Chapter 1381: Human Affection is Sophisticating
Zhao Weitong didn't mean to admit it at all, and Chen Yuyue naturally wouldn't be embarrassed to say more.
"Since you don't want to say it, forget it. Chen Yuyue smiled slightly: "You just know what I know, I will remember this favor." ”
"It's better not to count such a thing as favors. Zhao Weitong said lightly: "Because there is no way to calculate this kind of thing clearly, if it can be calculated clearly, then there will be no so-called so-called human feelings, only the statement of debt remains." ”
Debts can be paid off because they have definite numbers, but human favors are different, and there are no specific numbers to calculate.
Especially in an ancient country with a long tradition in China, almost no one can avoid this thing, everyone and the people around them are inextricably linked, exaggerated to say that even doing anything can not escape this relationship network, if someone feels that they are out of the relationship network, it may be a rare luck, or it may be a fool who is blinded.
It's just that there are too few people who really understand what it means to be sophisticated.
The so-called "sophistication of human feelings" in the hearts of the vast majority of Chinese people is the kind of wedding, funeral and wedding affairs of friends' families, and if they go with a "part", there will be more money with good relationships and less money with ordinary relationships.
In fact, this is not a favor at all, once there is a clear number of things, there is no meaning, because each other are repaid according to the amount, when a person gets married, he gives a friend a thousand red envelopes, and when he gets married, his friends will also give him a thousand red envelopes, if he only gives him eight hundred, there will be a gap between the two people.
The reason for the existence of this gap is actually similar to the reason that the "debt" has not been paid off.
And there is no way to calculate the favor clearly.
Especially the more successful people are, the more they have no way to figure out their own personal sophistication with the people around them. Because the people who can succeed in this world are extremely smart people, smart people understand the benefits of "people helping others", and the more people you help, the more you help yourself, because this is something that can achieve each other.
And what ordinary people like to do is not to help each other, but to compare with each other, and in the end it is not going well, and a stomach of envy, jealousy and hatred cannot achieve self-achievement.
Of course, there are also ignorant fools who frame each other for design, but they don't know that the more people they rectify, the greater the chance of being rectified, and in the end, they will harm others and themselves.
Zhao Weitong is a smart girl who understands the world, and of course she knows what to do is the right choice. When a friend is in trouble, she certainly doesn't sit idly by, because this kind of thing can be solved by just saying a word to her family.
This kind of favor is worthless, not how much money can be calculated, for Zhao Weitong this is "a sentence", but for Ben Xuan, it may not be able to solve it with "100,000 yuan", which is completely different from the kind of "part money" that is the same back and forth.
"But I owe you so much. Chen Yuyue smiled bitterly: "This is stressful for me. ”
"In fact, human affection is mutual, whether it is a relative, a friend, or two people who love each other, only sincerity can exchange for the sincerity of others to you. Zhao Weitong said lightly: "I don't like people who are false, I can see clearly whether it is true or false, I am not blind." I also don't like people who are slick, I can see clearly whether it is virtual or real, and I naturally have my own scales in my heart. ”
Chen Yuyue was stunned for a moment.
He suddenly felt that he might be underestimating Zhao Weitong a little, and Zhao Weitong was more mentally mature than he imagined.
"Only those who love others will be loved, and those who are blessed will be blessed." Zhao Weitong glanced at Chen Yuyue: "There is never a giving for no reason in this world, everything you get is what you deserve." ”
Chen Yuyue suddenly thought of what his grandfather had said to him.
People's hearts are mutual, feelings are exchanged, deep feelings are accumulated, and thick righteousness is precipitated.
Of course, after this sentence, the old man also added: The white-eyed wolf that is not well fed also exists, and the black sheep is possible in any large team, which is something that cannot be changed, you can only discern it yourself.
As he grew up, Chen Yuyue was deeply impressed by the second half of the old man's sentences.
White-eyed wolves that can't be fed well do exist.
Maybe Chen Yuyue has too many people around him, so he has become accustomed to this state of sincerity to make friends, when he came to Tianhai and met these people, he didn't feel any surprise because of the sincerity of these people, he felt that people should be like this, this habit made him not surprised.
So much so that any black sheep who has done something unfavorable to the team will be remembered by Chen Yuyue.
"I'm actually a very realistic person, and I do to others what they do to me. Zhao Weitong suddenly laughed and said lightly: "So you don't need to think about that at all, what I am willing to help you do is my own business, and what you get is also what you pay." ”
But Chen Yuyue couldn't understand what he had paid?
He is indeed sincere in making Zhao Weitong a friend, but in fact, he has not paid too much for Zhao Weitong, right?
"What do you say?" At this time, Ye Xiaoyao walked behind the two.
"I'll think about it for a while and I'm done with something to eat. Zhao Weitong tilted his head and said, "Teacher Ye, you said that you were going to invite me to a big dinner today, how about it, do you have any ideas?" ”
"Wait a minute, didn't you say you wanted to invite me?" Ye Xiaoyao rolled her eyes: "My salary this month has been all spent, and the amount of Ant Huabei has been exhausted because of that damn Singles' Day......"
Speaking of this, Ye Xiaoyao gritted his teeth a little.
It's obviously said that it's Singles' Day, but how can it be turned into a grand shopping street by Chinese people?
And this damn shopping festival is full of pits, some merchants are indeed cheaper, but some bastards are lower prices after the price increases, in fact, there is not much cheaper after buying, and the delivery is very slow, and things may be defective.
However, these can't affect Ye Xiaoyao, she will compare the prices of many homes in advance, and then choose one by one, but what she can't control is the number of things she buys, so it is very normal to spend her salary.
"I know it's a pit, but I have to jump. Ye Xuefu had nothing to do with her: "Do you want me to help when you pay off the overdraft next month?"
"Sister, after all, I am also a people's teacher of Tianhai University, and I must wear some big-name clothes on weekdays. Ye Xiaoyao said pitifully: "How expensive it is sold in the mall, although the online shopping festival is bought some of last year's styles or sales are not good, but at least it is really cheaper, I also bought you a down jacket, last year the mall sold 6,000 yuan, this year I will help you take more than 2,000." ”
Ye Xuefu was stunned for a moment, she didn't expect this girl to have this heart.
"So, I'm in for a treat today. Chen Yuyue smiled: "You can choose whatever you want to eat." ”