling effect, or even a doubling effect.
The so-called making elephants better. Of course, it can't just be talked. At least in his opinion, if he can make elephants better, it is actually a long process. Yes, people say that people are always complex, people say that a person's thoughts are always complex, and people also say that a person's behavior is always complex, and for such a complex person, for such a complex situation, for such a complex behavior, then obviously, if you can make a bad person good, it's not a very simple thing.
Or maybe it's not an easy thing to do, but even if it's not an easy thing, even if it's a very difficult thing, he feels that he should still do it. Because everything is not simple, everything is not very easy, is it because this thing is not easy, just because this thing is not simple, don't do it? Obviously, no, he must save this elephant, because in his mind he feels that he should make this elephant his right-hand man, yes, he will definitely be unscrupulous in the future, but in the future he will definitely need a lot of help, then he will also need to find some like-minded people. Or find someone who can really be his helper.
Like-minded people are always hard to find, and in his current opinion, the elephant can never be a like-minded person for him. Because the elephant has lived in that kind of environment for the past ten years, in that environment, it is impossible for the elephant to have any common language with him. However, although the two people do not have a common language, although the two people are not really in tune, the elephant still does not affect being one of his assistants.
To make the elephant his assistant, it was clear that he needed to have a long, long way to go. Of course, there is a long, long way to go, as I have already said, in fact, there are even some abnormalities in the heart of elephants now. Of course, he had experienced so many oppressive environments before, and he had been suppressed by his boss for so long, so it was obvious that he would fall into a state of neurosis, of course, this state of neurosis was not very serious, and if it was serious, in fact, he would not have the idea of what he is now. He doesn't have the idea of saving the elephant anymore. If the elephant really turns into a neurotic person, then it is very important that the elephant needs not his salvation, but the doctor's rescue.
In fact, it is very simple to solve the current state of the elephant, that is, to let the elephant really release, so that the elephant feels that there is still hope in life, or let the elephant feel that there is still warmth in life, so what he actually needs to do is to give the elephant a chance, to provide a bigger platform for the elephant, so that the elephant can really start to compete with the boss behind his scenes, or he does not need to win in this kind of competition, he only needs to experience his own strength in this kind of competition, and realize that there is a strong him behind him, then it is actually enough。
Because in such an environment, a person does not have high requirements for the future, or he does not dare to have high requirements, after all, he feels as if he can no longer see the so-called warmth, the so-called sunshine. At this time, once you give him a glimmer of hope, then it is obvious that he will be truly grateful to Dade and really make his heart better.
Of course, this is only the first step, the second step is that he also needs to let this elephant really change his inner thoughts, so that his heart really feels that he should no longer bully those weak people. Yes, the elephant's previous life has actually been bullying those who are weak and bullying those who are weak, making them feel scared of themselves and making them feel like themselves. There is simply no way. Because this is his previous life, this is how he used to survive, but if this elephant wants to be his assistant, then it is clear that this elephant needs to be taken up a notch.
For all people, in fact, if they really want to improve their own level, improve their means, and improve their ideological awareness, then it is obvious that they need contract people to fight and compare with people of the same kind. Of course, in addition to comparing with the same kind of people, in addition to winning all the same kind of people and winning all the people of his same status, he even has to set his sights farther and set his sights higher.
He wants to learn from those who are higher than him, and learn how they think.