342 Coming home from school
Zhang Dawei looked at the baby with some amusement, and the little guy hung his head and carried a small schoolbag on his back and walked slowly to the school gate.
This is a little guy full of vitality, and this is also a little guy who likes kindergarten life more and more. It's just that this little guy doesn't mean that everything is going well, and the little guy will also have some of her troubles.
"Dad, a kid peed his pants today. The little guy saw his father and immediately ran over, leaned on Zhang Dawei's lap and began to complain, "I'm not happy at all, why do you have to pee your pants when you're already a big child?"
Picking up the baby, Zhang Dawei praised with a smile, "Because our baby is the smartest child, our baby has the best self-care ability." Other children can't, so we babies have to help them. ”
The little guy waved to the teacher obediently, but the noisy little guy was not too honest. In Dad's arms, the little one is naturally full of security. Waving his little hands and shaking his body, the goodbye also needs to be made louder, so that it is cute.
For the baby's performance, Zhang Dawei can be said to be not surprised at all, this is the baby's style, this is the performance that the little guy will have. As for saying that children are impolite, you can't ask the little guy to learn a special gentleman and lady, all social etiquette is extremely standard, not to mention that this is only a little guy about four years old.
Innocent and lively, Zhang Dawei and Melissa don't want to stifle the baby's innocence. As long as the baby is kind and friendly, this is enough. As for some small details, there is no need to care, anyway, they don't plan to make the baby a perfect child.
Zhang Dawei has been chatting with the baby all the way, and the process of picking up and dropping off the baby every day is never boring. This can be regarded as a way for father and daughter to get along, this is the moment of communication that belongs to them, so that they can also communicate their feelings well, Zhang Dawei has never wanted to be a strict father.
"Dad, I don't like my brother now. The baby suddenly thought of something and hurriedly said, "Dad, my brother is not fun." Ollie doesn't like his brother, and I don't like him anymore. ”
It seemed that the baby had met a new friend again, and Zhang Dawei gossiped and asked, "Which Ollie?"
"Olivia, I told you yesterday that I was painting with Ollie. The baby was a little upset, and the little one immediately denounced, "Dad, have you listened to me carefully?"
There's really no way around it, my baby daughter is very sensitive to some things. This little guy actually has the same personality as Xiaobai, that is, he can't be ignored.
What else can I do, naturally I should quickly explain some things to the baby. Obviously, Zhang Dawei is definitely not the type who usually chats with babies who are just perfunctory. For chatting with the baby, Zhang Dawei is still quite serious and concerned, and the conversation is quite sincere.
Quickly divert the topic, this is also a communication skill that Zhang Dawei learned, "Baby, why don't you like your brother anymore? If you have a sister, you are not the only cute little girl in the family." ”
"But the younger brother will be very naughty, and the little boy does not like the little girl's toys. The baby pouted, and now she found that her brother was not as good as her sister, "Daddy, if it was a younger brother, I wouldn't be able to dress him in a beautiful dress." Little boys are not allowed to wear skirts, but little girls prefer the most beautiful dresses. ”
This point of view is very correct, if a little boy wears a skirt, it is really quite a contradictory thing.
"Dad, I don't want a brother anymore, I want a sister now. The baby made a decision, and the little one said expectantly, "I went home and told Mommy that we would replace my brother with my sister." ”
The child's innocent thoughts make people cry and laugh, and make people break out in a cold sweat. This little guy thought he was shopping in the mall, and he thought it didn't suit him and planned to change it. The idea of this little guy really makes people laugh and cry. This smart little man really dares to think!
I didn't try to make the baby accept some points of view, because many things can be slowly recognized by the baby himself. The growth process of the little guy is actually a process of continuous cognition.
When he returned home, Zhang Dawei opened the car door.
The baby was excited and very happy, because when he saw the baby coming home, Xiaobai and Pooh all rushed over, they were the baby's best friends, and they were warmly welcoming the baby home.
"Dad, you go away!" the baby waved his little hands, the bold little guy is not duty, "I get out of the car by myself, I don't want you to hug me." ”
Zhang Dawei has a headache, naturally his baby daughter is really a little guy who is not a lot of courage. This little guy now wants to jump out of the car by himself, and he can't even get into the car by himself, and he wants to jump off the car directly, isn't it obvious that he will fall and get hurt.
However, seeing the baby so serious and serious, Zhang Dawei felt that it was not very realistic for him to persuade the baby. The most important thing is the existence of Xiaobai's little guys, who are all staying by the car door, ready to catch the baby who jumped out of the car.
Obviously, this is the reason why the baby wants to jump out of the car on his own. This little person is bold, because she knows that with a group of reliable friends, she doesn't need to worry about falling and hurting at all.
In the baby's plan, if she jumps out of the car, she will definitely be caught by Pooh, who can lie on Pooh's back. Or Rudolph, who has squeezed to the car door, and Rudolph wants the baby to climb directly on his back, and he wants to carry the baby out to play.
Zhang Dawei didn't bother to say anything, because he knew that even if he wanted to say something, it didn't really work. Obviously, even if this group of naughty bags is in the game now, he doesn't need to show the authority of the parents here, at most he can watch from the sidelines, so as not to make this group of lawless little guys go too far.
It seems that Zhang Dawei's role is even like this, and he must accept that his positioning is actually like this.
I feel very happy, the baby has such a group of lovely friends, so it will naturally have a happy childhood. Seeing the baby so happy, Zhang Dawei naturally felt that it was all worth it.
The little ones climbed onto Rudolph's back with their hands and feet, and then the little ones who shouted and screamed became triumphant, and at the sound of the order, the little ones ran home. And what Zhang Dawei has to do is to carry the baby's small schoolbag, and close the car door to follow this group of little guys.