Zhang Dawei understands very well that the child is the creditor of his previous life, and he now has this understanding more and more clearly.

Enoch, the bear child, happily slapped Zhang Dawei's face with a small slap, and it was not very difficult for Enoch to get his father up. So the little guy is also ruthless, he doesn't know that he is distressed, he is loyally completing the task given to him by his mother, that is, to get his father up, this is Enoch's task.

What else does Zhang Dawei have to say, even if he wants to lie in bed, he can only open his eyes with a wry smile.

The fat son's happy little face makes people can't be angry, the little guy is so innocent and cute, and he is also very proud now. Because in Enoch's opinion, it was because of his efforts that he got the big lazy pig father up.

Seeing the fat son's happy appearance, Zhang Dawei's mood also improved, smiled and hugged the little guy into his arms, and kissed the little guy's fleshy little face fiercely, this time he felt that even a few slaps were worth it.

Enoch, who was smiling with a milky voice, was happily kicking his legs, and the little guy loved his father kissing him. Even if Enoch probably didn't particularly like the coquettish personality, there were few children who didn't like the intimacy of their parents.

"Enoch, we need to be particular about fighting. Carrying his fat son, Zhang Dawei explained to the little guy with a smile, "We don't bully weak people, and we won't take the initiative to beat people." We only do it if someone wants to bully us. ”

Melissa, who was washing her face, was stunned for a moment, and then her voice was a lot colder, "Honey, this is your education?"

Zhang Dawei's desire to survive was very strong, although he was speaking from his heart to Enoch. But he knew that some of the truth was actually very unpleasant, so he naturally needed to admit his mistake at this time, because such an educational concept was really wrong.

Melissa hugged Enoch and said to the little one with a smile, "Enoch, we are good and civilized and polite boys, we can't fight, it's not a good performance." I know that Enoch is very powerful, and it can be used for exercising, exercising, and protecting children and families, not in fights. ”

The baby who was holding the threshold was unhappy, and the little girl retorted, "Mommy, but Dad told me that if someone bullies me, you can beat him." If someone hits me once, I hit him twice so that he doesn't dare to bully me. ”

Zhang Dawei lowered his head and pretended to wash his face, pretending that he didn't know anything, even though it was early summer, but he felt the temperature plummet, and he knew that he would definitely be criticized mercilessly by Melissa next.

The reason is that Melissa will definitely think that he has instilled the wrong educational philosophy in the children. In Melissa's opinion, such a thing cannot be tolerated, and she must criticize the children after correcting some of their misconceptions.

Zhang Dawei knows very well that his life will not be easy in the future, but now, if he can temporarily dodge it, then hide it.

Therefore, Xiaobai likes to pretend to be an ostrich, Xiaobai likes to evade responsibility, basically it is a kind of learning; with such an absolute example as Zhang Dawei, it would be strange if Xiaobai didn't learn something.

But because of this, Zhang Dawei knew that he would definitely be criticized mercilessly by Melissa next. Because in Melissa's view, Zhang Dawei is the person who has the greatest influence on the children, and Melissa does not agree with some of his concepts.

So at this time, Zhang Dawei naturally tried not to attract Melissa's attention as much as possible, which was the most correct thing for Zhang Dawei. He can guarantee that as long as Melissa is given some reasons, then Melissa will definitely be on fire and will criticize and educate him fiercely.

As a smart man, Zhang Dawei naturally knows what to do and what not to do, and he knows very well that some of the things he says to his children are even marketable. But in Melissa's opinion, it was to give the children the wrong idea, and that was something she could not tolerate.

Melissa took the children and began to explain seriously that they should unite the children and that they should not bully people in school. As for Zhang Dawei, he basically agreed.

He knows that there are all kinds of school bullying in the United States, and he knows that there will be a lot of children who will be bullied here, and some bear children like to bully people in various ways.

Zhang Dawei naturally doesn't want his children to become the group of people who are bullied, and of course Zhang Dawei doesn't want his children to become the group of people who bully. It may seem contradictory, but this is also the thinking of most parents, which is 'do unto others as you would have them do unto you'.

It's just that in Zhang Dawei's view, when something undesirable happens, then we must bravely make a counterattack, and there must be no retreat at this time. Otherwise, it will only make those bad boys and bad girls more daring and more unscrupulous.

But in Melissa's opinion, this is certainly not the best solution, she thinks that you can tell the teacher, you can seek a conversation, this is a very good solution, it is not that someone hits you and you have to respond with your fist, it should not be taught to children in this way.

It's hard to explain much, in fact, no matter where you are, the behavior of reporting to the teacher is not approved. This kind of approach is also very easy to be excluded by other friends, which is not the correct solution in Zhang Dawei's opinion.

But Zhang Dawei really has no choice, who let her at home, it seems that Melissa is the one who has more right to speak. And on the issue of children's education, to tell the truth, Melissa did do better, so naturally it also means that Zhang Dawei actually doesn't have much right to speak.

Melissa seemed to be more serious about explaining some things to the baby, because she knew that the baby was more sensible, and because the baby was now in school, and Enoch, what he needed to learn now was not to use his fists easily, even when playing games with Xiaobai and Xiaoqiao, he couldn't do it.

What Zhang Dawei can do now is naturally nod honestly, but he thinks that the baby's smart little head must be a little confused, and this little girl should not know who to listen to better now.

Dad told her that if someone bullied her, then she should be brave enough to fight back and not swallow her anger. This is a brave child, so that those little villains will not dare to bully her again.

But her mother told her that if someone bullied her, then she needed to tell the teacher and tell her parents. That's what a good kid should do, because hands-on fights are the most unfriendly of all kinds, and that's not the way a good kid should choose to solve a problem.

Obviously, even if the baby is a smart child, it seems to be a very different way for her to feel very tricky right now. This smart little girl is still a little unsure whether she should listen to her father or follow her mother's instructions, which makes her very distressed.

The baby may be more confused now, which is very understandable. But whether it is told by the father or explained by the mother, it is certain that everyone wants the baby to be well, and hopes that the baby can grow up happily and happily in school, and they do not want to see the baby being bullied.

Zhang Dawei is very low-key now, but it is really because he can't be high-profile at this time, and he doesn't dare to be high-profile at all; at home, Melissa is definitely a very weighty existence, and Zhang Dawei will not easily offend some of Melissa's opinions, because he feels that this is more conducive to family harmony.

This is Zhang Dawei's idea, but whether Melissa thinks so, it's hard to say, because sometimes, Melissa really wants to teach Zhang Dawei a good lesson, she thinks that Zhang Dawei this guy will really teach a bad daughter, this is an out-and-out bastard!

The baby took Enoch's little hand and ran away, and the two siblings planned to take Little Joe to the door to exercise, and the baby now needed to control her weight, and she was also worried about becoming a little fat, so the baby needed more exercise, so that she could maintain a good figure, so that she could wear more beautiful new clothes.

took Xiao Qiao with him, naturally because Xiao Qiao needs to lose weight, and the chubby Xiao Qiao is very cute. But for the sake of health, there can't be such a thing as a fat man, and it's really not cute to be a little fat person.

Melissa glanced at the sneering Zhang Dawei, she didn't want to talk to Zhang Dawei. But seeing Zhang Dawei who seemed to know his mistakes, she felt that Zhang Dawei didn't seem to be as hateful as before, at least Zhang Dawei, who looked like this, could communicate and communicate well.

"My dear, I know what you think, and I don't think you're wrong about your way of upbringing. Grabbing Zhang Dawei's hand, Melissa said seriously, "If our child is in high school, I support your decision." But now, she is only in kindergarten, and such an education is too early. ”

Zhang Dawei looked at Melissa's face, and then said his thoughts, "The teacher will not solve all the problems, more often we need to teach the baby to rely on his own strength." And you also know that a child who likes to make small reports is more likely to be ostracized, which is not good for her in school. ”

Melissa was not angry, because what Zhang Dawei said still had a certain amount of truth, and more importantly, Melissa hoped that some problems could be solved through dialogue, not who seemed to have more say, and she hoped that the affairs of the family would be discussed with Zhang Dawei, rather than making some decisions arbitrarily.

There's nothing wrong with doing this, and speaking your thoughts carefully and carefully will help you come up with a way to do it as best possible.

As for the true perfect solution, it seems a bit fanciful and unrealistic, so it is basically enough to have a method that is as perfect as possible.

Melissa looked at Zhang Dawei and continued to speak, "She is still young, and we all know that she is smart and has excellent learning ability. But she's at a critical stage of her growth now, and if she develops some habits at this time, I think it will probably stay with her for the rest of her life. You know what I mean, I don't want her to get used to solving problems with her fists since she was a child, and it won't do her any good. ”

"If you learn to be patient and retreat from an early age, it may be difficult to become more courageous when you grow up. Zhang Dawei opened his mouth and said his thoughts, "She is still young, so I hope she learns to be brave and learn to solve problems in her own way." Whether it is the teacher or us, it is impossible to protect her for the rest of her life. So, she had to learn to face these things slowly. ”

Zhang Dawei and Melissa are seriously discussing these things, they all know that things related to children naturally mean that there are never so-called trivial matters, they are all things that need to be seriously faced and tried to solve.

Even if some things may seem a little worrying, it certainly doesn't hurt to think about it early. Otherwise, when something happens suddenly, it will only make people scramble, which is not a good phenomenon.

That's what Zhang Dawei and Melissa think, and they're now sitting on the couch chatting seriously about something that hasn't happened yet. They hope that they are thinking too much, so it is naturally better, but if they really can't do it, when something happens, they hope that the baby, a smart little girl, can know how to deal with these things better.

This is what Zhang Dawei and Melissa think, and this is the fundamental reason why they are now communicating seriously.

Even for a while, it seems that there is no good answer, even if the two people are still very controversial about some things. But talk slowly and keep communicating, so that you may be able to find some satisfactory answers, so that there may be a chance to reach a consensus, so that the baby is at least not a little head in a mush.

The two of them continued to communicate and communicate seriously, they both wanted to convince each other, and they both had their own reasons for insisting.

So it is also certain that in some things, the analysis of the two people for the time being is great. When it comes to the baby's education, they express their opinions and stand their ground. Then, this is naturally a protracted problem, and it takes two people to constantly communicate and convince, which is the best way.

It doesn't matter if there is no result for the time being, at least both of them understand some of each other's ideas, and some of the things that the two people insist on, the starting point is still good, and there are no problems of principle. Well, even a little analysis doesn't matter much.

The sad baby led the innocent-looking Enoch home, and the little one complained, "Dad, why did Enoch pee his pants again! You don't teach Enoch, he has been peeing his pants all the time!"

Therefore, Zhang Dawei thinks that open crotch pants are a great invention, but unfortunately in Europe and the United States, open crotch pants are not popular and have no market. So the frequency of Enoch's playful bear child changing his pants does seem to be a little high!(https:)

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