And at this time, the old lady and Uncle Chen didn't say anything to Nie Damin again, the two of them just smiled slightly and glanced at each other, they knew that they needed to give Nie Damin a little time now, let him think about what they said, let her go around herself, only if he felt that staying was the right choice, then he would choose to stay.

After thinking for a while, Nie Damin raised his head and said to the old lady: " Old lady, if you say something, I seem to be able to gradually understand what it means, do you mean that if I stay outside, then, no one can control me, and they will not be able to come out to find me, but the only thing is that I can't go back, or I can't enter the ancestral grave, that's all, and if I talk about the rest, they can't find me, and I can live very freely outside, which is definitely better than living in that village, and there is no danger, right?

That's right, Brother Nie, what you said is indeed right, that's what I mean!

Then if I go back, or because I have been outside for a long time, the team leader will be suspicious of me, and if the people in the village come to ask me this question and I ask that, and it will cause the team leader's dissatisfaction, he will be sure at that time, because there is no outside, these so-called laws, he thinks that if you get rid of me, it is not impossible, right?

Of course that's the case, Brother Nie but I haven't been to your village, and I don't know the specific situation, if your village really has no legal protection, and is just arranged by the team leader, then if he really wants to hurt you, it will be easy, the old lady said to him.

Well, I seem to understand this matter, I have to think about this matter, you said that if I stay, in fact, I am also willing in my heart, first, I want to find my daughter, second, I also think that his life outside is simply too luxurious and comfortable, I have never felt like this, and I have never been so relaxed, more free, so I like life here very much.

But I still can't let go of the fact that I can't enter the ancestral grave, and besides, you said that it must cost a lot of money to live outside you, so I, Nie Damin, said the truth, at that time, Brother Mu also gave me 50,000 yuan, and I only brought out 10,000 yuan, why do you say that I, Nie Damin, can't spend money outside you? Now that I'm out today, I think that no matter what I'm doing, if I want to enjoy myself outside, it will definitely cost money, so I don't have this money, won't I have to collect money here then, in your world, isn't that the lowest person? Nie Damin expressed his worries.

It turns out that Brother Nie, what you are worried about is this matter, in fact, you don't have to worry, you live with us now, we have everything for you, for use, and you can match what you want, if you really want to stay one day, here, with your wife, with your daughter, we will also help you, and if you really find your daughter at that time, you must be sure that your daughter is here, so many years have already taken root, has already settled here, all the expenses can support himself, maybe we can help you find a jobWon't you settle down here?

And our wages outside are not as low as the wages you give you in your village, at least if you work hard a month in our city, you can still earn five or six thousand yuan, the old lady said to him.

Is it true? Can you earn five or six thousand yuan a month in your place? Nie Damian was obviously a little excited, he originally thought that 3,000 yuan a month was already a few days, which was high enough, but he didn't expect that outside them, it could be more than doubled, it was simply impossible to imagine where these people outside them got so much money.

Of course, the average income of people in our city, about a month, of course, is five or six thousand yuan, because the consumption level is high, if the salary is not high, then, how can people afford it, you also see how developed our city is, no matter where you go, you need money, if the salary is low, everyone has no money and can't afford it. How can this afford such a developed city, so the development of the work is directly proportional to the salary of the person, the old lady said to him.

Old lady, although I don't understand much about what I told you, I probably understand what it means, that is, you, who live such a good and comfortable life, must have a higher salary, right? If the salary is not high, then there will be no such comfortable life.

That's right, Brother Nie, you see how smart you are, this is the first time you have come to our place, let me tell you a little, you can understand these situations, so say, if you really settle down here in the future, if you stay, it will definitely not be a difficult thing, you calm down here, when the time comes, you study hard, these jobs outside us are actually suitable for your work, in our outside, it should not be too troublesome for you to learn, and there are a lot of simple jobs, so I think if you really want to live outside, you are also a person who can survive hereAs long as you live, you can make money, as long as you make money, you can live, and nothing can be difficult for people.

That's true, Brother Nie, the old lady is right, and at this time Uncle Chen also spoke. If you think that we are outside, that you are very happy here, and that you are doing very well here, you can stay here! And didn't you just say that the days in your village are at a glance, from the first day of birth to the last day of death, the days are the same, and they are not interesting at all.

But outside of us is different, these people outside us are with hope, active efforts, everyone actively strives to survive, although there are poor and rich, but, that's also, everyone's life is varied, they will also be common, the taste of life, ups and downs, even if life is difficult, they also feel, there is also a different taste, life is also fun, and unlike you, there is no concept of money, there is no concept of everything, everyone eats with the same, so the life is the same, there is no hope。

And outside of us will not be, these people outside us, everyone has a different job, everyone earns a different salary, and everyone's living standard is different, it is precisely because of such different treatment, different all inequality, but this kind of inequality is different from the kind of inequality you say, this kind of inequality, is just a matter of more or less money, a problem of family environment, but it is precisely because of this that they will actively work hard to make money, and there will also be poor and rich people will also have that, the kind of face you say has a sense of light on the faceUncle Chen tried his best to explain to him in words that Nie Damin could understand.

Yes, yes, yes, what I want is this kind of life, Lao Chen, you really said that my heart is on the road, I was because everyone lived the same life in the village, so it made me feel that it was not interesting at all, and I couldn't even distinguish the level, I didn't mean that I had to be higher than the other, but, no matter how I said it, I had to have a different way of living, everyone's way of living was the same, so what's the point of living there, Nie Damin also said to them.

So, when you talk about these situations, when you are outside, when you live in this environment, I really feel that this is the kind of life I want. Maybe these people outside of you will be a little tired to make money, but I think this kind of life is indeed quite enjoyable, your eldest brother, I think you can have such an attitude, I am really happy for you! Uncle Chen was very happy at this time and said to him,

He originally thought that Nie Daming was the same as those men in the village, only relying on women to make money to support them, and all the men who were lazy and lazy were men, but now when he heard Nie Damin say these words, he felt that Nie Damin also seemed to want to work hard for life, but in that village, because everyone lived the same life and had no hope, so he let Dimin be the same as them, and he didn't have any positive heart. Now listen to what he means, if he can really settle down and live outside, maybe he will become the same as those people outside, people will actively work hard to make money to live, and everyone's hard work is the best and most beautiful.

So, maybe at that time, Nie Qing's mother, seeing Nie Daming, living with such a positive and hard-working attitude, maybe he won't bite anymore, Damin is so annoying, gradually, their family can also live together in harmony, and Nie Qing will not be embarrassed at that time, after all, he is young, he will be his daughter-in-law in the future, and he doesn't want his daughter-in-law to be embarrassed for those things in the family, especially his parents, so he can solve this point, Uncle Chen also feels very happy.

Lao Chen, you also think that it is boring for me to live like this, right? You also think that I am very suitable to return to the world outside you, and he can live a delicious life, right?

Of course, Brother Nie, I heard from the children who came back about the situation in your village, if it was really me, I would have no hope for my whole life there, I don't think I would have lived long, but if you come back to our place, although in order to make money and live, everyone will work hard and be very tired, but even if they are tired, then they are happy in their hearts, and they are also happy, because people can only experience happiness in their efforts, and they are just lazy people every day. He will never experience the happiness of hard work, the things that he buys and consumes with the money he earns from his own efforts, and that is the best feeling.

Yes, it's really like this, you see that now I spent your money to buy a mobile phone, and I went out to play, in fact, for me, I just feel happy about the novelty, if I spend my own money, maybe I will feel that there is another taste, Nie Damin nodded and said.

I didn't expect Brother Nie, you have so many thoughts in your heart, I didn't know before, but I heard about the situation in your village, and now I see you, I think you are not the same as the situation in the village they said, or you are different from the other villagers of you, if you can live outside us, didn't you just say that you and your sister-in-law don't have a very good relationship, but if you can live outside, then, if you are so active and hard to live, when the time comes, your wife will definitely gradually change her mind about youThe old lady said to him with a smile.

At the same time, he also took a look, Nie Qing's mother, at the moment his mother, was lowering her head, looking a little embarrassed, especially the old lady was saying these words, so it made him feel even more embarrassed, but listening to them talking about these things there, and hearing Nie Damin's true thoughts in his heart, he was also quite surprised, he had never heard Nie Daming say these words, and he never knew that Nie Damin's psychology really thought like this, it turned out that she also wanted to live that kind of active and hard-working life。

Maybe there was really no hope and no hope in the village before, so Nie Damin had to do that, he had to be the same person as those villagers, maybe it was really when he came out, Nie Damin would be like these people outside, and he would actively work hard to live a life, in that case, would he really forgive Nie Damin and change those opinions about him as the old lady said?

But now I don't know, because he didn't do that, so I don't know how he will feel if he really becomes like that, so he didn't say anything to them, just kept his head down, and tried not to participate in their conversation as much as possible, sometimes it's not the time to say it now, and it's not a good time to be heard by Nie Damin, so some things will wait until I'm alone with the old lady.