Zhang Dawei feels that he needs to reflect on it, because in some things, he does not seem to be a good role model, and he does seem to have some not very good influence on the growth of children.

This is indeed something that Zhang Dawei is seriously thinking about now, because who makes parents the first teachers of their children. This is to lead by example, and this is to bring good proof and role models to children as they grow up.

Look at what Zhang Dawei is doing now, if he doesn't reflect on it now, it will be some of the most irresponsible performances.

Look at some of the small habits that the baby is developing now, which of course makes Zhang Dawei even more embarrassed and stressful.

Obviously, the baby is learning from Zhang Dawei, and in the baby's opinion, her father is the most amazing influence. The baby admires her father very much, so this little girl has inevitably learned some things from her father.

There's no need to work hard or anything like that, because it doesn't need to be like that at all.

Because the baby has long been accustomed to seeing her father not working hard at all, and then easily defeating others. So for the baby, she also thinks that this is the most normal way, this is the most correct way.

Hard work, it's impossible, and it doesn't seem like I'm going to study hard seriously in this life.

Anyway, you can easily win, you can defeat your opponent without hard work, then this is enough, there is time to study hard, it is better to watch cartoons at home, or play games with Xiaobai and Pooh, which is more meaningful.

These are the habits that the baby is developing now, and this is what she has been influenced by Zhang Dawei's words and deeds.

Sometimes I have to admit that talent is the most unfair, some people will study hard, almost like a head cantilever and a cricket, which is absolutely serious and hard-working. However, the efforts of these people may not necessarily be able to achieve some achievements.

And some people seem to be a little careless, and there will be some people who do not do their jobs properly, but with such a lazy attitude, they can actually achieve good achievements, and achieve achievements that those who work hard cannot achieve.

This is really unfair, this is the real talent determines the lower limit, the so-called diligence can make up for the clumsiness, but this is also under the absolute talent of fair diligence, people who work harder can achieve greater achievements. And such absolute fairness is obviously unrealistic, otherwise many athletes will work hard, and they will succeed one by one early.

Zhang Dawei doesn't care about the so-called fairness or unfairness, and Zhang Dawei doesn't think that everyone's starting line is the same.

What he knows is the baby's starting line, although he can't win all the children, but he will definitely not lose too much to other children. Even the vast majority of children may need a lot of hard work through most of their lives to reach the baby's starting line.

This is the reality, because Zhang Dawei has now created good conditions for his children. Zhang Dawei doesn't have such noble temperament, he doesn't think about what will help the world, he doesn't have that kind of sentiment.

For Zhang Dawei, taking care of his family is more important than anything else, and running his family well is the first thing for him.

For Zhang Dawei, educating his children well is obviously also a matter of great importance. For Zhang Dawei, even if he knows that his children have a pretty good starting point, he also hopes that his children will develop more smoothly in the future, and he hopes that the children will take fewer detours.

"Honey, look at the impact you have had on the children!" Melissa angrily hammered Zhang Dawei with her small fist and complained, "We all know that the baby is a genius, and she is very smart. But she's developed bad habits, and she's now learned to use her talent to easily reach a good level. ”

Zhang Dawei was embarrassed, because Melissa was telling the truth, "I will seriously consider this matter now, and I will try my best to bring some good influence to the baby." Believe me, I'm going to get serious about it, I'm going to educate the kids better, I can promise it!"

If you know that something has happened, you can't pretend not to know.

Zhang Dawei is indeed a relatively lazy person, there is no doubt about this. Zhang Dawei is indeed a person who is a little rich and secure, this is Zhang Dawei's character, there is nothing to discuss.

A lot of things seem to Zhang Dawei to be short-sighted, or open-minded, because he doesn't seem to care about some things that many people are extremely passionate about, and he seems to have let go of a lot of things that could have made him achieve more.

These are all real, these are all kinds of things that have happened around Zhang Dawei, which is naturally what Zhang Dawei knows.

When it comes to understanding, Zhang Dawei doesn't think that anyone else knows himself better than him. Zhang Dawei knows what his personality is like, he knows what kind of lifestyle he likes, so no matter what others say, Zhang Dawei feels that he is happy, and he feels that the happiness of his family is more important than anything else.

Zhang Dawei really doesn't care much about many things, especially the so-called career, but there are some things that Zhang Dawei cares about very much, and there will be no slackness and sloppiness at all.

This naturally refers to the children's education problem, Zhang Dawei doesn't care about the children's academic performance, doesn't care about whether the children are studious or not, etc.; anyway, Zhang Dawei knows that the baby and Enoch will definitely receive a better education. It's not even an exaggeration to say that the two little ones will definitely be fine when they go to college in the future.

The reason is naturally that in the United States, the children of wealthy families are high-quality students, and many children from ordinary families want to go to good universities, so they naturally need to be 'excellent in character and learning'. And the children of these rich families are basically using money to open the way, and it is normal for them to be admitted to some high-quality universities.

Zhang Dawei knows this, Melissa also knows this, and it is not an exaggeration to say that many Americans know this, because it has been such an operation mode for a long time, and there is no need to feel new at all, this is the correct enrollment status of a good university.

If you want to talk about fairness, there is no fairness at all, and those chicken soups and the like are just a little coaxing.

I believe that chicken soup can bring success, it is better to read more books in a down-to-earth manner, and it is better to do a good job seriously, so that the burden on the family may be reduced, and the life of the family may be better.

Or do the work in front of you in a down-to-earth manner, this is the most important thing that Zhang Dawei thinks, and this is also what Zhang Dawei is constantly trying to do well. Of course, this is also Zhang Dawei's self-righteous opinion, he thinks that he must have set a good example for the children, leaving the children with a down-to-earth and pragmatic image, but now it seems that this is Zhang Dawei is just deceiving himself.

Isn't it obvious, his intimate little padded jacket seems to have 'gone astray', and the little padded jacket has learned to be 'complacent'. For the baby, this little guy has developed some concepts that make people cry and laugh under the influence of her father, this is Zhang Dawei's pot, a huge pot.

Maybe in the baby's opinion, she can achieve the achievements of ordinary people, and it is enough that she can be better than most people. If you really want to talk about it, the baby feels that as long as it doesn't lose to most people, then it's acceptable, and if you have to do the best, then you have to see if it's worth it.

This is some of the baby's thoughts, this is some of the things the baby is doing now, this little girl doesn't necessarily think that 'Mu Xiu will be destroyed by the forest wind', but simply thinks that it is slightly better than most people, which is actually enough, it is enough to make a difference.

And for the baby, a lot of things are easier to learn, since you have mastered some basics, there is no need to study so deeply. Because there are many interesting things waiting for the baby to experience, the baby does not have time to spend too much time on one thing, she has to continue to play.

So this little girl has a wide range of interests, she also developed the habit of fishing for three days and drying nets for two days; If you can't play, then life is meaningless, she is willing to play the piano, but this is the baby's interest, she will play the piano once in a while.

But if you are caught to practice playing the piano, the little one will play well, but the whole process must be wrinkled and not happy at all.

This is the baby, this is the baby's habits, this little girl is making full use of her talent and intelligence, this little girl is in a wide range of interests at the same time there is no patience and perseverance. This little guy is easily complacent, easy to be proud, and it is enough to know a lot of things, and he will not even think about becoming an expert.

This seems to be a waste of talent, this is a waste of intelligence, because if this little girl grows up in the current state, it is very likely that she will achieve nothing in the future, and this little girl is likely to be able to do anything, but she can't do anything, probably just doing nothing.

It does seem that there is such a trend, who made this little girl such a character who has no perseverance and is playful.

But Zhang Dawei thinks it doesn't matter, he thinks there is no need to correct the baby's character; after all, the baby is still young, no one dares to guarantee what kind of character the little girl will be when she grows up, maybe the playful little girl will find out what she is interested in in the future, this is something that no one dares to guarantee.

Moreover, Zhang Dawei feels that there is no need to ask the baby to become a great person, and there is no need to ask the baby to become an expert and elite. If the baby is just an ordinary office worker, she can play the piano, like to dance, by the way, proficient in equestrianism, love fishing, good at flying cars......

In fact, there is nothing bad about this, as long as the baby is happy, this is enough for Zhang Dawei; he does not ask his children how much achievements or how much money they make, as long as they have no worries about food and clothing, and live happily, this is Zhang Dawei's biggest expectation for children.

And he can be regarded as making some money anyway, and I dare not say that I can guarantee that the children will be extremely rich, but as long as it is not an absolute loser who is extravagant, compared to the vast majority of people, Zhang Dawei believes that his children will definitely live quite well, and this is enough.

Although there are not too many requirements for the children, just simply hope that the children can be happy, but some things, still have to start from the baby, some things must not be left alone, otherwise there will be no benefit to the growth of the children.

Zhang Dawei knows these things, so now Melissa is denouncing Zhang Dawei, and Zhang Dawei is left with embarrassment, of course, he will pay attention to these things when he is embarrassed. Because in the final analysis, Zhang Dawei still cares about his children very much, and he still hopes that the children can live a better life.

When Zhang Dawei and Melissa were seriously discussing these things, the little ones obviously didn't know about them, and they naturally did what they had to do. For the baby and Enoch, now is the time to sleep, and only when you sleep well can you play better.

This is the character of Baby and Enoch, for these two little ones, there is nothing more important than playing games, and nothing can stop them from playing games. For these two little ones, playing games with their parents is the happiest and happiest thing.

"Dad, I'm not Enoch!" The baby sitting on the bed was full of arrogance, and the little girl proudly took the socks and said, "I can wear my own socks now, I will wear clothes." Enoch is a child, he doesn't know anything but crying, and he wants me to help take care of him!"

Looking at the baby's skillful socks, Zhang Dawei suddenly won a series of praises, although this behavior is not necessarily the baby's genius, but Zhang Dawei and Melissa have always encouraged education, so the baby is always so confident, proud, because the baby has always been the best.

"Dad, I don't want Mommy to wipe my ass now!" the baby was even more proud, and the little girl said proudly, "I can go to the toilet by myself very early." But Enoch couldn't, he peed his pants yesterday, and he wet them all at once. ”

Zhang Dawei was a little funny, smiled and helped the baby tidy up his clothes a little and said, "He is just too playful and too involved in playing games." When I remembered to pee, I couldn't hold it back, so I had to pee my pants all at once. ”

Enoch does occasionally pee his pants now, basically because he is too involved in playing games, and this kid probably can't hold back and solves it on the spot. So it's normal to pee your pants once in a while, not to mention a child like Enoch who has just turned one year old, even if it's a slightly older child.

At most, Enoch is not ashamed, although the family always teases him, but this crazy little guy is very proud, and several times when he bathes and changes clothes after wetting his pants, this child will proudly run around the house with his bare little ass.

This is a living treasure, as long as the family looks at him and smiles happily, Enoch will not be ugly no matter what he does; for a child of Enoch's age, it is indeed at the age of shamelessness, and the behavior of the little guy is basically out of nature and instinct.

With such a pair of children, Zhang Dawei is of course happy, but he also knows that he must educate his children well, definitely!(https:)

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