If life is a journey with no return, a journey from darkness to darkness, then what illuminates our journey is the kindness, beauty and warmth of the world. It also includes self-breakthrough, transformation, transformation and growth in the journey. The kindness, beauty and warmth of others are the outer light, giving us strength and direction. The wave-like progress of the self is the internal inexhaustible motivation, supporting us to walk firmly step by step and walk without hesitation.

In this three-day training class, a total of lectures and training courses were conducted, and the teacher was okay when he spoke, and everyone pretended to understand whether they could understand or not. I have received a lot of information, whether it can be digested or not, and how much it can be digested.

I was impressed by a teacher named Yu Wensheng, dressed in a decent suit, with black hair, and looking elegant and graceful in his gestures. Yu Yuanming suddenly felt that he was very much like someone, not referring to appearance, but to temperament. But for a moment I couldn't remember who it looked like.

Later, after class, some of my friends met Mr. Yu and talked to him. Yu Yuanming was not easy to interject on the side, and when he asked the classmate after he left, he found out that he was a group trainer. Moreover, it is a group training course to participate in at his own expense, and the teacher is Zheng Shunwen, who is known as the father of group training in Chinese mainland. No wonder! His words and deeds are the embodiment of Zheng Shunwen. Yu Yuanming only then saw what influence is!

Of course, the most memorable thing for everyone is the one-minute, three-minute, and five-minute speeches.

It's also a temporary drawing of questions, and the preparation time is very short, and it's also a speech by a group of people in the face of black pressure, and what's worse is that there is a camera facing you a few meters in front of you! It must be fully expressed in Mandarin! And you can't mention insurance, all words mentioning insurance are fouls, and you will be deducted points. (The most talked about every day is insurance, and you don't want to mention it.) It's too embarrassing, isn't it?)

The pressure under the multi-party squeeze is unprecedentedly huge!

Many people are anxious, frightened, nervous, afraid of difficulties, and can't eat or sleep well before such pressure, which is simply a kind of mental torture.

Seeing the embarrassment of the teacher, I can't wait to find a crack in the ground to get into. The point is that the other students are still laughing forward and backwards! But when I finished my own release, the role turned around when I looked at the others. Some Mandarin has a strong dialect flavor, and even H and F are not distinguished. The occurrence is pronounced as "slippery", the meal is said to be "eaten", and the merry flow is said to be "boom". Some were at a loss, standing on the stage for a long time, their faces were red, and they didn't know how to speak after biting their lips for a long time. Some keep licking their lips and swallowing saliva. Some laughed as soon as they came on stage, and they couldn't hold it back. I finally held it back, and when I saw that he was about to speak, he burst out laughing again.

Of course, there are also joyful places, through learning, the teacher's guidance, learned to be happy, release the pressure of going on stage.

I learned to ask interactive questions, learned to combine storytelling with reasoning, learned to use a whiteboard to delay time and relieve stress, and understood the simple truth that there is no perfect lecturer.

There is also the knowledge of dealing with difficult students, controlling the class, and pausing in tone. There are too many, I have memorized some of them, and I still need to use them flexibly in actual work, and I can be handy and brilliant only after frequent practice.

In this training, in addition to learning, everyone also had some private exchanges. Especially the exchange of adult jokes, Yu Yuanming understood what Fan Jianhua said last time: I listened to adult jokes once.

And when telling jokes, they deliberately did not avoid the young Teacher Peng. Teacher Peng pretended not to hear and was busy with his own business. Why did Yu Yuanming judge that she was pretending, because after these men and women finished speaking, her face suddenly turned red, and she walked away quietly without saying anything. (Later, I learned that Mr. Peng had just arrived at the training department, and this was the first time to lead the class;)

There are several stories that are deeply impressive, and Yu Yuanming is also laughing so much that tears come out. I thought that there would be a joke to talk about at the meeting in the future.

This training gave Yu Yuanming a lot of nutrition, it turned out that what others said was useless, but it was actually wrong. Or overestimate Yu Yuanming's ability. He himself knows that there is a significant difference between having methods and skills and relying on instinct. Thinking back to how embarrassed he was when Xu Xiubo suddenly called to give a lecture for the first time, it was really unbearable.

That is, there is no discipline, there is no basic skills, even if you can speak well, it is not the same thing! Because teaching is a professional skill that needs to be determined according to the course content, the situation of the students, the teaching time, and the purpose of the course. A large part of the life and death of the initial students in the market comes from the teacher's teaching in the classroom.

So it's a big responsibility!

The three-day study together also gave everyone a feeling, and the enthusiastic students made an address book. Sort it out and paste it on the back of the group photo, and it corresponds to the seat of the group photo one by one. At this time, Yu Yuanming learned that the woman who smiled lightly on the day of the report was originally Yin Xuan, a relatively rare surname. A few others also have names and people on them. However, the collectors misnamed some of the people and made jokes.

When I was training for my speech, I felt that time was very slow, as if it had frozen. The wind doesn't blow, people don't move, and I'm left standing in a daze on the stage, and I even have a hallucination, am I dreaming?

As soon as the training was over, everyone felt that three days was too fast! Before we got to know each other, we were going to break up. Everyone has a sense of attachment.

Having said that, it is still necessary to go back to each agency and return to a series of normal work such as holding morning meetings, looking for customers, talking about insurance, refusing to deal with it, signing bills, handling preservation, and increasing staff.

After coming back, several people shared their experiences at the morning meeting, and also described the difficulty and embarrassment for those who did not participate. In the midst of enthusiastic laughter, everyone was also imagining the various situations of the training class, and finally told an adult joke that received the most applause.

After participating in the training, Yu Yuanming officially became a part-time lecturer. And through the application of what I have learned, I have gained a lot of new knowledge. The so-called teaching and learning are mutually beneficial, and the growth of lecturers is inseparable from the podium, and it is inseparable from self-reflection and learning.

And from that time on, Yu Yuanming's lectures began to have class time fees. It's not much, but it feels very good! And he insisted on teaching in Mandarin, although it was not standard, but he also insisted. Hopefully, the long-term effort will get better and better.

But he didn't know that at this time, a major personnel change was about to occur in the company. Of course, this change has a far-reaching impact on Yuanming, and it is also unexpected for many people, and there is a follow-up story extension. In this change, some people showed their true colors, and Yu Yuanming once again realized the complexity of human nature!