"That's what I said, but since our ancestors have passed it down from generation to generation, and there is also an ancestral hall, it means that there must be something that can be passed on, so the people in our village must return to our ancestral tomb. Nie Damin is obviously still very conservative, believing that he can only be regarded as his final destination if he enters the ancestral tomb after death.

"That's okay, Brother Nie, you have the rules on your side, and there are things you need to abide by, I definitely can't say anything, but I just want to tell you, but you must cherish the people in front of you, but you can't wait until the old ones can't move, and you regret it until the last moment."

After all, sometimes if you miss it, you will be the person of most of your life, if you haven't lived to understand, then you may regret it in the end. Although Mu Yuntian's words made people feel a little provocative, his expression and voice were indeed very soft, and he didn't want to make this Nie Damin have any disgust and conflict with him because of his words.

After all, there are still many days in the future, and they need to do it with the help of this Nie Damin unknowingly.

"Little brother, in fact, if you say this, just talk to me, you must not say such things in front of other people in our village, if you say such things, then they will think that you are insulting them, and they will definitely drive you away!" Nie Damin said to him very vigilantly.

"Don't worry, Brother Nie, I just see that you are a real person, and I also think that your thoughts are different from theirs, so I said these words, I said these words to you, you just want to persuade you, I am afraid that you will regret it in the future." ”

"In fact, for the people of our family, the things that we don't regret are not important, as long as we can let ourselves live with status, dignity and face, it is the most important thing, but I sometimes think, don't you say that people are just asking for someone to accompany them in this life? After all, isn't it still two people to live a life? Why bother to make the husband and wife like strangers for the sake of those faces, and treat their wives like slaves? When I get old, if I don't have a person around me, how lonely will it be? So sometimes I can't be cruel to my mother-in-law, and I can't bear to treat him like those other people, but I have to do it, after all, the whole general environment is like this, I can't help it, I can't jump out of the flock by myself. ”

Although what Nie Damin said was a bit vulgar, the meaning of his words could also be understood, he was right, if just one person's mind changed, and everyone else was the same as always, then he would definitely not be accepted.

"Then Brother Nie, did you ever think that if the minds of the people in your entire village can change, maybe you can be kind to your wife as a matter of course? At that time, maybe you and your wife can treat each other like those couples outside, they both have love for each other, they can support each other, and they are also old companions?"

The group of them had already walked deeper and deeper, it seemed that the village behind the mountain had gradually been hidden by the woods, and no one else could hear them say these words, and at this time, Nie Damin was able to relax and talk to Mu Yuntian about this.

"Little brother, what you said is not wrong at all, I actually sometimes want to treat their mother and daughter well, after all, one is my wife and the other is my child, who doesn't want to love their own child? If I love her too much, then he will definitely be isolated by the people of the clan, and they will definitely do some hurtful things, in fact, thanks to her mother, I was able to send my daughter out, and also saved him from the tribulation of this family. Nie Damin sighed and said to him!

And Nie Qing, who heard him say these words behind him, instantly burst into tears, it turned out that his father's heart had always wanted to love him, he didn't really have no fatherly love for himself at all, he had actually been letting his mother make the decision to send him to school, and even sent him outside to school, in fact, he was also helping his mother to help him get out of the rule of this family, after all, for a girl, the people in the whole family did not attach too much importance to it, if it was a boy, the people in the family would definitely not tolerate letting him be left out, but if she was a girl, maybe the people in the family would not even look for him。

It turns out that his father has always loved him, after learning this, Nie Qing's heart seems to have caused a sadness, he has always thought that he has never received his father's love, his father has never paid attention to himself, he has always beaten and scolded, his life experience is very pitiful, but now when he heard his father talk to outsiders about these sincere words, he felt that he had always been in the love of his father and mother, and suddenly he felt very happy.

"Brother Nie, you and I are both fathers, you said that you have to endure it even if you love your children, you have to pretend that you don't love her, and you have to beat her and scold her, how sad should this be?"

"As fathers, our rights, our responsibility, in fact, is to be good to our children, we only love our children, let the children feel the warmth between parents, in order to let the children grow up well, although I don't know your daughter, I don't know what he has become, but if your daughter because of these traditional concepts of your family, as well as these things between your husband and wife, and become a person with a personality difference to the wrong path, what should you do?"

"What you're talking about, in fact......... I don't know much about what you said, but even if my child is bad outside, but he can enjoy the free world outside, I still feel gratified, I actually don't want him to come back, when the family wanted to force him to the director, I and her mother were actually very opposed, but I didn't dare to say it, and his mother boldly said it, to be honest, I'm a big man and not even a woman has the courage.

At the beginning, her mother said that my daughter was already married outside, and I knew that this must not be possible, and my daughter was still young at that time, how could she get married? So I knew that my mother-in-law must have done such a move to protect her daughter, and the people in the village would not let him go, for such a situation, the people in the village might put her to death, in fact, I also wanted to save her life, so in front of everyone, I beat him hard, and even beat him half-dead, which also made the people in the village angry, and felt happy when they saw the excitement, so they all dispersed, so they didn't execute her, and this is how he left his life。

Do you think I'm willing, I actually think I hurt in my heart when I beat him, more pain than him, that's the woman I brought back myself, that's the woman I fell in love with outside, which man is willing to beat his own woman? But if I don't do that, he will definitely not live today, I also know that he has always hated me in his heart, because I did not fulfill my original promise to him, I said when I was with him that I would be good to her, at that time I also overestimated my own ability, I thought about bringing back an outside woman, maybe the people in the village would not use these rules of the family to restrain her, to restrain us, but I was wrong, the people in the family are not only against the entry of this foreign woman from her, but also if you want her to stay here, you still have to be treated the same as their women。

Because of this, I have changed little by little, I also know that my mother-in-law is almost dead to me now, he is not even willing to say a word to me when no one is at home, he should hate me, but so what, I actually have him in my heart, I am reluctant to let him go, since I have let my daughter leave here, then he has to stay with me, I did not ask him for any more children, because I am afraid that she will no longer be able to withstand the things that protect a child.

I only have him with me now, and I can't let her go, so I also want to keep her here, and I've been beating and scolding him, just to scare him and let him stay here with me. ”

"But Uncle Nie, don't you think that the opposite is for a woman, women eat soft and not hard? The more you are him, the more he hates you in his heart, the more he hates you, women need to be coaxed, and only coaxing a woman well is a man's greatest ability. Mu Yuntian said to him.

"This may be the thoughts of people outside you, I know this, but it doesn't work in us at all, maybe you can make a woman happy outside of you, and the woman will obediently accompany you, but if I coax my mother-in-law and treat him well, then he really won't live to this day. ”

"Alas, what a place to achieve feudal rules, hurt so many women!" the mayor couldn't help but sigh.

Nie Damin was undoubtedly right in what he said, and the environment they were in had to let him do it.