Chapter 917
Han Xiu looked very serious and said to Mu Jin, and she seemed to be very firm in such thoughts, and her heart had changed from her heart.
"You can think so, Han Xiu, I think you definitely feel that this life is not what you want by now, right?" said Mu Hibiscus, looking at him.
"Of course, I am very desperate to change my current life, since yesterday with what you told me, and the effect I have seen, I feel that I want to change this life situation now, I don't want to be trampled under the feet of these men and used like cattle and horses. β
"Han Xiu, listen to me, although we want to change this life, change this situation, and change the status of you women, but our thoughts must not be negative, we can't hate these men, in fact, these men are also because of these rules handed down by their ancestors, so they are like this, if they live outside, there are those living conditions outside to judge their habits and personalities, these men should not be too bad, so we don't have these hatred for menγ We don't want to try to trample them under our feet again, we want to change your living situation, but we don't want to turn this living situation around, we want to eliminate this situation directly, and it will never exist in your village, can you understand what I mean?"
"Mu Hibiscus, in fact, because he is afraid that Han Xiu has been oppressed by those men for a long time, so he has a grudge against them, and now his thoughts seem to be a little extreme and excited, in case he wants to turn over again, and also trample the men under his feet, if they are high, then this is not what they want to achieve. β
And after Han Xiu heard Mu Hibiscus's words, he was stunned for a moment, and then thought for a while.
"Do you mean to change only this way of our lives: to change the way we live outside of you? not to overthrow the men and make them trampled under their feet like we women, right?"
"Yes, that's right, that's what I mean, we can't be as unreasonable as those men, we can't be as pedantic as those men, they actually make mistakes, then we have to correct these mistakes for them, but we all have to get along well, we have to live in this village as developed as the outside, as rich as the outside, so that we can completely change these bad habits in your village, not to let this bad habits be converted to those men again. β
"I almost understand what you mean, although I do resent those men in my heart, but what you said is actually I can generally understand, you are really very kind, if it were me, I really want to let those men be trampled under our feet like us, let them try, but after listening to your persuasion, I also think that there is really no need for this, if it is really like this, then this village will only uphold this bad habit forever, but it is just converted to men or womenOnly by completely eradicating this habit from this village will this thing never happen again, right?"
"Yes, that's right, Han Xiu, you still look good, you can still understand what I mean, and you are indeed quite smart and can listen to persuasion, which shows that your heart is also very kind, and you can be reasonable, you are indeed a very good and excellent woman, if you can live outside of us, I think a woman of your age will definitely be able to make a career, and it will definitely be no worse than any man," Mu Hibiscus looked at him with great appreciation.
"Thank you, Hibiscus, since I met you, I have heard about life that I have never heard of, and I have met people like you, and my thoughts have indeed changed a lot, and I can also recognize what kind of person I am in my own heart, and I also know how capable I am, so I thank you for your appreciation, thank you for your compliment. β
"Han Xiu, you don't have to thank me so much, everyone is very good, God created us people, created us people of high wisdom, is to let us people of high wisdom to create a piece of heaven and earth, so each of us has a shining point, everyone is not mediocre, everyone has everyone's role, everyone has everyone's usefulness, so, your life will definitely get better and better in the future, but what I want is not just personal improvement, if you have this ability, or you can lead the whole village of those women to become better too." , I think it's not unreasonable for you to marry the patriarch as a wife, he is a patriarch, and his speech is very powerful in the village, and you are his wife for other women, your status is also slightly improved.
You see that your leadership skills are good, so it is not an accident that you marry the village chief, and it has a certain relationship, but, of course, marrying someone as old as the village chief can be your father, that must also make you unwilling, right? Since you don't want to, then this must also be changed, when the time comes, all women, if they don't want to marry their own man, can file for divorce, and those women outside us are the same, if they feel unhappy and inappropriate in their marriage, they can also file for divorce, and you can also have this right. β
"Really? Can I really divorce him? Does divorce mean that he will never have anything to do with me from now on, and he will not be my husband anymore?" Han Xiu looked a little excited, he seemed to be very reluctant about this patriarch.
"Of course, since you are divorced, then you have no relationship with each other, you are no longer his wife, he is no longer your husband, you have no relationship, and he does not have any right to let you do anything. β
"Hibiscus, after listening to your words now, I really want to divorce him immediately, I really want to stay away from this place immediately, away from that man, I really have stayed by his side enough, to be honest, marrying an older person, I really feel very reluctant and unconvinced, why should I marry an old man at such a young age? Although it has always been like this in our village, but as you said, every woman of ours has fantasies about love, we are still young now, marrying an old man of that age is definitely not the love we want, of course there is the love I imagined in my heart. β
"As long as our goal can be achieved, as long as we can do this thing well, as long as we can change this village, then none of this is impossible!" Mu Hibiscus said firmly.
"Okay, Hibiscus, I will definitely trust you very much, and I will definitely cooperate with you, don't worry, when I chatted with those women yesterday, I saw the joy of their chat, and I knew that they must be the same as me in their hearts, and they have been desperately wanting to change their living conditions, and they are eager to cry about the bitterness in their hearts, so you don't have to worry, I think this matter will come naturally." β
"Okay, Han Xiu, then I wish us a happy cooperation, and I also hope that you can encourage those women as soon as possible, so that their hearts can really change, so that they can agree to cooperate with us from the heart, and we will also develop tourism here as soon as possible, that is, let us people from outside travel here In this way, it will also bring some of our outside culture to you, because everyone wants to make money, there is money to make, so the patriarch is naturally willing, naturally agrees, and must have a certain tolerance for the living habits of those people outside us, so when the time comes." Over time, your village will be affected by the culture of those people outside, and it will change unconsciously, so that your rules will be broken unconsciously, so that in the end, when we really want to change, it will definitely be easier.
And unlike now, those men have always been firmly abiding by those rules in their hearts, and it will definitely not be easy to do it now, so Han Xiu, you must be patient, you must wait for the opportunity, you must not be impulsive, you must not publicize this matter, otherwise, if you let the patriarch know about this matter too early, he will definitely attack you, you must take care of the safety of you women, you know?" Mu Hibiscus said to him.
"Okay, I know what you mean, I will definitely do what you want, I will definitely take my time to persuade those women, and I will let those women keep all the secrets, I will not be too impulsive, and I will not think about impatience to do this, I know that our village has always adhered to such rules for generations, if it is said to change all at once, it is not possible, you can rest assured, I will definitely do what you want." β
It seems that Han Xiu also trusts Mu Hibiscus very much, and he also abides by his arrangements very much, to have a right-hand man like Han Xiu, and he is the wife of the patriarch, Mu Hibiscus feels that they can almost complete half of this matter.