28: We are our us
Hate yourself, you can't control it with your hands, you can't connect your heart with your eyes, you can't read your mind with your mouth, but in this world of the jungle, I'm still the same me I used to be, now or tomorrow's now, for the heart that suffers with me, I will use my blood, a lifetime of lifeblood to fight for it, to burn my beginning, to light up the soul of the future, because I believe that the language of giving life is a rare and valuable spirit, but give up everything, you can give up the heartbeat, at that time, before the heart stops, I can still use burning to fight for the value of every moment of my life。 Pen ~ fun ~ pavilion www.biquge.info
Beginning and end are two words, but we read the heartbeat of the end, and we will not explain our beginnings for a lifetime, maybe our thinking logic has no reasoning, maybe our thinking program is less prepared, but for a person who can read, he will use other people's language to measure people, and will also use other people's ability to do things to reject people, and will use the words faced to give up a person, which is a way for us, permission for us, maybe it is our disagreement, because we are not strong enough, we have no ability to say the pattern, there is no knowledge to control the rejection, only the opportunity to give up is delayed every day。
It is a person who can do the thinking, maybe ten people can not communicate, it is ten people can hold the materials, maybe one person can not move, only to measure the wisdom and strength, to see the surface, the reality found, our strength, far from the wisdom of the person behind the reading time, ten people can carry the materials in a day, but one person with wisdom half an hour to carry the material, will let us find that this wisdom of the person, in the previous preparation of each effect, and our strength did not control the wisdom, the wisdom of others but the same control of strength。
In just a moment, we can recognize others, but we can't directly say our own mistakes, a word, you, make a sound of accusation, send out the judgment of fate, but have we ever thought about it, others also have complaints in their hearts, just because our courage is too fast, not to give others a chance to speak, maybe because our habit is afraid that others will expose their shortcomings, afraid that others will make a fool of themselves, it is because we dare not admit it, so we will not be polite, let others think that they are people who will not respect people, and the next meeting has become a joke of refusal.
Every time personal thinking appears, it does not mean that many people recognize, we only need a kind of person recognition is enough, that is, people who know how to control, because the world hears very little of their own words, can see their own words will be less, and experience their own words will be less, please remember that when eating, there is no need to tell some of your own things to those who don't understand, so that others think they are talented, but some people say that they are not thorough behind their backs, such language may be very exciting, but for those deeds, those languages, even if we say a thorough, and there can be a few ways to implement it。
Learn to guess, but also learn to calculate, but also learn to be flexible, you, me, he, you, we, individual, collective, partial, because our lifeblood is inseparable from these important words, oh, maybe in the eyes of many people respect someone else, some people have seen these words as a lifetime of money, some people have seen these words as a lifetime of friends, we can recognize the word, read is familiar, but we control may not be strange, because can gather, and then go to disperse, and then take out the talent to communicate the wisdom of the communication line, is very difficult。
Asking questions, answering questions, waiting for questions, giving orders, the four essential manuals of transportation, we follow almost the first one can't do, we arrange almost the second one is incapable, we chase almost the third one can't smile, the fourth one we change is almost impossible to judge, maybe these four different formats will affect their own pattern, but there is no prepared barcode, no preparation for analysis, we can't even figure out the changes of one of them, we can't even rule on the implementation of one of them.
Tell yourself, not to give up on yourself, choose to present your own mistakes, not to let others laugh, but to prepare for your own tomorrow, because if we don't admit our mistakes in advance, then tomorrow's mistakes will be swallowed? For the heartbeat, there will be no cumulative analysis, no increase in judgment, and an explanation planted in the hearts of others, it is better to arrange it in your own thinking world, because you have a future, and others also have a tacit understanding of the state of mind, and there is no need to raise your head and forget your own mistakes and discuss the fruits of others.
When we find a tree, we may not find the change of the four seasons, we can master the language, may not master the thinking of education, when others use the pattern to communicate, when they use stupid methods to dredge, some people laugh, some people will not accumulate, because of ability, or because of instinct, sometimes only when the figure is right, when everyone waits and sees, speak quickly, judge early, lose the really good, forget the real beginning, and make the real start ruling, only to communicate the final mistake。
When we start gossiping, some people are using the world view to guess their own thinking space, and the permission of each of our judgments can only be used as the bottom line of our own identification, not as the pattern of others' denial, a sentence appears again, many people begin to attack, what we deny is not a yesterday's story, but the mouth of affirmation, how clumsy our mouth is, how shallow our ability is.
Looking back, we may not think about the next preparation for doing things, and we will not think about the next preparation for doing things, but many people reading today have started a close layout for their lifelong planning, don't ask others why they are so bitter, why don't they ask themselves why they don't fight, when we find that others stimulate our hearts, maybe our normal reaction will be refusal, we can't accommodate other people's words, but we can't correct our next face。
A loss, may not be the beginning of a sober life, a success, may not recognize any pace of failure, we see clearly is only a step, or a line of their own, some people's ruling, positioning their own lifelong survival, some people's education, closed the heart of childhood, closed the face of this life, we can not be a person who changes others, or can not change their own people, our decisions are given by others, our judgment is our own, we make mistakes every time, and we can't rescue ourselves。
It is very simple to experience others, maybe it is a warm word, maybe it is a clean courtesy, maybe it is a moving word, but for ourselves, we have to think of the future, first respect our own hearts, and then adjust our own thinking, improve our own language pattern, change our way of thinking, in order to learn to refuse, may offend many people, but what we want is a common future, rather than blindly let others experience themselves, when many people do not understand themselves, maybe it is when they begin to awaken。
Everyone's equation is in the calculation of others, even if it is calculated with background, or calculated by parents, or calculated by their own behavior, we all have to learn to piece together our own thinking world, lonely space, because everyone needs to rest their eyes, rest their thinking, and an important point, that is, to open the door of their own wisdom, to understand the life of a lifetime of rejection, the necessary textbooks will speed up themselves, but if you accelerate for a long ten years, it will be delayed for a lifetime, or the value of a group of people, that is, your own behavior has the final say。
In a direction, in a place, looking back at the past, thinking of the future, calculate, every moment of our life, we must strive to grasp our own life, do not because of the pattern of every minute, to delay a lifetime today, because everyone has only one today, everyone's unknown should not be written in the mouth of others, because we are human beings, learning to be polite is a must, learning to respect is for their own heart, because of learning, to understand the value of life, to understand the lifeblood of survival, to load their hearts into better wisdom。
Every point of departure, every line we see, and every space we read, there is a lot of wisdom to open, because everyone's drop, everyone's guess, the multi-directional thinking we gather, for a tree, or for a future that does not understand and cannot be seen, we must learn to give up an environment, develop an environment, with loneliness, or with a group, the way to control should be fast, the way to understand should be the judgment of speed, and the idea of adjudication should be read and communicated, because academics are very tired, but we must understand a person, always a person, for a person, the heart of ourselves, the wonderful life is to let others understand the sunshine, not delay。
If we don't have the thinking of a teenager and the experience of old age, we must learn to ask and learn to guess, because not everyone will be willing to spend a lifetime of effort to bloom a flower of wisdom for themselves, and there will be no more people to plant a sun for themselves, so if we get a tree, we should not cut down the whole forest because of someone else.
Oh, I said the tree, is a kind of losing fate, if we really can't judge the loss, then we must learn to accumulate the forest of success, this is a symbol of thinking, but also the flame of the soul, only let the heart burn, only let life explore, in order to control, in order to communicate with yourself, let yourself understand, is to let others clear, let yourself see through, is to let others harvest, let yourself taste, is to send out the change of seasons, render other people's hearts, let other people's experience accumulate their own destiny, not to control the fate of losing.