553 The problem of protecting the short
Zhang Dawei is used to it, used to watching Xiaobai and them do evil at home, and used to these guys playing cards a little unreasonably. This is not because of Zhang Dawei's big heart, but the impact again and again has already exercised Zhang Dawei's big heart.
So this is also a good thing, at least Zhang Dawei is not as fuss as he used to be. He is now a person who has seen the world, he has experienced a lot of winds and waves, and he is considered to be well-informed, which is definitely some good things.
For example, Xiaobai jumped on the table and pushed the fruit box to the edge of the table. Pooh had already stood up and happily walked away with the fruit box. And Xiao Qiao, who was happily wagging his little short tail, was very satisfied, it was just a little follower who ate and drank with him, and he just got some benefits with him.
Rudolph didn't have much to say, this introverted and reserved child would not engage in such activities. But when something like this happens, Rudolph doesn't complain, he is the best bystander, and he seems to want to stay out of it.
Zhang Dawei has nothing else to say, and he doesn't think there is anything strange about it at all. The reason, of course, is because Zhang Dawei knows very well that gangs like Xiaobai have not committed crimes once or twice, and these little guys have long been handy with these, this is just a small game with no difficulty at all.
Xiaobai's role is naturally easy to understand, and it is natural that Xiaobai is the first offender. If it weren't for Xiaobai, a little guy who always likes to use some crooked brains, and if it weren't for Xiaobai being so bold, Pooh and the others would not be so unscrupulous.
This can also be said to be a grain of rat feces that spoils a pot of porridge, because of Xiaobai's influence again and again, Pooh's discipline level often plummets. Follow Xiaobai to fight together, then don't expect to become a moral pacesetter, even if you plan to become a good child, Xiaobai will do everything possible to transform into a non-evil little bastard.
Zhang Dawei is used to this, and Melissa doesn't think it's anything strange, not to mention the baby, she is probably a bit of a helpful character. Naturally, don't expect anything from Enoch, he will often be fooled and instructed by Xiaobai, even if he 'makes a mistake', he will not know it, and he will even be proud.
Since Zhang Dawei's family has exercised such a psychological quality, they are now accustomed to letting Xiaobai play freely. As long as there is no big mess, then it means that there is no problem, which can be regarded as a tacit understanding and bottom line.
This is the influence of Zhang Dawei and Melissa's sheep herding education strategy, they have been spoiling a few little whites and giving these little ones full freedom. So these children really know how to play freely, but after the character is developed, it is difficult to change, and now they can only watch helplessly.
It's hard to say, it's hard to say whether Zhang Dawei and Melissa's education methods are failures. Because there are a few of them, no matter how you look at them, there is no performance of a good baby, no matter how you look at it, it is the condition of some problem children.
But you can't deny it entirely, because they are very happy now, and they like their current life very much. Carefree growth, this may be Zhang Dawei and Melissa's biggest expectation for Xiaobai, they don't expect Xiaobai to become great characters at all, they just want them to be happy and happy.
So this may be a confused account, which may be a matter of public justification and mother-in-law saying that mother-in-law is reasonable. But Zhang Dawei and Melissa don't intend to care about such controversies, in their opinion, how to live, then continue to live how to live, it's that simple!
"Dad, I want to take Xiaobai to school. The baby began to be coquettish, grabbed Zhang Dawei's arm and shook it, "Xiaobai is the cutest, it will definitely be liked by all the classmates." ”
Zhang Dawei looked at the baby, shook his head with a smile and said, "I know that Xiaobai is the cutest, and I also know that it is normal to like Xiaobai." But babies, not all children like dogs, some children will be scared and cry when they see dogs. ”
The baby pouted, obviously unhappy, "Other dogs can be afraid, but they can't be afraid of Xiaobai." Xiaobai is so smart and friendly, why don't you like Xiaobai? Dad, Xiaobai is the best, everyone likes Xiaobai!"
Looking at the baby's angry little appearance, Zhang Dawei didn't think there was anything strange. Because the short protection itself is the baby's character, even if the baby occasionally has conflicts with Xiaobai, the baby still does not allow anyone to say that Xiaobai is not good. In the baby's opinion, Xiaobai is the best and most popular.
"Baby, of course I know that Xiaobai is the best, and I believe that everyone will like Xiaobai. Zhang Dawei was helpless, and took the baby into his arms and explained, "We have to understand that not everyone will think the same as you, and we can't forcibly instill our own ideas in other people's minds, which is not fair." ”
The baby was still unhappy, and muttered with a small mouth, "But Xiaobai is the best, and Xiaobai is the friendliest!"
Enoch came, and the little guy was a little jealous, and he was a little upset to see his father holding his sister. It's a combination of hands and feet trying to climb up on the couch, and Enoch likes to solve the problem by himself, and climbing on the couch is not much of a problem for him, at most it requires a little effort.
The chubby little arms propped up the sofa cushions, and the chubby little short legs were raised. As long as you move one foot to the couch first, you can no problem, as long as you climb on the couch with one foot, you can climb onto the couch as long as you roll, this is not difficult Enoch.
Zhang Dawei basically didn't help Enoch, and when Enoch was a little smaller, Zhang Dawei would help push it. But now there is no need to push a hand or something, the little Enoch is still very powerful and outstanding, don't underestimate Enoch's ability.
Not to mention that this is also a workout for Enoch. Even if Enoch's physical fitness is much stronger than that of children of the same age, having a good talent does not mean that everything is fine, and sometimes it also needs some exercise so that he can transform his talent into strength.
"Enoch, you say!" Seeing Enoch crawling over, the baby immediately asked, "Is Xiaobai the best?"
Enoch, who happily crawled over, suddenly got into Zhang Dawei's arms, and then looked up and said, "I like Xiaobai the most, Xiaobai is the best! Sister, Xiaobai is the best, the best!"
What else is there to say, in fact, this is the protection of the short, the complete protection of the short. Whether it's Baby or Enoch, they can't hear anything bad about Xiaobai.
Zhang Dawei doesn't know whether to cry or laugh now, and he doesn't know whether to worry or be proud of some of the children's performance. In short, Zhang Dawei's mood is extremely complicated now.
What else is there to say, this is a clear way to help relatives and not help, this is to completely go to your own family. So Zhang Dawei feels that some things still seem to need to be natural, and this may be the only way.
Some of the evaluations of Baby and Enoch on Xiaobai have some objective facts, but they are more subjective feelings.
Xiaobai is their best partner, so in the world of baby and Enoch, Xiaobai is the best and cutest partner, and Xiaobai is their family. Then, nature also means that everyone will like Xiaobai, and Xiaobai must be the most popular.
It's normal for babies and Enoch to have some thoughts and opinions, because the vast majority of children have these thoughts. What they think makes sense, that is, the truth, these children are probably the type of 'I am the world', and they will easily 'represent' many people, and they will be full of confidence.
It can be difficult to reason with children.
Who made these little guys have a relatively limited ability to understand, and the things they are exposed to now are also limited, so the truth they know is naturally relatively limited.
But in any case, just because children are young, they can't think that everything can be understood, and they can't think that children are young because everything is fine. Even if it will be difficult for children to understand now, they still need to say what they need to say and what they need to learn.
Even if the children seem to be a little ignorant now, they still have to learn what they should learn, and even if the children don't seem to understand, they can only keep explaining to the children, and sooner or later they will understand these truths.
Melissa is very accustomed to and understands very well, and when she sees Zhang Dawei talking to the children, she thinks this is a normal thing, and she also thinks that this is something that Zhang Dawei should do well, because this is one of Zhang Dawei's responsibilities.
As a parent, it's not just about the healthy growth of your children. In other words, such health should not only be physically strong, but also include mental health. In the process of growing up the little ones, parents should continue to pay attention to the moral education of their children, and mental health is naturally extremely important.
Zhang Dawei and Melissa's wishes are actually quite simple, they hope that the children will grow up healthy and happy. As for the children's future, Zhang Dawei and Melissa do not think that the children's great career is success, they are more looking forward to the children living the life they like.
Also, I hope that the children can become a moral person, and it is not necessary to have a successful career and become a partner and kind person, which is what Zhang Dawei and Melissa expect from the children.
Ideological education is not a matter of one person, and when Zhang Dawei said a great truth while holding the children, Melissa was naturally not to be outdone. It's just that instead of grabbing the children right away and letting them listen honestly, Melissa will communicate with the children as the family sits around the dinner table, which is her style.
Maybe this is also a headache for the baby and little Enoch, because their parents seem to care about some things, because their parents really like to be reasonable and care about moral education.
Naturally, it is also foreseeable that such a thing will not be just once or twice, which can even be said to be some of the norm in the process of children's growth, and it will become a deep impression in the process of children's growth. And these may be of great help to children's growth.
Even if you are worried that there will be a rebellious period in the process of children's growth, the things that should be educated still need to be educated, the truth that should be said still needs to be said, and it is naturally extremely important to do a good job of communication.
Zhang Dawei and Melissa are 'good teachers', and for the time being, they seem to be more satisfied with the educational results. It can also be regarded as entertaining, because Melissa still tells some truths and stories to the children in the process of chatting, unlike Zhang Dawei, who likes to talk about empty truths, it seems that the children are not disgusted or bored.
The truth needs to be explained, but children are children after all, and it is obviously more important for children to have a carefree and happy childhood. So whether it was Baby or Enoch, Zhang Dawei and Melissa didn't care about the education of some knowledge, and they didn't sign up for some interest classes for the children.
Playing happily, this is the life that the baby and Enoch should have, and this is the state of life of the two children now. has a happy childhood memory, which is also the environment that Zhang Dawei and Melissa hope to create for the children.
Watching the children playing, Zhang Dawei and Melissa are naturally very happy, and sometimes they are naturally the children's best play partners. They are well aware that their role is extremely important as children grow up, and they want to leave a deeper imprint on their memories.
It's just that sometimes, children don't want their parents to be too involved in the game, children have their own game choices, they have their own understanding of the game, and they don't want to be disturbed.
So at such a moment, Zhang Dawei and Melissa will be watching with a smile on the side. Maybe they will chat about some parents' shortcomings and gags, or it may be because of some serious communication and exchanges from children, they are not just standing by and watching the excitement.
Especially at a moment like this, Zhang Dawei and Melissa naturally have more topics to talk about; as long as it is, it is naturally some thoughts of the baby and little Enoch, the short-term strength of these two children makes people not know whether to be happy or sad, and the quality of the two little guys who help their relatives or not does not know whether to criticize or encourage.
Although it seems that Baby and Little Enoch are very sensitive and extremely firm in some things about Xiaobai. But Zhang Dawei and Melissa can be sure that it's really not just about Xiaobai.
Pooh, Rudolph, and Little Joe are actually very important to the children, as long as they are the partners they identify, they are the best, the most perfect, and no one is allowed to say anything bad at all.
These qualities may be good, but they will also make people laugh and cry!(https:)
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