Chapter 842: Father-Daughter Relationship
The opposition between children and parents is quite straightforward, and when children are unable to accept their parents' words, they will refute them for nothing and will not show mercy.
It is precisely because of this relationship that there is such an opposition.
Mr. Kai originally wanted to find a step down, but Kai Xin kicked the steps away: "Dad, do you think you have that understanding?"
"I ......" Mr. Kai didn't dare to speak, didn't he have a little understanding of his life experience for half his life?
"It's enough to read Chinese culture, but don't think that you can do anything if you learn Chinese culture, if Chinese culture is really so good, why haven't those so-called ancestors been able to close the door of the country that has been pried open by opium for thousands of years?"
Zhao Xiaoyao once again tried to ease the tense atmosphere: "We should read Li Bai Dufu and Fitzgerald, and if we study the Analects today, we will be exposed to pure rational criticism tomorrow." ”
Kaixin is still relatively rational about Zhao Xiaoyao, of course, she also agrees with what Zhao Xiaoyao said.
"......" Kai always wanted to speak, but he wanted to speak, he didn't know if his words would provoke his daughter again.
Zhao Xiaoyao helped them ease the atmosphere: "Traditional culture must be accepted, but the starting point of modern industrial civilization and information civilization must also be understood. ”
"Zhao Xiaoyao, we are not the time to talk about these things, I want you to leave my house immediately. Kaixin abruptly returned to the topic: "Don't help my father. ”
"Okay, okay, I'll listen to you. Zhao Xiaoyao nodded again and again.
"I don't understand, since Xiaoyao has the ability, is there anything wrong with me letting him help me do things?" Mr. Kai couldn't understand: "Isn't it that if he doesn't work with me, he won't go to someone else's side to do things!"
Kaixin stared at his father for a long time and did not speak.
At this time, Zhao Xiaoyao didn't interject, he had already realized what Kaixin was going to say, if he opened his mouth, it would be a real big bang.
"Why don't you speak? I'll ask you, why can't Zhao Xiaoyao do things for me, can't I ask him to do things?" Mr. Kai said: "This is my personal freedom, and it is also his personal freedom, it's not your turn to take care of us, right?"
Kaixin had been putting up with it, she didn't want to say it, but her father's repeated words finally angered her completely.
"Dad, do you think I don't know what you do?" Kai Xin's words were like a sharp knife.
Mr. Kai's face finally became less natural, and the trace of panic in his eyes was obviously unique to his daughter.
To be honest, he didn't let his daughter know about his business for so many years, not only to protect his daughter, but also to retain a trace of his dignity as a father in front of his daughter.
There is a good saying: being a man does not have to be beautiful, but it must be upright.
If a person is not able to be upright, what can he do to raise his head?
is like Mr. Kai, he has wealth, status, knowledge, and power, and these things alone may be able to make people beautiful, but he has all of them, but he can't raise his head in front of his daughter.
Just because he is not upright enough, some of the things he does make him unable to hide his inferiority complex in his heart, no matter how beautiful he is on the surface!
How sad is it to not be able to lift up your head before your own children?
What is perfect, what is a clear conscience, what is sincerity, he does not have these things as a father.
Some poor people may not be able to give their children those material things in a beautiful way, but as long as he is upright, he can straighten his waist in front of his children, and educate his descendants to be upright!
Some rich people may be able to give their children those material comforts without restrictions, but if they are not sincere and righteous, they will not be able to straighten their backs in front of their children, and they can only influence their children not to know what justice is.
Mr. Kai's psychology in this matter is actually very simple.
It's hard to say, he's the kind of person who wants to set up a chastity archway when he is *.
He himself does not have an upright person, but he wants his children to be upright, so he does not dare to let his children know what he has done.
Although Mr. Kai has fallen, he has not yet degenerated into the kind of brain-dead who shows off in front of his children with the fruits of his depravity.
But some people don't think so, and some people are really the kind of people who will show off in front of their children with the fruits of their own depravity and meanness.
What kind of mentality can the next generation be influenced by this?
As a child's first teacher, it is this kind of influence and education, and it is not surprising that the child cannot be raised to be a decent person.
Why are the values of young people so distorted, and why do most people nowadays prefer to become an Internet celebrity who makes easy money than to become a person who contributes to society?
It's all due to influence.
"Kaixin, that's enough, there are some things that you shouldn't know, you go back to your room first. Mr. Kay's voice became muffled.
This is a sign of no confidence.
Kaixin pointed at Zhao Xiaoyao: "Let me tell you, if you want to do things with my father, I will look down on you for the rest of my life." ”
"Okay, I understand, I'll leave now. Zhao Xiaoyao grinned, he didn't expect Kaixin to be such a serious person.
"Wait a minute. Mr. Kai didn't want to let Zhao Xiaoyao leave, he valued Zhao Xiaoyao not just a reusable subordinate, but a young man who could be trusted: "The matter between us is not something that a girl can understand." ”
"Dad, don't force me. Kaixin let out a deep breath.
Mr. Kai said, "I promise you, I won't let him do what I do, okay? I left him to say something else to him." ”
"Say what?" Kai Xin asked, to be honest, she really couldn't trust her father: "If there is anything you can't say in front of me, if it's someone you can see, then you can say it in front of me, if it's something you can't see, then you just don't say it again." ”
"Kaixin, I'm your father, I hope you can give me a little respect. Kai was always a little helpless: "Don't you even have such a little trust in me?"
"Nope. Kaixin's answer was rather crisp.
Mr. Kai shook his head: "Even if you give me a little respect, it's always okay, right? I swear to you, I will never do anything to harm him, this is what I promised you as a father." ”
"Then you remember, you promised me as a father. After Kaixin finished speaking, he walked straight to the door, and said to Zhao Xiaoyao without looking back: "I'll wait for you in the car, and if you don't come out in five minutes, I'll leave by myself." ”
Zhao Xiaoyao smiled bitterly and nodded, he really didn't expect that the biggest headache for him was the father-daughter relationship involved.