562 Raising a child is hard

Zhang Dawei is very satisfied with his cooking skills, and watching his family enjoy the delicious meals he cooks, Zhang Dawei is full of a sense of accomplishment.

For a chef, the greatest affirmation is to see the diners move their appetites, and the biggest affirmation is that these delicacies are all eliminated, which is the best praise for a chef!

Zhang Dawei is proud now, he knows that his cooking skills have been recognized. Although Pooh, Little Joe, and Rudolph are generally not picky eaters, Baby and Xiaobai definitely don't wipe out the food when they see it, they are the type who never gets tired of eating.

So these two little guys have now finished dinner with a good taste, and the baby also gave a thumbs up for sure, which is enough to show Zhang Dawei's cooking skills. Even Zhang Dawei was a little inflated, he felt that even if he opened a restaurant, he would definitely be able to achieve great success.

Of course, this kind of thing is just thinking about it, running a restaurant is not a simple thing, Zhang Dawei thinks that he still does not have such an ability and ability, so he still does a good job as a rancher, which is a profession that Zhang Dawei likes more.

What's more, Zhang Dawei also knows very well that running a restaurant is actually quite tiring. As a person who likes to be lazy, Zhang Dawei doesn't plan to take the initiative to make trouble for himself, that's definitely not something a smart person would do.

Obviously, Zhang Dawei thinks of himself as a smart person, and he is also a self-aware person. Even if he gets the baby's affirmation, Zhang Dawei also knows very well that his cooking skills are still very different from those of a real chef;

So even if it was a little inflated, Zhang Dawei quickly calmed down, and he definitely wouldn't get carried away. He knows that he still needs to stay calm, this is Zhang Dawei's normal performance, this is Zhang Dawei's true character!

Melissa looks a little unhappy now, perhaps because she is still thinking about delaying aging, so she now seems to have more perseverance and self-control;

So Melissa continued her healthy meals, nutritious meals, and she didn't want to give up halfway. She thinks that she has seen some trends that are starting to get older, so this time has to work hard, and she must let time go slowly, at least on her face, it should seem that time passes more slowly.

That's what Melissa thinks, that's what she's doing now, and it seems that Melissa is really moving, and she's very serious and focused now, without the slightest slackness.

This kind of paranoia and hard work even made Zhang Dawei a little shocked, he still knows Melissa very well, so seeing Melissa's current performance, Zhang Dawei feels a little strange, because Melissa in the past was almost not in such a state as she is now, and she is not as serious as she is now.

So this can be seen that beauty is really too important for women, and this is even the knot in the hearts of all women. Everyone has a love for beauty, which does not mean that men like beautiful women, but also that women are pursuing more beautiful and moving......

The smart Zhang Dawei felt that it was better for him not to say anything at this time, and the smart Zhang Dawei also knew that he only needed to silently support Melissa now. Even if he thinks Melissa is making a little fuss, Zhang Dawei will definitely not say it without knowing the current affairs, that is to make trouble for himself!

This can be regarded as Zhang Dawei's philosophy of survival, if he angers the sensitive Melissa at this time, there will definitely be no good fruit to eat.

Zhang Dawei knows this very well, so he knows what he should do more clearly, he knows that at this time, he is still honest and not attracting attention, this is the most correct way, this is the most correct choice to live with peace of mind.

Zhang Dawei also understands that Melissa's current state is not good, and a big reason is actually because of the baby. Therefore, Zhang Dawei feels that he needs to be more low-key at this time, he must not set himself on fire, and he must not venture into this muddy water, because he really can't afford to provoke him!

In fact, why Zhang Da is not worried, but also feels that he is really a little powerless, smiling bitterly and comforting himself, this may be the process he must go through, this is even the situation that every parent will encounter, so he can only accept this reality.

The rebellion of the children, this is actually what many family members are sometimes powerless, and in the face of such a situation, countless parents are only left with a wry smile and a hard time.

As for the effect, it naturally depends on the education level of parents. This is not even at the level of such a specific moment, but a concentrated manifestation of the strategy of educating children for a long time, which is also a good proof of the children's character and character.

Being a parent is never a simple thing, and cute children can sometimes be a headache, they are not just little angels.

Newborn children are fragile and need to be cared for. And seeing the innocent smiling face of a child in a young infancy will certainly make people feel happy. But at that time, the children relied almost entirely on instinct, maybe they just liked to cry, day and night, and didn't care about the occasion.

No way, that's the truth, accept it or not, that's the reality. Little babies, they are not reasonable and obedient at this time, because they really don't understand anything.

Therefore, when parents take care of the little angels with innocent smiles, there will inevitably be some headaches. These are the things that must be experienced to give birth to children, and these are some of the situations that all parents will inevitably encounter.

As the saying goes, "raising a child at the age of 100 will be 99 years old", this is the reality, this is the mentality of the vast majority of parents.

Afraid of knocking, afraid of bumping, afraid of getting hot when it's hot, afraid of catching a cold when it's cold, worrying is a true portrayal of every parent. Worry about your child's health, worry about your child's psychology, worry about your child's learning and growth, worry about your child's future and work, and even worry about your child's family......

has an endless heart, and there will always be children in their hearts, so the vast majority of parents are really not simple, let alone easy.

The baby slowly grows up, learns to walk, learns to speak, and begins to understand some truths. Of course, this is a happy thing, and this is also the pride and expectation of parents, but it is also a time when countless parents continue to have headaches, and even more worries follow.

Children, don't think that children are lively and cute, and don't think that as long as you educate patiently, little children will definitely be well-behaved and obedient, because that is just a beautiful imagination, which is simply unrealistic.

For example, the baby is a little girl, she has always been smart and obedient, and the baby is indeed an intimate little padded jacket most of the time. But this is only most of the time, and Zhang Dawei and Melissa are very proud, because the baby is more well-behaved and obedient than other children, but only relatively.

The baby has now slowly understood some truths, and she has now begun to slowly have some of her own cognition and judgment, no longer just hearing some suggestions and education from her parents. In the final analysis, it is the baby who learns to think, and the baby has his own ideas.

So sometimes, the baby has some of her ideas and judgments, and sometimes, of course, such ideas will be supported and suggested, because Zhang Dawei and Melissa think that the baby's ideas are still more interesting, so they will naturally choose to support some of the baby's decisions, which is no problem!

But sometimes, because the baby's knowledge is limited and her ideas are not mature enough, some of her ideas are naturally impossible to realize, let alone get the support of her parents, because those ideas really can't be supported.

So at such a moment, the baby may feel unhappy, but the baby will still choose to be obedient. And sometimes, the baby may not be obedient, because she really wants to stick to her own ideas and decisions, such a moment, maybe it is to take out some of the privileges of the child.

Crying, splashing and rolling, such things have not happened to the baby, even if the baby is an obedient child, but in the end it is a child, so many things are impossible not to happen at all.

This can be regarded as one of the headaches of Zhang Dawei and Melissa, because the baby now has her own ideas. Sometimes, it is not easy to convince children who have their own ideas, or even impossible to convince these little ones.

Melissa looks a little sensitive now, like a volcano about to erupt, and there is naturally some 'credit' for the baby, because of the baby's little girl's 'provocation', Melissa is now a little sulky.

Zhang Dawei wants to say that he doesn't care about it, it's fake, but he also knows that there is still no way to put such a thing on the line, not to mention the baby and Melissa, in fact, the baby and he occasionally have such conflicts and unhappiness. Even the closest people sometimes have unhappy moments like this.

This is normal, but it will be necessary to see how such a situation is handled next. Happiness and contradictions cannot be completely avoided, but we cannot let them go unchecked, and it is extremely important to find a good solution to such contradictions when they arise.

Melissa is now arguing with the baby, and she is a little depressed now. Because she can't convince the baby, because the baby has her persistence and ideas, because the baby seems to be resigned.

Seeing that Melissa was a little depressed now, Zhang Dawei was actually a little helpless. When facing the baby, Zhang Dawei is sometimes in such a helpless and helpless situation, and sometimes he will feel that he really can't educate the baby better.

Speaking of which, the baby has grown up, that is, the baby has grown up, and this little guy understands some truths. Therefore, the baby will sometimes take her set of specious truths and speak, and even some of the baby's theories will make her parents have suffering.

This is the situation that Zhang Dawei and Melissa are encountering now, and this is the reality that the two of them have to accept. Because in the process of every child's growth, such things really happen, and this is a process that children must go through when they grow up.

"Honey, Sweetheart is becoming more and more rebellious now, I understand some of your worries now!" Melissa fell weakly on the bed and said in distress, "Honey, I understand your feelings, and I now think that there are times when I really don't want my children to grow up. ”

Zhang Dawei smiled bitterly, of course he understood this feeling, "But we can't stop time, we all have to accept such a reality." What we can do may be to be better parents and accompany our children's growth, even if sometimes it can be a headache. ”

"She talked to me a lot today, you know a lot of her reasoning, she always has a theory to back her up. Melissa hugged the pillow and began to roll, looking a little depressed and trying to go crazy, "She caught my flaw, I can guarantee that it was only an unintentional flaw, this is the basis for her to refute me!"

This is not surprising at all, because Zhang Dawei has also experienced some such things, and he has not been less helpless to be caught by the baby and then refuted...... Many parents will actually experience such situations.

Don't underestimate the children, don't talk in front of the children. Maybe these children will remember something, and maybe this will become some basis for the children's behavior. Perhaps, this has become the best performance of some parents lifting stones to shoot themselves in the foot.

Zhang Dawei and Melissa are now chatting about some things about the baby, some of the performance of the baby's smart little girl, and some of the performances that make them helpless and crying and laughing.

These, naturally, are also some of their troubles, because the baby is a little girl, and she is very smart. So some of the performances of this little girl also made Zhang Dawei and Melissa feel a little 'frightened', for fear of being caught by the baby.

The two of them are also having a serious discussion, definitely not thinking about establishing the authority of their parents or anything like that. Even if it looks a little embarrassing for the time being, Zhang Dawei and Melissa don't need to care about such a face.

What they care more about is actually the baby's education, and what they care more about is actually about the child's future.

We have to come up with a better way, and we have to find a better and more suitable way to educate the baby as they grow, and this is what Zhang Dawei and Melissa should do. (https:)

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