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When the graduation season arrives, it is natural for countless people to be excited and happy, and countless parents are full of a sense of achievement.
Zhang Dawei and Melissa are naturally the same, because there is a small graduate at home, so they are now full of motivation and pride, they are looking forward to the baby's completion of kindergarten studies, looking forward to the baby's start of a new learning stage.
Of course, the baby is also very happy, and she is naturally looking forward to her graduation ceremony. But to be honest, even if the baby is a smart little genius, the baby does attach great importance to her graduation ceremony, but it seems that her parents are more serious in this matter, and they are more thoughtful.
This is naturally easy to understand, because every bit of progress of the children is the most remarkable achievement in the eyes of parents, the proof of the children's growth, and even the best embodiment of the children's courage to climb the peak.
So Melissa and Zhang Dawei are thinking about more things, and they also think that at such a moment, they must think more completely. Because they are the baby's parents, because the baby's age and experience are limited, they need to help the baby pick up the gaps.
Zhang Dawei and Melissa also knew, and naturally knew that the kindergarten where the baby was located did not require students to uniformly dress and the like. And since it is a kindergarten, the degree certificate is more for self-entertainment, which is basically homemade by the kindergarten.
This actually shows that it is impossible for the baby to wear a bachelor's gown at that time. Or a little more realistic, the two of them are carefully thinking about preparing beautiful clothes for the baby, so that the baby will be more cute and beautiful at the graduation ceremony.
This is something that Zhang Dawei and Melissa can do, and it is indeed what they are seriously considering, from clothes, shoes and socks, to the baby's hairstyle, Zhang Dawei and Melissa are now constantly discussing, and do not want to have any mistakes, this is the most important thing for them at the moment, and this is also one of the baby's best memories.
"I'll prepare a small video camera when the time comes, and I'll film every process of the graduation ceremony!" Zhang Dawei is gearing up, he is now full of confidence and anticipation, "I believe I will shoot a classic video, and the baby will definitely like it when he grows up!"
Melissa nodded, affirming Zhang Dawei's thoughts, "I think this is an important part of the baby's growth album, and I think it will be one of the best adult gifts for her when she becomes an adult." ”
"Was it a little too early then?" Zhang Dawei objected, he had some ideas of his own, "We all know that although at that time, maybe the baby was just an adult, and she became an adult. It's just that we also know that at that time she was probably just a college student, and she might still be very naïve and naïve. ”
Melissa gave her a big look and said angrily, "You want to say that the baby may still have some rebellion at that time, right? I know, you are worried that she will not be able to grasp the meaning of the gift, and she will not pay attention to the coming-of-age ceremony and gift we prepared for her!"
Zhang Dawei nodded honestly, this is what he really thinks, and he also thinks that he has such an idea is definitely not groundless, this is not for the baby, but because Zhang Dawei has little confidence in the vast majority of people who have just become adults.
It is said that adulthood is naturally legal adulthood, and there must be nothing wrong with this, which is naturally true and legally recognized. But sometimes legal recognition is something else entirely.
At that time, the children were probably at the end of high school, or had just entered college, and they were legally adults, but it did not mean that the children were psychologically mature, and it did not mean that the children could really make some judgments and decisions like adults, and the children at this time would still be naïve and rebellious sometimes.
This is Zhang Dawei's true thoughts, this is also Zhang Dawei will be a little worried; he is full of confidence in the baby, he knows that the baby is very smart, but speaking of it, smart and mature, sensible, that is two different things, sometimes smart people will even be 'sensible' late, this is also normal.
Putting his arm around Melissa's shoulders, Zhang Dawei gave some of his opinions, "I don't think it's appropriate to give her this gift when she is just an adult, I think maybe when she gets married, this will be a more appropriate time, I think my proposal is very good!"
Melissa was upset, looked at Zhang Dawei and retorted, "Honey, I don't think the time to get married will be the most appropriate time. Of course, we know that if we get married, if we get married, it's an extremely important moment. But if it's a coming-of-age album, it's more appropriate as a gift when your baby is an adult!"
Zhang Dawei's opinion is that he is worried that the baby will be a little rebellious at that time, maybe a little immature, and worried that the baby at that time will not understand the meaning of the growth album. I am even worried that the baby will be annoyed and angry when she sees the 'black history' in the growth album when she was a child, and she will not cherish the growth album.
Melissa's opinion is naturally obvious, she thinks that since it is a growth album, then it is naturally a record of the baby's childhood, so it is most appropriate to give it to the baby as a gift when the baby is an adult, so that the baby can see her childhood, and she believes that the baby will definitely be basically sensible at that time.
This is the public saying that the public is reasonable, and the mother says that the mother is reasonable, Zhang Dawei has some of his ideas and insistence, and it seems that some of Zhang Dawei's worries are not untargeted. Even Zhang Dawei's worries are normal, because in reality, there are indeed many such cases.
Zhang Dawei has some of his theoretical basis, so he is now full of confidence, so he can now have a serious discussion with Melissa on such a thing and try to convince the other party.
But Melissa is not like this, and it is precisely because Melissa thinks that her views have more truth and that her views may be more recognized. So she is extremely insistent now, she thinks that she can also persuade Zhang Dawei to let Zhang Dawei cooperate with some of her decisions.
This kind of thing is naturally normal, even if Zhang Dawei and Melissa can be said to be a very sweet and loving couple, but the two of them sometimes have some of their own views on the same matter, and sometimes they can even be said to be two completely different views.
Therefore, it is natural to have some arguments like this, and two people often have debate competitions at home, both trying to convince each other through reasonable and well-founded arguments. Sometimes, it does have a very good effect, and this way of communication is used to achieve some tacit understanding.
Zhang Dawei thinks that this is a normal thing, and Melissa also thinks that this way of getting along is the healthiest; both people will not be arbitrary, even if they have some different views, but they will not impose their own views on the other, they will persuade each other, and they will try to get support.
Since it is a family, many things in the family naturally need to be decided through joint deliberation!
Zhang Dawei respects Melissa, and Melissa obviously cares about some of Zhang Dawei's views. There are even times when Baby and Little Enoch will put forward some of their opinions, even if there is a high probability that they will not be recognized, but sometimes they will also get some support and understanding.
This is the way Zhang Dawei's family gets along, although Zhang Dawei and Melissa are parents, they do know more things and truths. They are indeed taking care of and educating the baby and Enoch, but this is definitely not just because of their role as a father and mother.
This mode of getting along is recognized by Zhang Dawei and Melissa, which is also some of their tacit understanding, because in their opinion, this approach is more fair, equal, and more respectful of each other. When a family is together, sometimes we need some mutual respect like this.
Zhang Dawei and Melissa both think that they are doing quite well, but obviously the baby girl looks very ordinary, this little girl's performance seems to be a little arbitrary, this little guy looks a little bit arbitrary, this little guy looks a little bit powerful and very arbitrary.
"Enoch, you can't roll on the floor every day!" the baby said condescendingly, sitting on the sofa and looking at Enoch who was rolling, "Don't you know that Xiaobai and Xiaoqiao are changing moults now?
The cute Enoch raised his head and looked at his sister with a wink, as if he still looked a little confused about the situation, but Enoch was definitely used to being criticized by his sister every once in a while, and he was used to doing things according to some of his sister's instructions, which was also Enoch's growth, and this was Enoch's wisdom of life.
"Xiaobai is changing his moult again, Pooh and Little Joe and Rudolph are like this, they are now going to prepare for summer!" Look at the baby, this little girl still knows a lot of truths, "It's too hot in summer, so if you have a lot of hair on your body, it will be very hot." If you roll, the ground will be dirty!"
Enoch got up, lay on the sofa and looked at his sister and volunteered, "Sister, I'll sweep the floor." Enoch is the best, Enoch is the loveliest!"
Zhang Dawei glanced at Enoch, he now has some mental congestion, he now has some psychological imbalance, it is really psychological imbalance, serious psychological imbalance!
It's not that Enoch doesn't like to be coquettish, but Enoch actually likes coquettish personality very much, in front of his mother and his sister, Enoch's coquettish skills are natural and cute. Naturally, it also had a very good effect, and Enoch's mother and sister loved the cute little Enoch.
In front of Xiaobai, in front of Pooh, Little Joe and Rudolph, Enoch also likes to be coquettish, especially in front of Winnie and Xiaobai, Little Enoch is often coquettish. So Xiaobai and Pooh are also very doting on Enoch, because this is the cutest brother, the cutie who needs to be protected and cared for.
So Enoch is still very smart, and Enoch is indeed very innocent and cute. Enoch didn't actually become a straight man of steel at a young age because he was physically good or a little boy, and little Enoch was indeed as cute, mischievous, and clinging to their family as many boys of the same age.
It's just that Enoch occasionally coquettishly behaves to his father, but remember, it's only 'occasionally'. It is clear that in Enoch's mind, Dad was reliable and trusted by Enoch. But it seems that it is also Enoch's least close family now, this is the reality, the reality of Zhang Dawei's heart!
There's no way, who let the family spoil Enoch too much, and who makes Enoch's trusted family members very reliable, so even Enoch likes his father very much, but if you really want to say that there is a status order in Enoch's mind, Zhang Dawei probably doesn't want to admit it, but he knows a lot of reality.
This is where Zhang Dawei is sad and depressed, but sometimes, Zhang Dawei is really a little helpless, he really doesn't know what to say in the face of such a situation, and he doesn't know what to do to reverse his position in Enoch's mind and so on.
These things are really reluctant, because Zhang Dawei knows that sometimes 'comparing hearts to hearts' may not have the most satisfactory results, and he is now more or less dead-hearted, and he admits some reality.
For example, in the order of status in the mind of the fat son, for example, the fat son is indeed the least close to him, the father.
However, Zhang Dawei is quite pleased, even if he knows that he is not as good as Winnie and Xiaobai in Enoch's mind, it doesn't mean that Enoch doesn't like his father's children. It's just that in Enoch's mind, the weight of other family members is heavier, which is why Zhang Dawei feels that there is nothing to complain about.
Of course, he hopes that he is the most important thing in the hearts of his family, but Zhang Dawei does not think that his family must love him the most; for Zhang Dawei, the happiness of his family and the happiness of his family are more important than anything else.
And he himself is satisfied when he sees his family happy, so even if there are some small grievances, he can accept them.
It is normal for Zhang Dawei to have such thoughts, and Zhang Dawei has such an awareness, which can naturally be said to be a sign of his maturity.
So now seeing the baby and little Enoch arguing next to him, watching the two little guys seriously and seriously chatting about the scene of Xiaobai changing their moults during the change of seasons, Zhang Dawei is basically just watching happily from the side.
He doesn't think there's anything to worry about at all, and he believes that the children can handle these situations, and he believes that the children can definitely discuss a satisfactory result.
Even if Zhang Dawei is very clear, if nothing else, such a discussion process is probably the baby making a decision, and Little Enoch is basically the role of resolute implementation.
Zhang Dawei knows these things, and he doesn't plan to participate, because he believes in the children!
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