The baby looks a little unhappy, and she naturally has reason to be unhappy.

The summer vacation is over, and the school is back to school. All this is an unfriendly thing for the baby, for her, what she is more willing to do is to play games at home, this is the life that the baby likes more, this is the life that the baby yearns for the most.

Zhang Dawei and Melissa can naturally see that the baby is very unhappy, and of course they understand that the baby does not want to go to school.

It's a very understandable thing, although it is fun and fun in school. But children like to stay at home, which is more normal. This kind of performance is definitely not just a child like a baby.

What's more, Zhang Dawei and Melissa also know that there is more reason why the baby does not want to go to school than other children.

In the final analysis, the home is more interesting and fun, you can row, swim, fish, pick melons and fruits, such games and life, of course, are full of fun for the baby, and it is normal for her not to want to go to school.

In addition, there are Xiaobai and Pooh at home, which are good friends and game partners of the baby. With the company of these little ones, it naturally means that it is normal for the baby not to want to go to school, and she wants to play games with her friends.

"Baby, as much as you want to stay at home, we need to go to school when we grow up. Holding the sullen baby, Zhang Dawei explained softly, "At school, you can meet new classmates, and you can play games with new friends." And there, you can learn a lot of useful knowledge, and you will be smarter and stronger. ”

The pouting baby was still not happy, and she clearly did not agree with what her father said. Even if it is described well in school, the baby is also a child who has gone to kindergarten. Even if your baby does enjoy kindergarten at some times, she still prefers to stay at home because it is more fun.

"Baby, we're still the same as before. You go to school in the morning, and I will pick you up at noon for lunch and rest. Go to school again in the afternoon, and you can play games with Xiaobai after school. "Zhang Dawei doesn't feel troublesome at all, he thinks this kind of 'day study' is very good, and he also thinks that it is also a good thing for the baby to stay at home more.

The baby was depressed, she was very unhappy, "Dad, there is little time to read in kindergarten, I can go home and play." Elementary school is different, primary school has to be in school for a long time every day, and I don't have time to play games with Xiaobai!"

"How can there be no time!" Zhang Dawei immediately retorted, telling the truth, "although I may stay in school a little longer than when I was in kindergarten." But you will still have hours of playing games with Xiaobai every day, not to mention the weekend, you can always play games with Xiaobai on the weekend, or we go on a trip. ”

The baby is still unhappy, she knows that although she doesn't like to go to kindergarten, she still has to go to kindergarten. Even if the baby girl wants to express her opinions, she knows that there are many things to discuss with her parents.

It's just that the baby is also very clear, even if the parents respect some of her opinions. It's just that she doesn't have much say in the matter of reading. It's not just reading, there are many things, it's all the parents who make the decisions, even if the baby doesn't like it very much, but can only be obedient and obedient.

This is also a matter of no way, the baby does have her thoughts, Zhang Dawei and Melissa are indeed willing to respect some of the baby's ideas and opinions, which is naturally no problem, this is their true thoughts.

It's just that Zhang Dawei and Melissa also know very well that the baby is still just a child, and some of her ideas are still very one-sided.

In such a situation, of course, it is up to Mom and Dad to come up with ideas for them, and that's no problem!

It is important to respect children, but it is not necessary to say that everything is done according to the children's ideas.

Zhang Dawei and Melissa also considered letting the baby self-study at home, in fact, in the United States, children do not go to school, but stay at home to learn by themselves, which is not uncommon, and it can even be said that it is not uncommon.

But in that case, it is more because of the child's personality factors, and it is also very likely that the parents are not working properly.

Even if Zhang Dawei knows that the baby is very smart and a little genius, they still think that the baby needs to go to school. Learning knowledge in school is one thing, but it is more important to let the baby experiment with this society and learn to communicate with people.

"Dad, I don't go to school, I'm playing at home!" Enoch lay on Zhang Dawei's lap, looking at his father, looking a little nervous, "Dad, Xiaobai and Pooh don't go to school, I don't go to school!"

Looking at Enoch's performance, this little guy is completely putting himself on the same level as Xiaobai and Pooh. This little guy really likes to compare, and it seems that the treatment of Xiaobai and a few of them is the treatment that Enoch deserves.

"Enoch, of course you don't need to go to kindergarten!" Zhang Dawei couldn't help but hold his fat son's chubby face, and said with a smile, "You are still just a child, you don't need to go to school now." But when you grow up, you're going to school. ”

Enoch was relieved, he didn't know when he would grow up, but he knew he was still just a child. So of course Enoch can feel relieved, he can continue to stay at home and play games, and he can go crazy with Xiaobai.

Enoch still trusted his father, even if he sometimes felt that his father was not the best, and he knew that his father always liked to tease him. But Enoch believed his dad, his dad didn't joke about something, and once his dad made a promise, he would definitely keep it.

Enoch knew this, and the baby actually understood it, and these are all things that Zhang Dawei feels proud and proud of, because he and his children trust each other, and he gives the children a very good role model.

"Sweetheart, you need to go to school. Melissa held the baby, comforting at the same time, but also making sure of something, "You need to go to school to learn more, you need to have a normal growth environment." Family, school, workplace, I think that's all the process we all need to go through. You should know that we need to make the right choice at the right age. ”

The baby pouted, still struggling in vain, "But what about Enoch when I go to school?"

"You don't need to worry about him, your dad and I will take care of Enoch, you know we can take care of him. Melissa was amused and said to the baby, "And you know Enoch, he can wrestle with White, ride Pooh around our ranch, or take Little Joe for a run." Trust me, he's going to be busy and his life is full. ”

The baby had no strength at all, and weakly buried her little head in her mother's arms, looking like she had admitted defeat.

"Mommy, why did I grow up all of a sudden?" the baby was still unhappy, quite unhappy, "Mommy, can I not go to elementary school? I will also go to kindergarten, I am a child, I am the same age as the children in the kindergarten." ”

Melissa was speechless for a moment, because she knew that what the baby said was still the truth, and it was true.

The baby's going to primary school is not so 'skipping a grade', and she is indeed about the same age as some of the kindergarten children. But that's just it, it's not out of the ordinary for the baby to go to elementary school at this age.

Smart babies still need to go to kindergarten, she is a little genius, Zhang Dawei and Melissa are also full of confidence in the baby. But one thing is certain, naturally Zhang Dawei and Melissa will not give her some special treatment or expectations because the baby is very smart, they still want the baby to have a complete childhood.

So it's certain that even if the baby is still resisting, he still has to go to school obediently. The children who resist going to school are not one or two, the baby is just one of them, which is also a very ordinary manifestation of the baby.

"Dad, growing up is not fun at all!" The dejected baby lay on the sofa, the little one had her thoughts and feelings, "If I don't grow up, I can always play at home, I can play games with Xiaobai." ”

Zhang Dawei couldn't help but be happy, and said with a smile, "But no one can not grow up, this is a normal performance, this is growth." My precious daughter, although you don't feel good growing up now. But if you think about it, when you grow up, you will naturally have a lot of new discoveries, and you will feel that you can have a lot of interesting things when you grow up, which is very interesting!"

The baby is still pouting, she still doesn't seem to agree with some of these statements, maybe Dad is very reasonable, but the baby is only seeing some 'troubles' caused by growing up. The thought of needing to go to school when he grows up, and the thought of not being able to play games with his friends at home when he grows up, makes the baby feel sad.

There is no way, what Zhang Dawei can do is naturally comfort and encourage his baby daughter, this is what he can do. Even if Zhang Dawei really doesn't want to see his children grow up sometimes, he does prefer that his children stay by his side all the time, but he knows some realities.

Sometimes the reality is like this, and whether you want to or not, you need some fact of existence. Sometimes it must be admitted that there are some laws of nature that are absolutely not subject to human will.

So when you can't resist something, then accept and enjoy this new journey, maybe there will be some new discoveries, some new surprises!

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