Chapter 2087: Quarrel

He still remembers what happened last night. Jiang Fan felt that yesterday was a bad day.

It is often said that quarrels help to strengthen relationships, and it is clear that this sentence is not particularly true.

"You're just a jerk. ”

When he heard this, she felt as if her world had collapsed. In fact, sometimes you don't need to care about what others say, because if there are cases you don't need to care at all, if a stranger scolds you, if a stranger evaluates you, if a stranger evaluates your character, then obviously you don't need to care at all. Because you know what kind of person you are. You also know your character.

But last night it was Bai Xiaohua who was scolding him. If it's a stranger, he can not care, but if it's Bai Xiaohua, then it's a different matter. Although she and Bai Xiaohua are not particularly familiar with each other, although he and Bai Xiaohua do not have a particularly deep relationship, it is obvious that the two of them have a good impression of each other. And the two of them have a good impression of each other because of each other's personalities, but at this time the other person seems to have completely overturned his goodness.

At that time, he did feel that life seemed to be very dark. Yes, many times you will feel the special darkness of life. It may be because I have been misunderstood, or it may be because I have been persecuted by others. Of course, it is possible that someone close to you has a wrong opinion of you. At this time, you should not complain, and at this time, you should not have any excessive thoughts, because at this time you should understand yourself, or because you should understand other people at this time. At this time you should calm yourself down, you should let yourself think quietly, you should let yourself think rationally.

"You're not insulting me, you're insulting yourself. ”

After Jiang Fan said this, he left directly, he understood what he meant by this sentence. Falling in love between two people is actually not a matter of one person. The reason why you are willing to fall in love with someone is because you appreciate the other person more. The reason why you are willing to fall in love with another person is because you feel that there is something you appreciate in the other party, the reason why Bai Xiaohua fell in love with her, she is sure that it is not because he is rich, and the reason why Bai Xiaohua is willing to fall in love with her, she is sure that it must be because of some merits in herself.

Bai Xiaohua really liked her advantages before. He likes his calmness, he likes how strong it is, and he likes his character. All in all, she likes this man, so he is willing to be with this man. But obviously, a lot happens in between when two people are together. It's possible that you'll have some misunderstandings, and it's possible that you'll have some unsatisfactory points. When you encounter a misunderstanding, you should understand that you should not be so arbitrary to make conclusions about others, and when you encounter a misunderstanding, you should understand that misunderstanding can actually happen very easily.

So late at night, Bai Xiaohua slowly quieted down. After calming down, Bai Xiaohua of course quickly understood that she was actually too extreme. At this time, of course, he should apologize. At this time, Bai Xiaohua also understood that she should apologize, but it was obvious that Bai Xiaohua did not apologize in the end.

On the one hand, it was because Bai Xiaohua felt that she should apologize to Jiang Fan in person, and on the other hand, Bai Xiaohua also felt that she was actually a little wronged. Yes. When two people quarrel, everyone feels that they are very wronged. Or in the process of quarreling, maybe what you care about is not who is right and who is wrong, what you care about is whether the other party tolerates you.

"Jiang Fan. I'm giving you a day, and if you don't reach out to me, then we can say goodbye. ”

Jiang Fan felt that today was a bad day, and obviously, Bai Xiaohua also felt that today was a bad day. She's even bad at playing with herself. Bai Xiaohua is not a person who likes to gamble with himself, because he understands that he should be rational, because he understands that a rational life is the right life, because he understands that he is not qualified to be angry.

Yes, he knows what kind of person he is, he also knows what kind of character he is, and if he is angry, if he is unreasonable, he will not even be able to forgive himself. To put it bluntly, Bai Xiaohua is a person who cares about other people's opinions, and Bai Xiaohua is a person who cares about other people's emotions. To put it bluntly, Bai Xiaohua is a person who cares about the feelings of others.

So many times, Bai Xiaohua tries to control his behavior as much as possible, and many times he needs to think about it before he makes some behaviors, because he is afraid that his behaviors will cause some trouble, because he is afraid that these behaviors will make others uncomfortable. Because he is afraid that his actions will make others feel his malice. In fact, he is not a person who has malicious intentions towards others, or rather, if it wasn't for others to provoke him first, it is obvious that she would not provoke others. If it weren't for someone else who provoked her, it was obvious that he wouldn't allow himself to do some counter-action. If it weren't for someone else who provoked her, it was obvious that he wouldn't have done anything excessive to others. In fact, Bai Xiaohua is a person who takes special care of other people's feelings. Of course, it's not that a family doesn't enter the door, Jiang Fan is also such a person.

Just when Bai Xiaohua was angry, Jiang Fan actually roughly understood the problem between the two people, and it was obvious that there was a misunderstanding between the two people. In fact, this matter is very simple to say. At that time, Jiang Fan admitted that he was a little carried away, because it was clear that the recent life was the life he wanted. The recent life is not a life of fighting and killing, the recent life is a life of peace of mind.

"Jiang Fan. I feel like you're looking good today. ”

"Boss, has you had any happy events lately? I feel like you have a lot more smiles on your face. ”

"Boss, are you in love?"

Jiang Fan encounters these problems every morning, yes. Obviously, Jiang Fan was not a simple person before, or if you were an immortal cultivator, if you stayed in an environment of deceit for a long time, if you stayed in a world of the weak and the strong for a long time, you were not a simple person at all, or that you had no way to make yourself pure, and you could not become pure, because once you became pure, then you would be finished, and you would be eaten by others.

In fact, after coming to this world, Jiang Fan felt very early on that he should change his lifestyle, or that he was actually tired of his previous life, of course, it is not particularly appropriate to say that he was tired, if there is a chance to let him leave this world now, if there is a chance to let him live his previous life again, if there is a chance to let him fight with some immortal cultivators now, then it is obvious that he will not hesitate to choose that kind of life, or that she is actually used to the previous life, although the current life makes her feel very at ease, although the current life makes her feel very happy, although the current life makes her feel very novel, but obviously he doesn't belong here, he's not such a person, he doesn't belong to this world, he understands that he has to leave this world sooner or later, but it's clear that he should enjoy this world now, or he can take this as a trip, it can take the experience in this world as a memory, anyway, all in all, he should cherish the life of this world, so he understands what kind of person he should become, so a few days ago, he deliberately adapted himself to this world, and he also allowed himself to adapt to life here。

"Maybe life is all about experiencing different kinds of lives. Or life is about experiencing a life of different identities. ”

At that time, Jiang Fan told himself this, but obviously, he is a little tired of this kind of life now, because there will be misunderstandings in this kind of life, because there will be some messy things in such a life, it is obvious that if he encountered these things in the past, he would not care at all, or in the previous world, in the previous life, according to his lifestyle, he would not have encountered such a thing at all.

"I should continue to live happily on a new day. ”

But when a new day came, he felt as if he had forgotten all about the previous night. Yes, she has forgotten about the unpleasantness of last night, he has forgotten about the misunderstanding of last night, of course, not that he has forgotten what happened last night, but that he has forgotten those negative emotions of last night. Everyone has negative emotions, when negative emotions hit, obviously you should eliminate these emotions as soon as possible, if you are a very ordinary person, if you are an ordinary worker, then obviously you should eliminate these ordinary emotions, because these ordinary emotions will affect you, because these negative emotions will make your work not go well. If you don't work well, obviously you will make some mistakes, and at this time, your life will be affected, just like Jiang Fan now.

He knew that he shouldn't care about these negative emotions, or if this was a trip, if it was a trip he liked, if it was a trip that he had to go through, then why should he care more about important things and less about small things.